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I have a question why is it that black people have so many babies out of wedlock?
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Damien, a real therapist would have offered you some better insight.

He wouldnt have just said black women have a history of intentionally doing you wrong, he would have asked you to take a look at how you played a part in getting duped by these women as well.

He would have helped you to see that not all black women are like this and would have probed further.

He would have suggested you take a hiatus from dating and work on you.

Now this in no way means I dont think these black women did you wrong, but no therapist would give that kind of advice.

He wouldnt advise you to stay away from all black women, that is a crock of shit.

Not a well trained, competent one, but if you say so.
It depends on how deep the hurt and it might be in his best interest to do so. People can have misplaced feelings towards another person because they remind them of someone else. May be the hurt and mistrust is so deep that he may have issues with all woman. I had a cousin with a drug issue and come to find out the root of the problem was love for our grandmother. He always wanted to big her the best things that money could buy; however, she past when we were in college. He dropped out of school and ended up on drugs. We later found out it felt guilty because he could not fulfill his promise to her. She would tell us Granny does not need all those fancy things. To end the story, a preacher put him to sleep and a vision of our grandmother appeared before him and he was crying saying how sorry he was that he could not fulfill his promises. The only thing he said she said was baby, I forgive you. He came off drugs forever.

I am willing to bet you that serial killers have been hurt by someone they love. It is a know fact that most of these guys tend to have a profile for the victims. Quite a few of those guys were married or engaged to be but the relationship ended or something happened and they went on a spree. With that in mind it might be best that he leaves certain women alone.
Spoken like a bitter butt hurt brother.

Trust me, a well trained competent therapist would not be feeding him that bullshit.


This is avoidance and does not actually solve any problem. A REAL, COMPETENT therapist is not going to teach you to avoid the problem.

Thanks for trying!
A therapist could lose his or her license if he or she pushes someone to do something that can cause a suicide or a homicide. A competent therapist knows how far to push his or her patient and what to the patient to do.

A lot of you Black folks on here are being subjective instead of objective.

I am going to state this ONE more time, because most of you Blacks on here seem retarded as fuck.

My treatment plan doesn't involve me dating Black women or any other women for that matter. It involves getting my mind right so I won't have suicidal and homicidal thoughts over take my mind because of what Black women have done to me.

I put myself back in the therapy when I was detained by deputy sheriffs for attempting to commit a violent crime against a random Black woman. I was not arrested, because the two deputies did not have enough evidence to bring me in, and the only they saw me do was run up close to a Black woman with a drill. The ONLY reason why they detained me, was because they thought the drill was a firearm. Hell no I didn't tell the two deputies why I had a drill in my hand at 3:00am on a Saturday night.

My therapist knows what I did, and he would be a fucking retard if he insisted that I still talked to Black women. If he did push me to give Black women another chance, and I actually did hurt a Black woman, then he would be sued by family and the woman's family.

What you Black retards is saying is the equivalent to a therapist forcefully trying to convert a homosexual male into liking women.
When did I say your therapist should push you to do anything, I said they would investigate further and offer more insight, or else you are wasting time in therapy.

And didnt I fucking say, a real therapist would have told you to take a hiatus from dating. I think I did.

A COMPETENT therapist would never say to anyone to stay away from a certain race of people. I PROMISE YOU.

They would not be teaching avoidance.

What the fuck does avoiding the issue solve.

Again you need to take a look at what role you play in this.
You are using the old school method and they have learned it is best to remove people from certain issues because it could become worse. I had a friend that was married and she still wanted to run the streets. Her husband say something about it and she went off. She claimed that he tried to force her to stay in the house and he pulled the phone off the wall to keep her from calling. She claimed he choked her. Anyway, her husband ended up in prison which she visit a couple of times, but something happened. She could not see him by order of the therapist who concluded she was the problem. The guy was church going and tried to do right, but she pushed certain buttons that set the man off. Now, how do you solve the issue because she refuse to change. She has a child and still want to run the streets. I have seen this woman go off on her own mother, so she has issues.

