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| Topic Started: Jul 18 2012, 10:13 AM (1,673 Views) | |
| negroplease | Jul 18 2012, 10:13 AM Post #1 |
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Ok So I am going to ignore Cissly and respond regardless of what she says. My homegirl Truth made an excellent point. Who gives a fuck what Cissly says. For me and for me only. Support is.... and bear with me, it may be hard to verbalize. I enjoy the companionship of my husband. He is my sounding board. We share our thoughts, ideas and dreams. He listens to them, helps me to achieve them, encourages me to go for what I need and want. And I do the same for him. If my world is crumbling, he helps me to pick it back up and put it together. Much like when I suffered the loss of a friend last year. He is my best friend and there is nothing we wont do for each other. Oh and check this out, we submit to each other. There is no, I do everything and he bosses me around or vice versa. I can be myself and be comfortable with him. I do not have to put up a front for him. I dont have to fight for his attention. He understands that I may need time to myself or I might need comfort. He wipes my tears away, he protects me if I feel threatened, he helps me move forward in life. This sounds so sappy! But its true. There is probably much more I could say in terms of support, but who wants to read all that. I hope this was something Truth girl! I would love to hear more about what you find supportive of your husband. |
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| Cartman | Jul 18 2012, 10:21 AM Post #2 |
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Wow SUA, I have never seen this side of you. You're actually a nice and caring woman. |
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| G. A. W. | Jul 18 2012, 10:25 AM Post #3 |
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SUA! You have a GREAT man!!! I'm very happy for you!!! Wonderful! |
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| Rick1 | Jul 18 2012, 10:26 AM Post #4 |
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Ain't that tweet!!!
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| VoiceofReason | Jul 18 2012, 10:59 AM Post #5 |
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I think that's beautiful. Thank you, SUA (pronounced shooa). Honestly, I think sometimes we get bogged down in the day to day and don't see the real reasons we are with the partner we have chosen. Some time ago my husband was being vetted, and I was asked a series of questions about his character. While going through the interview, I teamed up, because the questions made me remember all the wonderful reason I chose him in the first place all those years ago. I think it's good to remember. |
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| VoiceofReason | Jul 18 2012, 11:02 AM Post #6 |
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And she'll still put her foot up an ass! Don't cha love it! |
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| VoiceofReason | Jul 18 2012, 11:15 AM Post #7 |
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I've told how my husband was supportive by telling me "no" while we were dating. It let me know that he believed certain positive things about me. And maybe a person has to believe in you in order to be supportive to you. |
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| Rick1 | Jul 18 2012, 11:17 AM Post #8 |
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There are thousands of people that don't believe in themselves so i imagine it would be very difficult to believe in and support another person. |
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| negroplease | Jul 18 2012, 11:20 AM Post #9 |
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Thanks GUYS! I am not really an asshole, I just play one on TV! Rick, you made such a good point. It makes me sad. This is one of those reasons why I volunteer. When I am not being an asswipe, I go out and help young girls and boys see the beauty in themselves. Well at least I try to. Edited by negroplease, Jul 18 2012, 01:29 PM.
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| BGF | Jul 18 2012, 11:31 AM Post #10 |
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I knew you were a sister with a beautiful soul. Grab a mirror and take a look at the beauty in you. |
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