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Topic Started: Jul 18 2012, 10:13 AM (1,678 Views)
negroplease

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Jul 18 2012, 11:31 AM
shutupalready
Jul 18 2012, 11:20 AM
Rick1
Jul 18 2012, 11:17 AM
There are thousands of people that don't believe in themselves so i imagine it would be very difficult to believe in and support another person.
Thanks guy!

I am not really an asshole, I just play one on TV!


Rick, you made such a good point. It makes me sad.

This is one of those reasons why I volunteer.

When I am not being an asswipe, I go out and help young girls and boys see the beauty in themselves.

Well at least I try to.
I knew you were a sister with a beautiful soul. Grab a mirror and take a look at the beauty in you.
Well Thanks

I knew that too!
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Bring back the bitch. Lol!!!!
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Jul 18 2012, 11:20 AM
Rick1
Jul 18 2012, 11:17 AM
There are thousands of people that don't believe in themselves so i imagine it would be very difficult to believe in and support another person.
Thanks GUYS!

I am not really an asshole, I just play one on TV!


Rick, you made such a good point. It makes me sad.

This is one of those reasons why I volunteer.

When I am not being an asswipe, I go out and help young girls and boys see the beauty in themselves.

Well at least I try to.
Super awesome. :wub: Don't discount any of your interactions with them.

Because..... when I was a 4th grader, Mrs. Bobby Lyle, was my substitute teacher. She had "pencil legs" that she joked about. She was my teacher for only a couple days but what a difference she made in my life. I went from sitting slouched over, half-paying attention in class, to sitting up straight and being totally engaged. She surely has no idea how positively she impacted me with her two words of encouragement.

One day, one time only, she got down to my level, locked eyes with me, and said, "You're smart." And I believed, that she believed, then I believed.

:D
Edited by VoiceofReason, Jul 18 2012, 04:30 PM.
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negroplease

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Jul 18 2012, 03:32 PM
Bring back the bitch. Lol!!!!
You never left us Rick!

Yo bitch ass will always be here!
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Jul 18 2012, 06:44 PM
Rick1
Jul 18 2012, 03:32 PM
Bring back the bitch. Lol!!!!
You never left us Rick!

Yo bitch ass will always be here!
Oh how I love SUA...
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Jul 18 2012, 10:13 AM
Ok

So I am going to ignore Cissly and respond regardless of what she says. My homegirl Truth made an excellent point. Who gives a fuck what Cissly says.

For me and for me only.

Support is.... and bear with me, it may be hard to verbalize.

I enjoy the companionship of my husband. He is my sounding board. We share our thoughts, ideas and dreams. He listens to them, helps me to achieve them, encourages me to go for what I need and want. And I do the same for him. If my world is crumbling, he helps me to pick it back up and put it together. Much like when I suffered the loss of a friend last year.

He is my best friend and there is nothing we wont do for each other. Oh and check this out, we submit to each other. There is no, I do everything and he bosses me around or vice versa.

I can be myself and be comfortable with him. I do not have to put up a front for him. I dont have to fight for his attention. He understands that I may need time to myself or I might need comfort.

He wipes my tears away, he protects me if I feel threatened, he helps me move forward in life.

This sounds so sappy! But its true.

There is probably much more I could say in terms of support, but who wants to read all that.

I hope this was something Truth girl!

I would love to hear more about what you find supportive of your husband.



Sexy cool baby girl! Seems that you and your husband have a gem of a relationship with all of the necessary components to keep it strong. Good for you! Having a willing and equal PARTNER is key. I've witnessed too many relationships that are unbalanced where there is a giver and a taker . In my view, you can have it all, but if there is no TRUE partnership, it will fall apart eventually. Just my opinion. I admire your tenacity in not giving a damn about what cissly or anyone else might say. Seen a different side of you SUA and it is delightfully beautiful. Not that you wuddn't beautiful before mind you! ^_^
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Let's hold hands & sing....... :D



Ok. The song may not be appropriate. I just like the song. ^_^
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So, V. What does being a supportive husband mean to you? And vice versa if you will?
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Jul 18 2012, 10:13 AM
Ok

So I am going to ignore Cissly and respond regardless of what she says. My homegirl Truth made an excellent point. Who gives a fuck what Cissly says.

For me and for me only.

Support is.... and bear with me, it may be hard to verbalize.

I enjoy the companionship of my husband. He is my sounding board. We share our thoughts, ideas and dreams. He listens to them, helps me to achieve them, encourages me to go for what I need and want. And I do the same for him. If my world is crumbling, he helps me to pick it back up and put it together. Much like when I suffered the loss of a friend last year.

He is my best friend and there is nothing we wont do for each other. Oh and check this out, we submit to each other. There is no, I do everything and he bosses me around or vice versa.

I can be myself and be comfortable with him. I do not have to put up a front for him. I dont have to fight for his attention. He understands that I may need time to myself or I might need comfort.

He wipes my tears away, he protects me if I feel threatened, he helps me move forward in life.

This sounds so sappy! But its true.

There is probably much more I could say in terms of support, but who wants to read all that.

I hope this was something Truth girl!

I would love to hear more about what you find supportive of your husband.



cool u found what u were looking for



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Jul 18 2012, 07:32 PM
So, V. What does being a supportive husband mean to you? And vice versa if you will?
Being a supportive man to ME means being a great PARTNER as, I alluded to earlier. It means supporting her dreams no matter how bold, encouraging her, not being judgmental, knowing how to disagree without being disagreeable. Letting her know that the beauty inside of her is much, much more important to me than any physical beauty can dare to be. It means not being afraid, ashamed or embarassed to tell her that I love her in front of and around ANYONE. It means giving her THE VERY BEST of who and what I am, being keenly aware that "very best" doesn't mean perfect, flawless or without shortcomings. It means paying attention to the little things that she likes and letting her know that those "little" things are just as important to me as anything that she considers significant. It means letting her know that I admire her strength as much as she does mine and don't mind her being strong when I need HER strength. It means letting her know that if it ever comes down to it, I will lay down my life to protect her and our offsprings without conditions. It means letting her know that I will shovel cat feces if that is what it takes to provide for her and if that is what I need to do and do it with pride. It means letting her know in every conceivable way that I always want her BESIDE, and never behind me. It means making love to her in a way that is all together sensual, inviting, transforming, consuming, giving, intense, uninhibited and indescribably, breathtakingly passionate. It means, yes, being her lover and her friend. It means ALWAYS defending her honor. It means NEVER taking anything about her for granted. It means letting her know that there is NOTHING that I will not share with her. It means cheering her independence as fervently as I do my own and knowing that she has her OWN life, friends, etc., that doesn't necessarily have to include me. It means admitting when I'm wrong and never letting my ego prevent me from saying that I'm sorry or that I apologize. I could go on, but I will GLADLY, WILLINGLY, UNAPOLOGETICALLY and LOVING give all of this to my lady IF she shows that she is ready and worthy of it. However, there are limits and some simple conditions. I can't give of myself to someone that is not prepared to be a willing partner and not willing to give the same as she's willing to get. That is not balance and doomed to failure in my opinion. I'm a giver Truth, but I am not a fool. See, that wasn't so bad! ;)


I'll have to get to what I consider a supportive woman at some other time. Stay tuned! :)
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