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Topic Started: Jul 18 2011, 01:12 AM (4,658 Views)
Azucar

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Jul 18 2011, 01:57 PM
Let's hope the women in those videos never have any kids, especially daughters.
The women in those videos make me embarrassed to be female.

The shallowness they display is the opposite of what it truly means to be A Strong Independent Woman.






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Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
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negroplease

kennyinbmore
Jul 18 2011, 02:23 PM
Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
Nope!

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kennyinbmore
Jul 18 2011, 02:23 PM
Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
Who says he has to be lying?

Why not begin a relationship where money isn't the driving force? Get to know the person, get to know what kind of character they have, etc.

This easily works both ways. If I were single and wealthy, I would do the same thing as this man did. I would NOT be flashing my wealth or putting myself out there like that to the men that I 'might' be interested in. Isn't that just using common sense ? I would not be 'lying'. I would just be trying to get to know the person without wondering what he thinks of my Porsche and condo in South Beach.

And by doing so, I increase my chances of having a longer, more trustworthy relationship.

This is just my opinion; I realize that others (like shutupalready, above) disagree.
Edited by Azucar, Jul 18 2011, 03:23 PM.
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negroplease

Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 03:17 PM
kennyinbmore
Jul 18 2011, 02:23 PM
Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
Who says he has to be lying?

Why not begin a relationship where money isn't the driving force? Get to know the person, get to know what kind of character they have, etc.

This easily works both ways. If I were single and wealthy, I would do the same thing as this man did. I would NOT be flashing my wealth or putting myself out there like that to the men that I 'might' be interested in. Isn't that just using common sense ? I would not be 'lying'. I would just be trying to get to know the person without wondering what he thinks of my Porsche and condo in South Beach.

And by doing so, I increase my chances of having a longer, more trustworthy relationship.

This is just my opinion; I realize that others (like shutupalready, above) disagree.
That is fine.

Money doesnt have to be brought up first thing off the bat. There are other things to talk about besides a person's financial situation

However if you deliberately lie and tell someone you are poor, when you are not and deliberately pretend to be broke, like described in the original post, that is COMPELTELY different. And you know this Sugar! Its called lying. Are liars any better than golddiggers?

According to you sugar, I guess so.
Edited by negroplease, Jul 18 2011, 03:31 PM.
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cisslybee2012
Jul 18 2011, 02:06 PM
Mrsincere
Jul 18 2011, 09:21 AM
cisslybee2012
Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM

So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me. :)

Tell the whole truth. His back gotta be healthy too. Healthy enough to make sure you get all of your furniture moved. Then after that, then you can dump his broke ass. ;)
You're a moocher. :D

You want 100% free ride.

Not even help her in any totally free way.

But you expect her to look out 100% for you.

You don't have to tell the truth, your manic comments speaks for it itself. :)

I inherited my dad's generous heart and I'm a very giving person.

But Truth,

I wouldn't give you a sandwich. ^_^
When you start providing some actual examples, then I might feign being insulted for you. In the meantime......lets not deflect. I got you pegged perfectly for the obvious disdain you have for men not meeting some womans expectations. It's clear as a bell on the cover of your publication where you state that you'll explain why men dont want a relationship. For a woman to claim that, they would have to have the same opportunistic, entitlement whore mentality as the women in the videos. Because only a woman like you would have such a low opinion of men they have used and the men who refuse to be used.
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kennyinbmore
Jul 18 2011, 02:23 PM
Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
Since when is lying or omitting facts or details not the norm with most people? Many relationships and marriages are started with some deception on some level. Whether it's smart or stupid to lie, depends on the issue. The example that DJ Crunk provided, that rich cat lying about his wealth/status ended up turning out positive for him. Unless one is faced with the same thing, they might not be able to relate to that persons dilemma, and the need to choose deception as a form of protection. Bottom line........everything depends on what the deception is about, and the pain it may cause.
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Mrsincere
Jul 18 2011, 03:28 PM
cisslybee2012
Jul 18 2011, 02:06 PM
Mrsincere
Jul 18 2011, 09:21 AM
cisslybee2012
Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM

So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me. :)

Tell the whole truth. His back gotta be healthy too. Healthy enough to make sure you get all of your furniture moved. Then after that, then you can dump his broke ass. ;)
You're a moocher. :D

You want 100% free ride.

Not even help her in any totally free way.

But you expect her to look out 100% for you.

You don't have to tell the truth, your manic comments speaks for it itself. :)

I inherited my dad's generous heart and I'm a very giving person.

But Truth,

I wouldn't give you a sandwich. ^_^
When you start providing some actual examples, then I might feign being insulted for you. In the meantime......lets not deflect. I got you pegged perfectly for the obvious disdain you have for men not meeting some womans expectations. It's clear as a bell on the cover of your publication where you state that you'll explain why men dont want a relationship. For a woman to claim that, they would have to have the same opportunistic, entitlement whore mentality as the women in the videos. Because only a woman like you would have such a low opinion of men they have used and the men who refuse to be used.
Some examples of what?

What are you talking about?

I wouldn't give you sandwich.

What more do you need? :)
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cisslybee2012
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Mrsincere
Jul 18 2011, 04:07 PM
kennyinbmore
Jul 18 2011, 02:23 PM
Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
I think the man was very smart to do this.
Starting a potential relationship with lies is smart?
Since when is lying or omitting facts or details not the norm with most people? Many relationships and marriages are started with some deception on some level. Whether it's smart or stupid to lie, depends on the issue. The example that DJ Crunk provided, that rich cat lying about his wealth/status ended up turning out positive for him. Unless one is faced with the same thing, they might not be able to relate to that persons dilemma, and the need to choose deception as a form of protection. Bottom line........everything depends on what the deception is about, and the pain it may cause.
It bothers you to see a sane man doesn't it? :)
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Azucar
Jul 18 2011, 03:17 PM
Who says he has to be lying?

Did you miss this part of the original post?

"in the new Ebony Magazine this rich guy said that he pretends to be broke"

Not smarter than a 5th grader are ya?
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