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Light skin women are OVER RATED!
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Topic Started: Sep 13 2012, 03:09 PM (2,695 Views)
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Snidely Whiplash
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Sep 15 2012, 02:27 AM
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I think it's because a lot of brothas usually sweatin' the light skin girls. Even if their uglier or heavier than comparable dark skin girls. So I think that's why some of 'em develop that attitude.
Maybe they just found these heavier and uglier light skin girls attractive. Ummm can you speak for all of them and deem what is attractive to them? UHHH nope you cant. I will say that many I have met are damn full of themselves, but I meet a lot of brown skin and dark skin ones full of themselves too.
Hey SUA, it's been a few days huh. As for the weight and looks, I know my sex and I'm pretty confident that if that sista was dark with the same features (heavier, ugly), they wouldn't give her the time of day. In fact for many years, the joke was about brothas dating fat and ugly white girls when they could have been with a sista who was at least the equivalent in appearance other than color.
But looks don't matter to black men with non black women. That's a fact. And good looks in black women don't really matter to black men either, because they want a woman to be less than he. In other words, to bow down and be beneath him. For instance, like Sam always says that he don't bother with women who won't bow down and worship him. So a good looking black woman is a turn off for most black men because they associate self esteem with looks. They don't want a woman who feels good about herself regardless of what she looks like. If he can get a beautiful woman with a low esteem, he'll get excited over her.
No my dear. I don't know how true it might have been that looks don't matter to black men with non black women. I can attest that is and has not been the case for the most part in the last 10/15 years from my observation. As for black women, my experience and I think a lot of brothas can relate, if a sista is fine a lot of 'em expect the world and believe the men ought to feel greatful. I don't think a lot of men in our culture need a woman to bow down. We just don't women to try to be like a man in the relationship. Just as many woman would have a problem with men who behave effeminately in a relationship.
So you can speak for all men and you can speak for women too? My word you are full of yourself! I don't about anyone else but I can speak for you hun
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negroplease
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Sep 15 2012, 08:00 AM
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I think it's because a lot of brothas usually sweatin' the light skin girls. Even if their uglier or heavier than comparable dark skin girls. So I think that's why some of 'em develop that attitude.
Maybe they just found these heavier and uglier light skin girls attractive. Ummm can you speak for all of them and deem what is attractive to them? UHHH nope you cant. I will say that many I have met are damn full of themselves, but I meet a lot of brown skin and dark skin ones full of themselves too.
Hey SUA, it's been a few days huh. As for the weight and looks, I know my sex and I'm pretty confident that if that sista was dark with the same features (heavier, ugly), they wouldn't give her the time of day. In fact for many years, the joke was about brothas dating fat and ugly white girls when they could have been with a sista who was at least the equivalent in appearance other than color.
But looks don't matter to black men with non black women. That's a fact. And good looks in black women don't really matter to black men either, because they want a woman to be less than he. In other words, to bow down and be beneath him. For instance, like Sam always says that he don't bother with women who won't bow down and worship him. So a good looking black woman is a turn off for most black men because they associate self esteem with looks. They don't want a woman who feels good about herself regardless of what she looks like. If he can get a beautiful woman with a low esteem, he'll get excited over her.
No my dear. I don't know how true it might have been that looks don't matter to black men with non black women. I can attest that is and has not been the case for the most part in the last 10/15 years from my observation. As for black women, my experience and I think a lot of brothas can relate, if a sista is fine a lot of 'em expect the world and believe the men ought to feel greatful. I don't think a lot of men in our culture need a woman to bow down. We just don't women to try to be like a man in the relationship. Just as many woman would have a problem with men who behave effeminately in a relationship.
So you can speak for all men and you can speak for women too? My word you are full of yourself!
I don't about anyone else but I can speak for you hun I bet you can!
I can speak for you too!
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negroplease
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Sep 15 2012, 08:02 AM
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Yes PSA, what is acting like the man in the relationship?
Describe these behaviors for me.
You forgot to answer this for me by the way PSA!
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Snidely Whiplash
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Sep 15 2012, 02:57 PM
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Yes PSA, what is acting like the man in the relationship?
Describe these behaviors for me.
You forgot to answer this for me by the way PSA! We kinda went through this with the competition thing earlier. Basically women who tend to be overly aggressive, assertive, take charge, loud, lacking in some of the softer feminine qualities, and some of the other qualities often associated with men.
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Sep 15 2012, 08:06 PM
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I kind of didn't see that answer, but it just looks like you want women subservient to you.
I see, gotta feel like you are the most important.
Really aggressive may be a bit much, but you don't want an assertive woman.
Haha, if this don't sound like the qualities of a woman beater!
Can't have anyone be better than you now can you.
You idiots crack me up.
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negroplease
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Sep 15 2012, 08:07 PM
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Just like Cissly said, the terrible qualities you possess, you don't want a woman to possess.
Hypocrisy at its finest.
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negroplease
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Sep 15 2012, 08:10 PM
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Can't have an assertive woman sticking up for herself now can ya?
Can't have a go getter woman now can ya?
You might find out she doesn't need to depend on you.
Can't have a take charge woman, good lord a woman who makes her own decisions and handles her own problems well is too much.
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Sep 15 2012, 09:43 PM
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Why do the majority of Yellow bones, light skinned, red bones or whatever hell else ya wanna call yo self act so ARROGANT and COCKY?!! Most of ya,ll Mutts do not even act like a true African American Black women! And yes i am a dark skinned brother speaking this! I been with a yellow bone and all the mutt could talk about is how men always hitting on her, always taking wack azz pictures of her self, and talking about how she MIXED with this and that.
Just because it is light do not always make it right! Even heavy obese light mutts got a big head and a sundae away from 300 pounds! These types of women believe they can get ANY man and proudly act like it too. My experience very self-centered, sensitive, and false confidence. Never will i give a light woman the time of day again!
They act like they too good to talk to people who not WHITE OOOPS I mean light like them! They hate on dark skin women and believe every dark man wants them..newsflash not all dark men want you!! True brothers know a dark woman is truly black in all essence. Brothers into light women..might as well get you a "Becky" Over-rated in what way?
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Sep 16 2012, 02:17 AM
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Can't have an assertive woman sticking up for herself now can ya?
Can't have a go getter woman now can ya?
You might find out she doesn't need to depend on you.
Can't have a take charge woman, good lord a woman who makes her own decisions and handles her own problems well is too much. You are free to be what ever type of woman you are. Nothing wrong with that. There is also a strength along with beauty that exist in the feminity I describe
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Glenn D.
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Sep 16 2012, 12:22 PM
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The only advantage of dating light skinned women is that you can see them in the dark... Makes it that much harder for them to go through your wallet when you get up to go to the bathroom
Edited by Glenn D., Sep 16 2012, 12:23 PM.
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