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I dumped a hood rat
Topic Started: Jul 11 2012, 12:35 PM (2,223 Views)
Cartman
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Once again, I am not complaining.

I am just being cruel.

Some folks act like females like her don't exist, so I was just using her as an example.

I actually dumped her weeks ago.
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sam_wilson
Jul 11 2012, 01:59 PM
Deester,

Based on your romantic tales of woe, you may suffer from a Captain Save a Hoe complex.

Let hood rats do their thing.

You should focus on the man in the mirror.

Perhaps the man in your reflection should change his ways.


Nah-nah-nah....nah-nah.....
Yep. :D

Tsk, tsk, tsk.

When I was about 19, new to the dating scene.....a situation came up and I went through a brief period of (hate to admit this!) "I need a man who can help me." *complete with attitude and three snaps*

I was dating two guys. The guy who was willing to 'help' me turned out to be a control-freak. The guy who encouraged me and told me that I would figure it out without his help, turned out to be pretty awesome.
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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It just seems like you have a particular "type" of woman.

Perhaps you should engage in a bit of self-introspection before beginning another relationship.

Bottom feeders exist in every society.

If you can't control them, then it is best to avoid them.
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truthisrespect
Jul 11 2012, 02:05 PM
sam_wilson
Jul 11 2012, 01:59 PM
Deester,

Based on your romantic tales of woe, you may suffer from a Captain Save a Hoe complex.

Let hood rats do their thing.

You should focus on the man in the mirror.

Perhaps the man in your reflection should change his ways.


Nah-nah-nah....nah-nah.....
Yep. :D

Tsk, tsk, tsk.

When I was about 19, new to the dating scene.....a situation came up and I went through a brief period of (hate to admit this!) "I need a man who can help me." *complete with attitude and three snaps*

I was dating two guys. The guy who was willing to 'help' me turned out to be a control-freak. The guy who encouraged me and told me that I would figure it out without his help, turned out to be pretty awesome.
We're not talking about when you were 19.

We're talking about a chick in her late 20s.

I wasn't being a control freak. She was the being verbally abusive, putting me down, and etc.



@ Sam.

I am not going to allow her actions to prevent me from helping someone else.

I am not a captain save ho, because I do not back defend hood rat behavior.

She is the one who is going to end up losing everything and end up homeless.

I'm continuing my education to get more money in my wallet. That's the only thing I'm working on...

Oh, I am also going to the seven days week so I can get a rock hard chest and 23 inch biceps.
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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So....being light skinned is not enough for you?
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Cartman
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sam_wilson
Jul 11 2012, 02:10 PM
It just seems like you have a particular "type" of woman.

Perhaps you should engage in a bit of self-introspection before beginning another relationship.

Bottom feeders exist in every society.

If you can't control them, then it is best to avoid them.
I wasn't trying to control this person.

She would ask me for help, and when I offered her suggestions she would come up with excuses.

One time I told her that she needs to go to therapy for a personal issue she had. I even gave her the phone number to a mental health office that wouldn't charge her money, because she had medical.

She came up with every excuse in the world for not calling and scheduling an appointment.

BTW, she was the one who brought up therapy for herself.



Sam, this is one of the reasons why I feel welfare should only be issued to a person for two years (even welfare for kids through the parents).

Parents who get welfare for their kids don't even spend the money on their kids like their suppose to.



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Archaicwisdom
Jul 11 2012, 01:53 PM
She needs a father.
What people like her need to do is take responsibility for themselves.

A lot of people grow up without fathers, and don't end up being epic failures.

Stop excusing silly ass females.
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Damien,

All I can say is good for you. If you're unhappy in your relationship then it's time to move on.....

However, please make note that a relationship isn't designed to make you happy....

If you're not happy in the 1st place, being with a woman won't do it for you, in the LONG RUN.

It's best to work on making yourself happy NOW and when you've made your life as you wish it....

Then engage with her..............

Just my own personal opinions........
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Oh Sari, according to Mal, my ex girlfriend deserves respect just because she is Black.

LMFAO!!!

I'll respect the fact to stay the hell away from her and women like her.
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ALO

I was in a similar situation. I use to help this guy. He didn't have a thing and came from nothing. I felt sorry for him at first. Later, I finally realized he was using me. I learned my lesson from that type of man. Don't feel bad because alot of us will get used at one point in our lives.
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