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One night stands; One night stand that didn’t live up to expectations
Topic Started: Jul 11 2012, 09:52 PM (15,191 Views)
Veritas
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Sari
Jul 14 2012, 11:32 AM
What if it's not a one night stand, but it's not a committed relationship either?

What would that be? Where you're with a guy and you hook up now and then, get it on but he's not exclsive with you?

That's like an FB. Some people have FBs to keep the hanks off their backs when the itch just HAS to be scratched!
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kennyinbmore
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sam_wilson
Jul 14 2012, 05:57 PM
kennyinbmore
Jul 14 2012, 10:27 AM
Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 09:24 AM
Here's another point to be made. IF I were so inclined, I could get coochie everyday from different women, but for ME, it's NEVER been about that. I've never felt the need to just go out and get me some "pussy" just to satisfy an urge.
No worries my brother, I'll pick up your slack ;)
I can always count on Kenny to shoot straight from the hip.



That is....when he is not gripping the hips of a pie therapy session volunteer.
Some people play a role online my friend. I am who I am. A 47 year old man who spent most of his life married and now is single and going crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy :D :D
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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I understand, Kenny.

From my teens to my late 20s, I was either celibate, or in a relationship.

So when I got fed up with year long trips on the C-Train, and crappy relationships, I evolved into Doctor Eros, and began scheduling pie therapy sessions for women in need.
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VoiceofReason

Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 06:10 PM
Sari
Jul 14 2012, 11:32 AM
What if it's not a one night stand, but it's not a committed relationship either?

What would that be? Where you're with a guy and you hook up now and then, get it on but he's not exclsive with you?

That's like an FB. Some people have FBs to keep the hanks off their backs when the itch just HAS to be scratched!
Yeah. A friend, with benefits. Generally, neither one is exclusive with the other.
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shutupalready
Jul 14 2012, 08:52 AM
I have never had a one night stand though. They always came back for more.
This is one of the best response I'v seen regarding this topic.
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One night stands doesn't nesseccary apply to strangers only. My one night stands where with acquaintance, as well as, people I knew.

We enjoyed the moment to please our desires. As consenting adults I have no regrets only have fun memories.
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negroplease

cisslybee2012
Jul 14 2012, 10:55 AM
shutupalready
Jul 14 2012, 10:39 AM
Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 09:24 AM
shutupalready
Jul 14 2012, 08:50 AM
Veritas
Jul 13 2012, 10:21 PM
What rational person has sex with someone they've met on the first dayum night in this day and age of HIV, new forms of STDs that don't respond to conventional treatments and just plain psychotic people who know how to cloak their "crazy" very well until it's too late? Who the hell can connect with someone so quickly that they are willing to share such an intimate "moment" with them after a few hours of being together? One night stand? More like a one night "chance" of getting your ass hurt or killed or contracting a life long disease.
Lol.

V, I cant argue with this at all. But sometimes they happen.

And those who do it arent looking for that intimate connection, There are definitely pros and ckns to one night stands

Its all about who you are, your personality, if you can handle it, etc.
"its all about that animalistic pleasure and spontaneous moments of fun."

Coludn't agree with you more baby girl! In my mind that is what makes it irrational in my opinion because it is "animalistic". However, as I mentioned, I don't see it stopping because "risk" is a turn on for some people. For instance, people who have sex in unconventional places like airplane bathrooms, elevators, or airport corridors, etc., find the idea of possibly being "caught" a turn on. Someone sent me a pic once of this couple having sex high atop of a bridge. How the heck they got there, I have no idea. Again, I think that it lends credence to your comment. speaking strictly from a man's perspective and conversations that we men have from time to time, some cats like coochie strictly for the sake of coochie. The woman simply becomes an "object" and benefit their pleasure. They could care less about anything else about her. In their minds they have to "dehumanize" her and she becomes just one big coochie to them devoid of any other human qualities. Perhaps I'm old fashion in that regard, but I could never see a woman in that way and I DO think about how I would feel if someone viewed my daughter in that way. It's called having a conscience, at least for me.

Here's another point to be made. IF I were so inclined, I could get coochie everyday from different women, but for ME, it's NEVER been about that. I've never felt the need to just go out and get me some "pussy" just to satisfy an urge. I need to get to know the woman. Her likes, dislikes, her views on a broad range of topics, how she feels about her family, about Black people, about kids, about money, about relationships in general. Things like that. If she is willing to sex me on the first night, the first thing that is going to pop in my mind is how many other times has she done this and why she has such a low opinion of herself and her body. So I'm going to run like Ursaine Bolt in the other direction. Then I'm going to wonder whether she keeps her "pocket book" clean and healthy. If her punana smells like Jimmy Hoffa is rotting away up in there after 30 years or some things are flowing out of it that could be the topic of a sci fi movie, that is an INSTANT flag to get the hell on!!!

Thats what Im talking about boo!

I like men who like monogamy.

And arent on constant pussy quests!

I was just trying to show both sides.
If that's true then what makes Sam your E-love? :D

Why do you always tell him to get her? :D
Because Sam is my e-love.

Just because I prefer monogamy doesnt mean I cant be fond of others who dont.

How Sam lives his life has nothing to do with me. Nor do I disrespect those who monogamy is not for.

What a dumbass question Cissly.

I do find it noble when I find mennwho prefer monogamy like my husband and Veritas.

So?
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negroplease

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Jul 14 2012, 12:02 PM
To your point SUA.......

"And I hope you would feel the same way about men who do the same thing on the first night."I was simply giving a MAN's perspective, but touche' , the same applies, or it should, to men. Though you know as well as I do that for countless millenniums men and women have been held to different standards as it relates to sex and the number and kinds of sexual partners. That is a long held societal phenomenon. Women are expected to be, for the most part, "Wholesome", whatever that means. While a man like Wilt Chamberlain, who claims have bedded 10,000 women, is viewed as some kind of legendary hero. Again, humans are a strange species indeed! LOL!
Thats just it.


People who do the same thing should be held the the exact same standards.

Hypocrisy is damn hilarious.

A woman has a low sense of self but a man doesnt even though he is taking the same risks.

Dumb dumb dumb.
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negroplease

But either way I was talkjng about you and not society V.
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cisslybee2012
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Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 02:48 PM
cisslybee2012
Jul 14 2012, 12:11 PM
Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 12:02 PM
That is a long held societal phenomenon. Women are expected to be, for the most part, "Wholesome", whatever that means. While a man like Wilt Chamberlain, who claims have bedded 10,000 women, is viewed as some kind of legendary hero. Again, humans are a strange species indeed! LOL!
That isn't a phenomenon. It's slavery.

And I totally disagree with it.

A woman is incredibly stupid and totally at fault for abiding by such a lifestyle.

She's the monogamous ass at home for a man mowing the globe?

That isn't a phenomenon, it's pure insanity.

No whore on this planet deserves a monogamous partner.

A piece of cattle deserves nothing but another piece of cattle.
phe·nom·e·non (f-nm-nn, -nn)
n. pl. phe·nom·e·na (-n)
1. An occurrence, circumstance, or fact that is perceptible by the senses.
2. pl. phe·nom·e·nons
a. An unusual, significant, or unaccountable fact or occurrence; a marvel.
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To me it is indeed a phenomenon.
Slavery indeed is a phenomenon. :)

But what I was getting at is conscious stupidity in women. :)

Stupidity isn't a phenomenon, it's a choice.
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