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Kellie Wells------was sexually abused
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Topic Started: Aug 8 2012, 01:14 AM (1,675 Views)
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Truth95
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Aug 12 2012, 02:19 AM
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Some women after being sexually abused as a child end up becoming a lesbian.
Edited by Truth95, Aug 12 2012, 02:23 AM.
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Marcus
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Aug 12 2012, 02:30 AM
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I dated a woman that told that that she was raped when she was younger, and now when I look back on it I think that had an effect on our relationship.
She was probably more abusive towards you, because she saw as being submissive and weak. It's nothing personal about you, but women who have suffered abuse at a young age only respect men who puts hands on them. If the woman gets help for prior abuse, then she won't be like that.
Have you ever dated a woman that experienced abuse growing up?
Damn near every Black woman I dated.
Maybe that's why a lot of black women today are having so many relationship issues, because of childhood issues that they are dealing with that messed them up.
Marcus, then why didn't you stay with your ex? Why not help her work through her "issues" from childhood, instead of dumping her? Wow, you dropped a good black woman when she was down......... Now that, is so sad...... Sari she CHEATED on me and when a woman cheats on me the relationship is over, because I can't trust her again.
At that point I can't help them work through their childhood issues.
When women have a good man in their lives that's trying to do right, they need to learn how to not mess it up.
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Truth95
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Aug 12 2012, 03:34 AM
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Here is a new video of Kellie Wells talking about her abuse.
http://www.nbcolympics.com/video/track-and-field/wells-of-strength-how-kellie-wells-overcame-abuse.html
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Aug 12 2012, 04:49 AM
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I dated a woman that told that that she was raped when she was younger, and now when I look back on it I think that had an effect on our relationship.
She was probably more abusive towards you, because she saw as being submissive and weak. It's nothing personal about you, but women who have suffered abuse at a young age only respect men who puts hands on them. If the woman gets help for prior abuse, then she won't be like that.
Have you ever dated a woman that experienced abuse growing up?
Damn near every Black woman I dated.
Maybe that's why a lot of black women today are having so many relationship issues, because of childhood issues that they are dealing with that messed them up.
Marcus, then why didn't you stay with your ex? Why not help her work through her "issues" from childhood, instead of dumping her? Wow, you dropped a good black woman when she was down......... Now that, is so sad......
Sari she CHEATED on me and when a woman cheats on me the relationship is over, because I can't trust her again. At that point I can't help them work through their childhood issues. When women have a good man in their lives that's trying to do right, they need to learn how to not mess it up. Marcus,
If she cheated on you then it's because you're whack.
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G. A. W.
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Aug 12 2012, 08:29 AM
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- Marcus
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I dated a woman that told that that she was raped when she was younger, and now when I look back on it I think that had an effect on our relationship.
She was probably more abusive towards you, because she saw as being submissive and weak. It's nothing personal about you, but women who have suffered abuse at a young age only respect men who puts hands on them. If the woman gets help for prior abuse, then she won't be like that.
Have you ever dated a woman that experienced abuse growing up?
Damn near every Black woman I dated.
Maybe that's why a lot of black women today are having so many relationship issues, because of childhood issues that they are dealing with that messed them up.
Marcus, then why didn't you stay with your ex? Why not help her work through her "issues" from childhood, instead of dumping her? Wow, you dropped a good black woman when she was down......... Now that, is so sad......
Sari she CHEATED on me and when a woman cheats on me the relationship is over, because I can't trust her again. At that point I can't help them work through their childhood issues. When women have a good man in their lives that's trying to do right, they need to learn how to not mess it up. Ok Marcus - I understand she CHEATD on you...
But...
Did you try to help her through the childhood issues she might have had...would she have cheated on you in the first place?
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Marcus
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Aug 13 2012, 09:29 PM
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Sari I tried to help her through her childhood issues but showing that I was a good man that loved her and would never do anything to harm her.
And the thanks I got was she went out and cheated on me.
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