BTW, the man has been doing very well since he left her. He found a woman that is house wife material which is what he wanted. We are on the outside looking in and we do not have all the 411 on this case. Maybe the woman push him to the point that he could hurt someone, so you want him to limit contact with those people.
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LBM, LOL? You are comparing one woman to an entire race. No shit, you can be told to stay away from a bad individual. We are talking about an entire race....a therapist wouldn't say something like that.

If you dislike an entire race it is a problem with you not that race. People are told to stay away from an individual all the time because the individual may never change, thats their personality. A race doesn't all act the same....
Edited by Cray, Nov 2 2011, 07:17 PM.
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LBM, LOL? You are comparing one woman to an entire race. No shit, you can be told to stay away from a bad individual. We are talking about an entire race....a therapist wouldn't say something like that.

If you dislike an entire race it is a problem with you not that race. People are told to stay away from an individual all the time because the individual may never change, there their personality. A race doesn't all act the same....
LBM,

Killing me over here.

What in the entire fuck is wrong with these people.
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Damien, a real therapist would have offered you some better insight.

He wouldnt have just said black women have a history of intentionally doing you wrong, he would have asked you to take a look at how you played a part in getting duped by these women as well.

He would have helped you to see that not all black women are like this and would have probed further.

He would have suggested you take a hiatus from dating and work on you.

Now this in no way means I dont think these black women did you wrong, but no therapist would give that kind of advice.

He wouldnt advise you to stay away from all black women, that is a crock of shit.

Not a well trained, competent one, but if you say so.
It depends on how deep the hurt and it might be in his best interest to do so. People can have misplaced feelings towards another person because they remind them of someone else. May be the hurt and mistrust is so deep that he may have issues with all woman. I had a cousin with a drug issue and come to find out the root of the problem was love for our grandmother. He always wanted to big her the best things that money could buy; however, she past when we were in college. He dropped out of school and ended up on drugs. We later found out it felt guilty because he could not fulfill his promise to her. She would tell us Granny does not need all those fancy things. To end the story, a preacher put him to sleep and a vision of our grandmother appeared before him and he was crying saying how sorry he was that he could not fulfill his promises. The only thing he said she said was baby, I forgive you. He came off drugs forever.

I am willing to bet you that serial killers have been hurt by someone they love. It is a know fact that most of these guys tend to have a profile for the victims. Quite a few of those guys were married or engaged to be but the relationship ended or something happened and they went on a spree. With that in mind it might be best that he leaves certain women alone.
Spoken like a bitter butt hurt brother.

Trust me, a well trained competent therapist would not be feeding him that bullshit.


This is avoidance and does not actually solve any problem. A REAL, COMPETENT therapist is not going to teach you to avoid the problem.

Thanks for trying!
A therapist could lose his or her license if he or she pushes someone to do something that can cause a suicide or a homicide. A competent therapist knows how far to push his or her patient and what to the patient to do.

A lot of you Black folks on here are being subjective instead of objective.

I am going to state this ONE more time, because most of you Blacks on here seem retarded as fuck.

My treatment plan doesn't involve me dating Black women or any other women for that matter. It involves getting my mind right so I won't have suicidal and homicidal thoughts over take my mind because of what Black women have done to me.

I put myself back in the therapy when I was detained by deputy sheriffs for attempting to commit a violent crime against a random Black woman. I was not arrested, because the two deputies did not have enough evidence to bring me in, and the only they saw me do was run up close to a Black woman with a drill. The ONLY reason why they detained me, was because they thought the drill was a firearm. Hell no I didn't tell the two deputies why I had a drill in my hand at 3:00am on a Saturday night.

My therapist knows what I did, and he would be a fucking retard if he insisted that I still talked to Black women. If he did push me to give Black women another chance, and I actually did hurt a Black woman, then he would be sued by family and the woman's family.

What you Black retards is saying is the equivalent to a therapist forcefully trying to convert a homosexual male into liking women.
When did I say your therapist should push you to do anything, I said they would investigate further and offer more insight, or else you are wasting time in therapy.

And didnt I fucking say, a real therapist would have told you to take a hiatus from dating. I think I did.

A COMPETENT therapist would never say to anyone to stay away from a certain race of people. I PROMISE YOU.

They would not be teaching avoidance.

What the fuck does avoiding the issue solve.

