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One night stands; One night stand that didn’t live up to expectations
Topic Started: Jul 11 2012, 09:52 PM (15,194 Views)
kennyinbmore
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Jul 14 2012, 10:41 AM
But having sex on the first night doesnt necessarily mean you have a low opinion of your body.

And I hope you would feel the same way about men who do the same thing on the first night.
Like Glenn said it's not really complicated. If two people meet and are hot for each other for whatever reason it's on. I don't see anything wrong with that
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Glenn D.
Jul 14 2012, 10:34 AM
Yall making it seem too complicated. One night stand.... You meet, like each other, fuck, thats it... seee ya
It isn't complicated at all.

No brain activity whatsoever.
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kennyinbmore
Jul 14 2012, 10:34 AM
Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 10:00 AM
Yes, there is some truth to that, but if you can be with somone for years and not know them, something is definitely wrong with that. Either you are ignoring things that you are seeing or being too trusting.
some people are very good at keeping secrets my brother. I mean how many times has some mass murderer gone postal and when they interview his parents, they had no clue because he was a completely normal child? How many women get divorced after 10 or 15 years because they found out their man was having an affair. I get your point, but in my opinion it's not as cut and dried as you're making it out to be.
Not saying that it is cut and dreid my brotha. You are right, some people are very adept at keeping secrets. I'm simply saying that, notwithstanding, there will always be signs and if you read the signs and not be in denial you can sometimes exposed those secrets. As an aside, if nothing esle, this topic indicates that as men we have different ways of seeing the same thing. You and Glenn, perhaps, have no problem with sexing a woman you've just met. I, on the other hand, don't want to have sex with a woman I care nothing about or simply just want to get off with. Sex (loving making) is sacred to me. I, PERSONALLY, can get much more satisfaction making love to a woman that I care something about than just simply "fucking" a woman that I don't. For me there has to be some semblance of attachment on some level. Not saying that either of you guys are wrong or that my point is RIGHT or immutable. It's simply my POV. I don't like "pussy" for the sake of "pussy". Never have and never will. For that simple reason, I wouldn't allow myself to be in a compromsing situation that would lead to a one night stand. That is something that I do have control over. My "Johnson" is a one eyed dummy (LOL) and ain't no way in the hell that I'm going to let him (it) decide the kinds of sexual encounters that I become involved in. The "one eyed" dummy has gotten more men in trouble in a few minutes than they can get out of in a lifetime. Like any straight man, I ENJOY sex. I'm simply EXTREMELY selective and discerning about it.
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Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 11:26 AM
kennyinbmore
Jul 14 2012, 10:34 AM
Veritas
Jul 14 2012, 10:00 AM
Yes, there is some truth to that, but if you can be with somone for years and not know them, something is definitely wrong with that. Either you are ignoring things that you are seeing or being too trusting.
some people are very good at keeping secrets my brother. I mean how many times has some mass murderer gone postal and when they interview his parents, they had no clue because he was a completely normal child? How many women get divorced after 10 or 15 years because they found out their man was having an affair. I get your point, but in my opinion it's not as cut and dried as you're making it out to be.
Not saying that it is cut and dreid my brotha. You are right, some people are very adept at keeping secrets. I'm simply saying that, notwithstanding, there will always be signs and if you read the signs and not be in denial you can sometimes exposed those secrets. As an aside, if nothing esle, this topic indicates that as men we have different ways of seeing the same thing. You and Glenn, perhaps, have no problem with sexing a woman you've just met. I, on the other hand, don't want to have sex with a woman I care nothing about or simply just want to get off with. Sex (loving making) is sacred to me. I, PERSONALLY, can get much more satisfaction making love to a woman that I care something about than just simply "fucking" a woman that I don't. For me there has to be some semblance of attachment on some level. Not saying that either of you guys are wrong or that my point is RIGHT or immutable. It's simply my POV. I don't like "pussy" for the sake of "pussy". Never have and never will. For that simple reason, I wouldn't allow myself to be in a compromsing situation that would lead to a one night stand. That is something that I do have control over. My "Johnson" is a one eyed dummy (LOL) and ain't no way in the hell that I'm going to let him (it) decide the kinds of sexual encounters that I become involved in. The "one eyed" dummy has gotten more men in trouble in a few minutes than they can get out of in a lifetime. Like any straight man, I ENJOY sex. I'm simply EXTREMELY selective and discerning about it.
I find all of this............


Very interesting, indeed.
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Jul 14 2012, 11:26 AM
Not saying that it is cut and dreid my brotha. You are right, some people are very adept at keeping secrets. I'm simply saying that, notwithstanding, there will always be signs and if you read the signs and not be in denial you can sometimes exposed those secrets. As an aside, if nothing esle, this topic indicates that as men we have different ways of seeing the same thing. You and Glenn, perhaps, have no problem with sexing a woman you've just met. I, on the other hand, don't want to have sex with a woman I care nothing about or simply just want to get off with. Sex (loving making) is sacred to me. I, PERSONALLY, can get much more satisfaction making love to a woman that I care something about than just simply "fucking" a woman that I don't. For me there has to be some semblance of attachment on some level. Not saying that either of you guys are wrong or that my point is RIGHT or immutable. It's simply my POV. I don't like "pussy" for the sake of "pussy". Never have and never will. For that simple reason, I wouldn't allow myself to be in a compromsing situation that would lead to a one night stand. That is something that I do have control over. My "Johnson" is a one eyed dummy (LOL) and ain't no way in the hell that I'm going to let him (it) decide the kinds of sexual encounters that I become involved in. The "one eyed" dummy has gotten more men in trouble in a few minutes than they can get out of in a lifetime. Like any straight man, I ENJOY sex. I'm simply EXTREMELY selective and discerning about it.
Nothing wrong with that. I used to be you, then I went though 18 years of marriage beginning at age 19. Luckily my one eyed dummy doesn't outrank the "big guy" upstairs. ;) The one eyed dummy wants a lot, but the big guy makes sure he has his protective coat on :)
Edited by kennyinbmore, Jul 14 2012, 11:33 AM.
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G. A. W.
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What if it's not a one night stand, but it's not a committed relationship either?

What would that be? Where you're with a guy and you hook up now and then, get it on but he's not exclsive with you?

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Jul 14 2012, 11:32 AM
What if it's not a one night stand, but it's not a committed relationship either?

What would that be? Where you're with a guy and you hook up now and then, get it on but he's not exclsive with you?

That would describe my current situations :) That's more like Friends With Benefits ;)
Edited by kennyinbmore, Jul 14 2012, 11:35 AM.
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kennyinbmore
Jul 14 2012, 11:34 AM
Sari
Jul 14 2012, 11:32 AM
What if it's not a one night stand, but it's not a committed relationship either?

What would that be? Where you're with a guy and you hook up now and then, get it on but he's not exclsive with you?

That would describe my current situations :)
LOL

I recently "almost" was here.............

Then I hooked him up with my boss!

Uhm.... that was complicated.

LOL

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kennyinbmore
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Sari
Jul 14 2012, 11:35 AM
LOL

I recently "almost" was here.............

Then I hooked him up with my boss!

Uhm.... that was complicated.

LOL

Now why can't I find employees like you :D
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kennyinbmore
Jul 14 2012, 11:36 AM
Sari
Jul 14 2012, 11:35 AM
LOL

I recently "almost" was here.............

Then I hooked him up with my boss!

Uhm.... that was complicated.

LOL

Now why can't I find employees like you :D
LOL
LOL

Kenny - you ARE a whore !

I love ya's anyway though..........
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