The-----DIVORCE WALL

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The-----DIVORCE WALL
Topic Started: Dec 20 2011, 08:46 PM (19,994 Views)
Miami	Dec 21 2011, 01:42 PM Post #41
Posts: 3,856 Group: Members Member #293 Joined: Jan 13, 2010	kennyinbmore Dec 21 2011, 01:40 PM Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:16 PM A lot of those marriages were great marriages in those days And a lot of them weren't. Back then a woman stayed with an abusive husband because she needed his income to live. A woman stayed with her husband that cheated, single mothers were outcasts back then. Women don't have to put up with that crap now because they're working and making their own money. You're in some serious denial or just ignorant about the dynamics of marriage back then Most black women in those days were not in abusive relationships, I'm willing to bet you that it was a very small percentage.



Miami	Dec 21 2011, 01:44 PM Post #42
Posts: 3,856 Group: Members Member #293 Joined: Jan 13, 2010	Kennyinbmoore you said that you have been divorced twice, what would the most difficult part of the marriage for you that made you want to get out?



kennyinbmore	Dec 21 2011, 01:46 PM Post #43
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:44 PM Kennyinbmoore you said that you have been divorced twice, what would the most difficult part of the marriage for you that made you want to get out? Not to get into the details of my marriages, but my first wife cheated, so I divorced her. My second wife and I divorced mutually because of our religious differences. Any more questions?



kennyinbmore	Dec 21 2011, 01:48 PM Post #44
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:42 PM Most black women in those days were not in abusive relationships, I'm willing to bet you that it was a very small percentage. Feel free to talk to some elderly women. I have, for a project back in college. Almost every women I talked to who were in their 70's and 80's(it was about 20 or so) told me they were told to stay married no matter what. If your husband was beating you, you worked it out. if he was cheating, you worked it out. Do some research man, I've done mine



Miami	Dec 21 2011, 01:52 PM Post #45
Posts: 3,856 Group: Members Member #293 Joined: Jan 13, 2010	Ahmad Rashad and his wife phylicia got a divorce. Edited by Miami, Dec 21 2011, 01:53 PM.



Deleted User	Dec 21 2011, 01:52 PM Post #46
Deleted User	sam_wilson Dec 20 2011, 11:32 PM If I am not mistaken, most of the featured couples' relationships ended due to infidelity on the men's part. You can't be a husband & a playa simultaneously. We actually agree on something.
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Miami	Dec 21 2011, 01:54 PM Post #47
Posts: 3,856 Group: Members Member #293 Joined: Jan 13, 2010	kennyinbmore Dec 21 2011, 01:46 PM Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:44 PM Kennyinbmoore you said that you have been divorced twice, what would the most difficult part of the marriage for you that made you want to get out? Not to get into the details of my marriages, but my first wife cheated, so I divorced her. My second wife and I divorced mutually because of our religious differences. Any more questions? But didn't you and your second wife know that you all had religious differences before you got married?



Chicago	Dec 21 2011, 01:57 PM Post #48
Posts: 4,741 Group: Members Member #47 Joined: Nov 13, 2009	sam_wilson Dec 20 2011, 11:32 PM If I am not mistaken, most of the featured couples' relationships ended due to infidelity on the men's part. You can't be a husband & a playa simultaneously. Hold on not so fast Dwayne Wade wife cheated on him and gave him a sexually transmitted disease Edited by Chicago, Dec 21 2011, 01:57 PM.



kennyinbmore	Dec 21 2011, 02:01 PM Post #49
Posts: 18,350 Group: Members Member #452 Joined: Mar 30, 2010	Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:54 PM kennyinbmore Dec 21 2011, 01:46 PM Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:44 PM Kennyinbmoore you said that you have been divorced twice, what would the most difficult part of the marriage for you that made you want to get out? Not to get into the details of my marriages, but my first wife cheated, so I divorced her. My second wife and I divorced mutually because of our religious differences. Any more questions? But didn't you and your second wife know that you all had religious differences before you got married? We loved each other and thought we could work that out. In the end we couldn't. She's actually now my best friend



Miami	Dec 21 2011, 02:09 PM Post #50
Posts: 3,856 Group: Members Member #293 Joined: Jan 13, 2010	kennyinbmore Dec 21 2011, 02:01 PM Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:54 PM kennyinbmore Dec 21 2011, 01:46 PM Miami Dec 21 2011, 01:44 PM Kennyinbmoore you said that you have been divorced twice, what would the most difficult part of the marriage for you that made you want to get out? Not to get into the details of my marriages, but my first wife cheated, so I divorced her. My second wife and I divorced mutually because of our religious differences. Any more questions? But didn't you and your second wife know that you all had religious differences before you got married? We loved each other and thought we could work that out. In the end we couldn't. She's actually now my best friend When two people have different views on religion it can be very difficult to overcome. If she was as good strong Chrstian and trying to follow God, but you didn't believe in God that would create major problems. Never go into a relationship expecting people to change, ask yourself can you accept them the way they are.



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