Again you need to take a look at what role you play in this.
You are using the old school method and they have learned it is best to remove people from certain issues because it could become worse. I had a friend that was married and she still wanted to run the streets. Her husband say something about it and she went off. She claimed that he tried to force her to stay in the house and he pulled the phone off the wall to keep her from calling. She claimed he choked her. Anyway, her husband ended up in prison which she visit a couple of times, but something happened. She could not see him by order of the therapist who concluded she was the problem. The guy was church going and tried to do right, but she pushed certain buttons that set the man off. Now, how do you solve the issue because she refuse to change. She has a child and still want to run the streets. I have seen this woman go off on her own mother, so she has issues.

BTW, the man has been doing very well since he left her. He found a woman that is house wife material which is what he wanted. We are on the outside looking in and we do not have all the 411 on this case. Maybe the woman push him to the point that he could hurt someone, so you want him to limit contact with those people.
Damn,

Fucking stupid arent ya.

I said no therapist would tell you to avoid black women altogether, not one fucking person.

READ BETTER NEXT TIME!
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Oct 31 2011, 07:41 PM
Damien, a real therapist would have offered you some better insight.

He wouldnt have just said black women have a history of intentionally doing you wrong, he would have asked you to take a look at how you played a part in getting duped by these women as well.

He would have helped you to see that not all black women are like this and would have probed further.

He would have suggested you take a hiatus from dating and work on you.

Now this in no way means I dont think these black women did you wrong, but no therapist would give that kind of advice.

He wouldnt advise you to stay away from all black women, that is a crock of shit.

Not a well trained, competent one, but if you say so.
some people just love fighting...... about nothing !!!

dude got money to buy a super car but don't wanna buy one `cos can`t do 100 without a ticket" ...then rolls with a jalopy and have the nerve to complain `black-chick" don`t wanna catch a ride ...... of course dude... ? and fuck up their party dress !!!

just saying ..... could`ve bought any German car with a M{ bimmer}, or AMG{benz}. or S {audi}......

AND
double the pleasure....speed x pus...y

some people just wanna make me....
A 2010 Ford Explorer is a jalopy?

Oh never mind, you're Black. According to Black retards, anything that isn't luxury car is a jalopy.

I buy shit for myself and not to attract bitches. Black women will let a nigga who can't even afford a bus pass live off them and get the pussy four times a day, so I seriously buying a 2012 Porsche Boxster or a Mercedes' Sports Tourer is going to do anything but attract Black women to my money and not me.

BTW, non-Black women have no issues trying to get at me, but at this time it is not in my best interest to date right now.
let me get this....
you don`t wanna be a gigolo and get it FREE

you don`t wanna WORK hard for it... for example as in exchanging dat ford explorer { a deplorable modified midsized school bus } for even a ford explorer sports trac

BUT

u do attempt to `BUY" it often and then scream in pain with buyer`s remorse

OR

..... other times prefer to stay INVISIBLE in the DARK ALONE waiting for them to SEE the REAL you!


i still don`t get IT!!....... just too much of ME!! ME! ME!!...my way or the highway

bro simple advise ...give them SOME of what they want SOME of the time but not all time.....then welcome to pussy galore !!
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Damien, a real therapist would have offered you some better insight.

He wouldnt have just said black women have a history of intentionally doing you wrong, he would have asked you to take a look at how you played a part in getting duped by these women as well.

He would have helped you to see that not all black women are like this and would have probed further.

He would have suggested you take a hiatus from dating and work on you.

Now this in no way means I dont think these black women did you wrong, but no therapist would give that kind of advice.

He wouldnt advise you to stay away from all black women, that is a crock of shit.

Not a well trained, competent one, but if you say so.
It depends on how deep the hurt and it might be in his best interest to do so. People can have misplaced feelings towards another person because they remind them of someone else. May be the hurt and mistrust is so deep that he may have issues with all woman. I had a cousin with a drug issue and come to find out the root of the problem was love for our grandmother. He always wanted to big her the best things that money could buy; however, she past when we were in college. He dropped out of school and ended up on drugs. We later found out it felt guilty because he could not fulfill his promise to her. She would tell us Granny does not need all those fancy things. To end the story, a preacher put him to sleep and a vision of our grandmother appeared before him and he was crying saying how sorry he was that he could not fulfill his promises. The only thing he said she said was baby, I forgive you. He came off drugs forever.

