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Which do you think is more painful?; I hope Marcus chimes in.
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Topic Started: Sep 7 2012, 08:18 AM (2,157 Views)
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cisslybee2012
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Sep 8 2012, 05:41 PM
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- Sep 8 2012, 05:33 PM
Some women I know go crazy when they find out a man cheated on them. They would try to fight the other women,burn the man clothes or get him fired from his job.
For me, when I find out a man cheats I forgive and move on. I also don't take too many men seriously anymore. Many of them are full of shit.
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Sep 8 2012, 07:33 PM
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As always, it is best to go through such romantic highs & lows when you are young.
An experience such as heartbreak or breaking someone's heart is only bad if you don't learn anything from it, and use it to help you grow.
Good or bad, bitter or sweet, hopefully a wise person will embrace all of it, so they are best prepared when true love rather sexily walks by.
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VoiceofReason
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Sep 8 2012, 09:00 PM
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- Sep 7 2012, 08:18 AM
Having someone tell you they love you but they aren't ready for a relationship, only to get into one a few weeks later, essentially rejecting you and telling you you weren't good enough or cheating on you?
Alright, have at it or not!
Just asking!
Lol! Being cheated on would be more painful to me - well, it would be painful initially, but I'd believe my finding out would be for the best.
Someone being upfront - not really painful, maybe hard to hear but I'd rather hear it.
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Sep 8 2012, 09:00 PM
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- Sep 8 2012, 07:33 PM
As always, it is best to go through such romantic highs & lows when you are young.
An experience such as heartbreak or breaking someone's heart is only bad if you don't learn anything from it, and use it to help you grow.
Good or bad, bitter or sweet, hopefully a wise person will embrace all of it, so they are best prepared when true love rather sexily walks by. Here here!
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VoiceofReason
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Sep 8 2012, 09:02 PM
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- Glenn D.
- Sep 8 2012, 03:11 PM
What all men must understand is this. The pussy and everything that comes with it belongs to the woman, not you. She can do anything she wants with it. Give it to whoever she wants. Whenever she wants. The decisions a woman makes about her body have nothing to do with you. Also dont take these decisions to heart. The reasoning behind these decisions are usually a logic you'd never understand. Often women dont understand them either.
If a woman says that she likes you, but she's not ready to enter into a relationship. She's probably being totally honest with you. However that information is is valid for about 15 minutes, or the attention span of the average woman... You cant take it personal when a woman drops something like this on you. Take it like a man and move on. It's nothing personal... your just not the one. Today. Never give up on women because one dropped this kind of a bomb on you. Be thankfull that she was honest enough to put her cards on the table. She must be a decent woman to do that.Keep faith in women in general... yours will be along soon enough. In the mean time try to bone out her girl friends, sisters, and momma if you can... She wont mind, after all your not good enough for her. Lol! Priceless. Really - price less.
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Sep 8 2012, 10:07 PM
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- Sep 7 2012, 08:18 AM
Having someone tell you they love you but they aren't ready for a relationship, only to get into one a few weeks later, essentially rejecting you and telling you you weren't good enough or cheating on you?
Alright, have at it or not!
Just asking!
Lol!
Being cheated on would be more painful to me - well, it would be painful initially, but I'd believe my finding out would be for the best. Someone being upfront - not really painful, maybe hard to hear but I'd rather hear it. Do you really think its being upfront if they said I am not ready for a relationship but get in one a few weeks later? It sounds more like lying and beating around the bush, when they could have just said I don't want to be in a relationship with you. That's UpFront!
Glenn is a mess, I love it.
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Sep 8 2012, 11:18 PM
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Having someone tell you they love you but they aren't ready for a relationship, only to get into one a few weeks later, essentially rejecting you and telling you you weren't good enough or cheating on you?
Alright, have at it or not!
Just asking!
Lol!
Being cheated on would be more painful to me - well, it would be painful initially, but I'd believe my finding out would be for the best. Someone being upfront - not really painful, maybe hard to hear but I'd rather hear it. Nobody's heart been broken.
A crush isn't love.
And a disappointment from a crush isn't a broken heart.
Most humans have no idea what love is.
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Sep 8 2012, 11:41 PM
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- shutupalready
- Sep 7 2012, 08:18 AM
Having someone tell you they love you but they aren't ready for a relationship, only to get into one a few weeks later, essentially rejecting you and telling you you weren't good enough or cheating on you?
Alright, have at it or not!
Just asking!
Lol!
Being cheated on would be more painful to me - well, it would be painful initially, but I'd believe my finding out would be for the best. Someone being upfront - not really painful, maybe hard to hear but I'd rather hear it.
Do you really think its being upfront if they said I am not ready for a relationship but get in one a few weeks later? It sounds more like lying and beating around the bush, when they could have just said I don't want to be in a relationship with you. That's UpFront! Glenn is a mess, I love it. "Upfront" in the sense that they let me know they are not into me. The details never mattered to me.
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negroplease
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Sep 9 2012, 09:18 AM
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I can dig that Truth.
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VoiceofReason
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Sep 9 2012, 09:49 AM
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A lot of people ask, "why did he or she lie about it". They lied because they are a liar and/or a coward, or both. Don't take it personal.
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