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Light skin women are OVER RATED!
Topic Started: Sep 13 2012, 03:09 PM (2,697 Views)
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cisslybee2012
Sep 14 2012, 03:06 PM
psalongo
Sep 14 2012, 01:52 PM
shutupalready
Sep 14 2012, 10:27 AM
psalongo
Sep 13 2012, 04:18 PM
I think it's because a lot of brothas usually sweatin' the light skin girls. Even if their uglier or heavier than comparable dark skin girls. So I think that's why some of 'em develop that attitude.
Maybe they just found these heavier and uglier light skin girls attractive.

Ummm can you speak for all of them and deem what is attractive to them?


UHHH nope you cant.


I will say that many I have met are damn full of themselves, but I meet a lot of brown skin and dark skin ones full of themselves too.


Hey SUA, it's been a few days huh. As for the weight and looks, I know my sex and I'm pretty confident that if that sista was dark with the same features (heavier, ugly), they wouldn't give her the time of day. In fact for many years, the joke was about brothas dating fat and ugly white girls when they could have been with a sista who was at least the equivalent in appearance other than color.
But looks don't matter to black men with non black women.

That's a fact.

And good looks in black women don't really matter to black men either, because they want a woman to be less than he. In other words, to bow down and be beneath him. For instance, like Sam always says that he don't bother with women who won't bow down and worship him.

So a good looking black woman is a turn off for most black men because they associate self esteem with looks. They don't want a woman who feels good about herself regardless of what she looks like.

If he can get a beautiful woman with a low esteem, he'll get excited over her.

No, I said that I wont bother with a woman with too much drama.

Do try to at least put some effort when quoting me.
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cisslybee2012
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sam_wilson
Sep 14 2012, 08:43 PM
No, I said that I wont bother with a woman with too much drama.

Do try to at least put some effort when quoting me.
But I did quote you correctly Sam. :)

You said before that you avoid women won't bow down and worship you like the plague. :D :D :D :D
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cisslybee2012
Sep 14 2012, 08:46 PM
sam_wilson
Sep 14 2012, 08:43 PM
No, I said that I wont bother with a woman with too much drama.

Do try to at least put some effort when quoting me.
But I did quote you correctly Sam. :)

You said before that you avoid women won't bow down and worship you like the plague. :D :D :D :D
I avoid women with drama like the plague.
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sam_wilson
Sep 14 2012, 08:56 PM
cisslybee2012
Sep 14 2012, 08:46 PM
sam_wilson
Sep 14 2012, 08:43 PM
No, I said that I wont bother with a woman with too much drama.

Do try to at least put some effort when quoting me.
But I did quote you correctly Sam. :)

You said before that you avoid women won't bow down and worship you like the plague. :D :D :D :D
I avoid women with drama like the plague.
I understand.

But that's not what you said before. :)
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psalongo
Sep 14 2012, 03:20 PM
cisslybee2012
Sep 14 2012, 03:06 PM
psalongo
Sep 14 2012, 01:52 PM
shutupalready
Sep 14 2012, 10:27 AM
psalongo
Sep 13 2012, 04:18 PM
I think it's because a lot of brothas usually sweatin' the light skin girls. Even if their uglier or heavier than comparable dark skin girls. So I think that's why some of 'em develop that attitude.
Maybe they just found these heavier and uglier light skin girls attractive.

Ummm can you speak for all of them and deem what is attractive to them?


UHHH nope you cant.


I will say that many I have met are damn full of themselves, but I meet a lot of brown skin and dark skin ones full of themselves too.


Hey SUA, it's been a few days huh. As for the weight and looks, I know my sex and I'm pretty confident that if that sista was dark with the same features (heavier, ugly), they wouldn't give her the time of day. In fact for many years, the joke was about brothas dating fat and ugly white girls when they could have been with a sista who was at least the equivalent in appearance other than color.
But looks don't matter to black men with non black women.

That's a fact.

And good looks in black women don't really matter to black men either, because they want a woman to be less than he. In other words, to bow down and be beneath him. For instance, like Sam always says that he don't bother with women who won't bow down and worship him.

So a good looking black woman is a turn off for most black men because they associate self esteem with looks. They don't want a woman who feels good about herself regardless of what she looks like.

If he can get a beautiful woman with a low esteem, he'll get excited over her.

No my dear. I don't know how true it might have been that looks don't matter to black men with non black women. I can attest that is and has not been the case for the most part in the last 10/15 years from my observation.

As for black women, my experience and I think a lot of brothas can relate, if a sista is fine a lot of 'em expect the world and believe the men ought to feel greatful.

I don't think a lot of men in our culture need a woman to bow down. We just don't women to try to be like a man in the relationship. Just as many woman would have a problem with men who behave effeminately in a relationship.
So you can speak for all men and you can speak for women too?


My word you are full of yourself!
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cisslybee2012
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@psa

Women trying to be like men is women bowing down. The man pulling her down to his level and below it. If a woman was supposed to be like a man, then she would be born a man.

A lot of men think women are supposed to be playful and sex minded like men, but when the baby comes, the man want no part of her, and may even try to go through the court system to take the baby away from her, which isn't normal behavior.

A woman is not supposed to be a like a man. A woman has to be responsible and if a man has a problem with that then he's a man women to need to avoid like the plague because he's a child. He's nothing but trouble.
Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 14 2012, 09:44 PM.
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negroplease

Yes PSA, what is acting like the man in the relationship?

Describe these behaviors for me.

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cisslybee2012
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He's means being vaginal minded.

Remember Azuma's rants?

To be sexually unrestrained and willing to do anything.
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And a woman is always a fool to try to follow that protocol.

Because he's not going to help her out with anything arising out this sex mindedness. He won't pass up an opportunity to sell her out.

It's never a good idea to go his route.

If she's smart, she'll dump him. ;)

If she's desperate and not smart, she'll put up with him playing head games with her, disrespecting her, bullying her, selling her out, and even beating her.

The more she tries to build a bridge to him, the more he stabs her in back.
Edited by cisslybee2012, Sep 14 2012, 09:54 PM.
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Sep 14 2012, 10:24 AM
zecharia
Sep 14 2012, 09:54 AM
If I knew the majority of "light skinned" women, I could make a bombastic staement like that too. :'(
EXACTLY!

Aint these people a trip!
Some say the dumbest things, SUA.
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