I am willing to bet you that serial killers have been hurt by someone they love. It is a know fact that most of these guys tend to have a profile for the victims. Quite a few of those guys were married or engaged to be but the relationship ended or something happened and they went on a spree. With that in mind it might be best that he leaves certain women alone.
Spoken like a bitter butt hurt brother.

Trust me, a well trained competent therapist would not be feeding him that bullshit.


This is avoidance and does not actually solve any problem. A REAL, COMPETENT therapist is not going to teach you to avoid the problem.

Thanks for trying!
A therapist could lose his or her license if he or she pushes someone to do something that can cause a suicide or a homicide. A competent therapist knows how far to push his or her patient and what to the patient to do.

A lot of you Black folks on here are being subjective instead of objective.

I am going to state this ONE more time, because most of you Blacks on here seem retarded as fuck.

My treatment plan doesn't involve me dating Black women or any other women for that matter. It involves getting my mind right so I won't have suicidal and homicidal thoughts over take my mind because of what Black women have done to me.

I put myself back in the therapy when I was detained by deputy sheriffs for attempting to commit a violent crime against a random Black woman. I was not arrested, because the two deputies did not have enough evidence to bring me in, and the only they saw me do was run up close to a Black woman with a drill. The ONLY reason why they detained me, was because they thought the drill was a firearm. Hell no I didn't tell the two deputies why I had a drill in my hand at 3:00am on a Saturday night.

My therapist knows what I did, and he would be a fucking retard if he insisted that I still talked to Black women. If he did push me to give Black women another chance, and I actually did hurt a Black woman, then he would be sued by family and the woman's family.

What you Black retards is saying is the equivalent to a therapist forcefully trying to convert a homosexual male into liking women.
When did I say your therapist should push you to do anything, I said they would investigate further and offer more insight, or else you are wasting time in therapy.

And didnt I fucking say, a real therapist would have told you to take a hiatus from dating. I think I did.

A COMPETENT therapist would never say to anyone to stay away from a certain race of people. I PROMISE YOU.

They would not be teaching avoidance.

What the fuck does avoiding the issue solve.

Again you need to take a look at what role you play in this.
You are using the old school method and they have learned it is best to remove people from certain issues because it could become worse. I had a friend that was married and she still wanted to run the streets. Her husband say something about it and she went off. She claimed that he tried to force her to stay in the house and he pulled the phone off the wall to keep her from calling. She claimed he choked her. Anyway, her husband ended up in prison which she visit a couple of times, but something happened. She could not see him by order of the therapist who concluded she was the problem. The guy was church going and tried to do right, but she pushed certain buttons that set the man off. Now, how do you solve the issue because she refuse to change. She has a child and still want to run the streets. I have seen this woman go off on her own mother, so she has issues.

BTW, the man has been doing very well since he left her. He found a woman that is house wife material which is what he wanted. We are on the outside looking in and we do not have all the 411 on this case. Maybe the woman push him to the point that he could hurt someone, so you want him to limit contact with those people.
Damn,

Fucking stupid arent ya.

I said no therapist would tell you to avoid black women altogether, not one fucking person.

READ BETTER NEXT TIME!
I was just saying it is possible that he may need to not talk to woman as far as a relationship until the issues get worked out. I think my man mentioned that he has to avoid all women for now meaning not to try and develop any meaningful relationships with them. To be honest, it was be impossible for him not to come in contact with any women if he is working security. Now he can control interaction between him and women.
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Damien, a real therapist would have offered you some better insight.

He wouldnt have just said black women have a history of intentionally doing you wrong, he would have asked you to take a look at how you played a part in getting duped by these women as well.

He would have helped you to see that not all black women are like this and would have probed further.

He would have suggested you take a hiatus from dating and work on you.

Now this in no way means I dont think these black women did you wrong, but no therapist would give that kind of advice.

He wouldnt advise you to stay away from all black women, that is a crock of shit.

