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| Topic Started: May 30 2012, 11:00 PM (2,922 Views) | |
| Veritas | Jun 23 2012, 09:01 AM Post #161 |
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Cissly, serious question for you. Do you see men as ONLY sperm donors and that they should play no importnat role in a child's life? That seems to be implicit in many of your comments. There has been serious and long standing research and studies replete with reasons why and how a father's role in a child's life is very important. How do you do reconcile mothers who seem to have no maternal instincts? Women who kill and abuse their own children? While there is NO DOUBT that a mother's role is extremely important in the nurtuting of the child, it is NOT always more important than that of the father's. It depends on each individual circumstance in my opinion. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Jun 26 2012, 12:57 AM Post #162 |
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The REBEL
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I never said that, nor do I mean that. But I'm not like you V. I think in terms of a child's needs which is a mother's job. You're thinking in terms of a man's needs. But the child comes first. Case closed. As a mother, I wouldn't want the father anywhere near my child if he want no part of it. You can't force anyone into parenting. Such attempts has historically resulted in the murder of children. What child needs a selfish parent all wrapped up into themselves hanging around them? I have no concern for a man's confidence problems. That's of no benefit to anybody, least of all to himself. So my concern is for children. To prevent them from growing up with confidence problems. Children come first. Edited by cisslybee2012, Jun 26 2012, 01:01 AM.
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| June bug | Jun 27 2012, 06:17 PM Post #163 |
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That was very touching. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Jun 27 2012, 08:59 PM Post #164 |
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The REBEL
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Maybe, But not touching enough to make the sperm donor come and be her father.
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| Chicago | Jun 30 2012, 02:58 PM Post #165 |
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Hopefully he will get on the right track. |
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| Veritas | Jun 30 2012, 06:16 PM Post #166 |
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Only 3 words need to be said regarding my kid.....I LOVE MY DAUGHTER! She is a part me and I'm a part of her! Still don't see why anyone can walk away from their progeny, but I guess some have stated there are reasons. I just simply don't buy into ANY of 'em! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FyjKQvWKw8 |
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| Veritas | Jun 30 2012, 06:28 PM Post #167 |
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You are definitely RIGHT! You are NOT like me. That is an immutable fact! I don't consider myself "all knowing" on issues I have no actual real life point of reference on. Since you have no kids, how would you consider yourself an expert on the subject as it regards the needs of the child and the father's role in nurturing said child? If you say it is from looking at others realtionships with their children, then your point of reference is no diffrent from a number of people who have no kids and, I might add, glaringly non sequitur. You want to chalk it up as being about a man's "confidence"? Seriously? What brought you to this irretrievably flawed, didactic conclusion madam?
Edited by Veritas, Jun 30 2012, 06:30 PM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Jul 1 2012, 06:11 AM Post #168 |
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The REBEL
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Children come first. Case closed. There's nothing you can say or do to change that. And the good news is that some women are starting to come to their senses. I wouldn't have a silly ass man who thinks he's more important than children anywhere near my children. If the father don't want any part of his child, then he's doing the right thing to stay away. Period. Edited by cisslybee2012, Jul 1 2012, 06:50 AM.
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| Muhammad | Jul 1 2012, 11:23 AM Post #169 |
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Black men stand up and be men and take care of your children. |
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| Veritas | Jul 1 2012, 11:52 AM Post #170 |
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Your problem seems to be that you group ALL men into one big boiling pot of hatred and disdain. Who are you going to get to buy into that cissly? You are neither an expert on men or children, but insist on insinuating that you are. You have an issue with men PERIOD. Now I don't know what significant event happned in your life to cause you to have such unconventional and irrational feelings about men. I just hope that your cyberspace persona is just that and you don't go around in your real world promulgating such nonsense. When you get yourself a man and the two of you make babies together, come back and talk to me. otherwise, all you have is ridiculous theories, supposition and hyperbolic assertions. Edited by Veritas, Jul 1 2012, 11:53 AM.
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