Not a well trained, competent one, but if you say so.
It depends on how deep the hurt and it might be in his best interest to do so. People can have misplaced feelings towards another person because they remind them of someone else. May be the hurt and mistrust is so deep that he may have issues with all woman. I had a cousin with a drug issue and come to find out the root of the problem was love for our grandmother. He always wanted to big her the best things that money could buy; however, she past when we were in college. He dropped out of school and ended up on drugs. We later found out it felt guilty because he could not fulfill his promise to her. She would tell us Granny does not need all those fancy things. To end the story, a preacher put him to sleep and a vision of our grandmother appeared before him and he was crying saying how sorry he was that he could not fulfill his promises. The only thing he said she said was baby, I forgive you. He came off drugs forever.

I am willing to bet you that serial killers have been hurt by someone they love. It is a know fact that most of these guys tend to have a profile for the victims. Quite a few of those guys were married or engaged to be but the relationship ended or something happened and they went on a spree. With that in mind it might be best that he leaves certain women alone.
Spoken like a bitter butt hurt brother.

Trust me, a well trained competent therapist would not be feeding him that bullshit.


This is avoidance and does not actually solve any problem. A REAL, COMPETENT therapist is not going to teach you to avoid the problem.

Thanks for trying!
A therapist could lose his or her license if he or she pushes someone to do something that can cause a suicide or a homicide. A competent therapist knows how far to push his or her patient and what to the patient to do.

A lot of you Black folks on here are being subjective instead of objective.

I am going to state this ONE more time, because most of you Blacks on here seem retarded as fuck.

My treatment plan doesn't involve me dating Black women or any other women for that matter. It involves getting my mind right so I won't have suicidal and homicidal thoughts over take my mind because of what Black women have done to me.

I put myself back in the therapy when I was detained by deputy sheriffs for attempting to commit a violent crime against a random Black woman. I was not arrested, because the two deputies did not have enough evidence to bring me in, and the only they saw me do was run up close to a Black woman with a drill. The ONLY reason why they detained me, was because they thought the drill was a firearm. Hell no I didn't tell the two deputies why I had a drill in my hand at 3:00am on a Saturday night.

My therapist knows what I did, and he would be a fucking retard if he insisted that I still talked to Black women. If he did push me to give Black women another chance, and I actually did hurt a Black woman, then he would be sued by family and the woman's family.

What you Black retards is saying is the equivalent to a therapist forcefully trying to convert a homosexual male into liking women.
When did I say your therapist should push you to do anything, I said they would investigate further and offer more insight, or else you are wasting time in therapy.

And didnt I fucking say, a real therapist would have told you to take a hiatus from dating. I think I did.

A COMPETENT therapist would never say to anyone to stay away from a certain race of people. I PROMISE YOU.

They would not be teaching avoidance.

What the fuck does avoiding the issue solve.

Again you need to take a look at what role you play in this.
You are using the old school method and they have learned it is best to remove people from certain issues because it could become worse. I had a friend that was married and she still wanted to run the streets. Her husband say something about it and she went off. She claimed that he tried to force her to stay in the house and he pulled the phone off the wall to keep her from calling. She claimed he choked her. Anyway, her husband ended up in prison which she visit a couple of times, but something happened. She could not see him by order of the therapist who concluded she was the problem. The guy was church going and tried to do right, but she pushed certain buttons that set the man off. Now, how do you solve the issue because she refuse to change. She has a child and still want to run the streets. I have seen this woman go off on her own mother, so she has issues.

BTW, the man has been doing very well since he left her. He found a woman that is house wife material which is what he wanted. We are on the outside looking in and we do not have all the 411 on this case. Maybe the woman push him to the point that he could hurt someone, so you want him to limit contact with those people.
Damn,

Fucking stupid arent ya.

I said no therapist would tell you to avoid black women altogether, not one fucking person.

READ BETTER NEXT TIME!
I was just saying it is possible that he may need to not talk to woman as far as a relationship until the issues get worked out. I think my man mentioned that he has to avoid all women for now meaning not to try and develop any meaningful relationships with them. To be honest, it was be impossible for him not to come in contact with any women if he is working security. Now he can control interaction between him and women.
Lbm, how does telling someone to stay away from women help the individual? If you are having problems with women then its you.....not them. If you had problems in the past......then your issue is trust issues. So how does being distant from women help you?
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Good question.
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my take.....

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man."

-George Bernard Shaw
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