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The GOLD DIGGERS guideline
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Topic Started: Jul 18 2011, 01:12 AM (4,659 Views)
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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Jul 18 2011, 07:14 AM
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This reminds me of the Superman/Lois Lane/Clark Kent dynamic. Superman wants to win Lois as Clark, not as Superman, because Clark is who he was raised as. Superman is just his public service to humanity.
Is Lois a gold digger for wanting the most powerful man in the world?
Is Lois blind to ignore the nice guy farm boy from Kansas, Clark Kent (who kinda, sorta looks like Superman anyway)?
Is Superman a jerk for playing these head games with Lois Lane?
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kennyinbmore
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Jul 18 2011, 07:43 AM
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- DJ Crunk
- Jul 18 2011, 01:12 AM
Rich guys has now come out with a way to spot golddiggers, in the new Ebony Magazine this rich guy said that he pretends to be broke in order to see if a woman really likes him for who he is. He said that he drives a broken down car when he first start dating a woman, just to see where her head is at.
When you play games like that, you get what you deserve
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Mrsincere
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Jul 18 2011, 07:59 AM
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- cisslybee2012
- Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM
- Mrsincere
- Jul 18 2011, 06:13 AM
- cisslybee2012
- Jul 18 2011, 01:34 AM
- DJ Crunk
- Jul 18 2011, 01:28 AM
Cisslybee2012
Some women want look at a guy catching the bus, some women want look at a guy doing construction work. This rich guy said that he pretend to be broke to see if the woman like him for who he is.
He said that he just got engaged and the woman that he got engaged to thought that he was broke, he said that she didn't know that he was rich until the day that he proposed to her. He said that's the first day he ever took her to her mansion.
He said that she passed the test because she liked him for who he was, even when she thought that he didn't have anything.
If I were her, I would have walked away from him after learning he's rich because I would have been offended to know that he assumes I want a man for his money, and that he don't intend to share anything he has with me anyway. I definitely would have quit him because I would have seen him as stupid and selfish. A wealthy man doesn't have to advertise his financial worth, but if he has to front to find something out about a woman, then it's all about money for him and men like that don't share.
We know you'll quit him. That aint the issue. However, enough women will take the benefits 1st, and quit him after they feel they've got everything they could get. And then laugh in his face for him attempting to get back with them. You are only saying that you'll quit him because it disturbs you to hear of any man concerned about protecting himself and thinking smartly instead of impulsively. It's women like you, who think women have the right to manipulate and control a situation when they feel the need to protect themselves. This honesty/protection thing is a one way street with chicks like that. It just doesnt sit well with enough women being around a man who takes his time before making important decisions. You walking away would be doing that man a favor. Preferably before an attempt is made to drain his resources out of spite and contempt. A fake reaction of offense is nothing more than a ploy. An act enough women have put on to try to test a mans level of commitment. See once you think you've been devalued, it's not enough to be happy that you passed a mans test. Oh No. Thats an insult. Because you ( women ) are supposed to be doing the testing, not some man. And thats the main reason for the fake ass offense. Just one of the traits of a female narcissist.
I take care of myself so I don't need a man's money. And women like me aren't your problem because women like me don't bother anybody. And I can learn things about a man without fronting. All I have to do is talk to him. And observe how he is. No fronting needed. So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me. I've turned down lots of rich guys. Lots. Well no you may not need a mans money now. But you have used a man at some point in your life to help you along. Doesnt have to be for money either. Even though I'm sure you took money from some men in your life. Now though, you know that most men want sex. So you have to be extremley careful dealing with a man with only a handjob to offer and a physical handicap that may ruin a chance of a normal relationship. The other thing is.......at your current age, it's more important for you NOW to hold onto the illusion that you became successful without a man. To depend on a man now would undermine the illusionary world of self-sufficiency you've created for yourself.
You turned down lots of rich guys, huh? I'd say it was mutual. Those same rich guys probably tried to barter & exchange their way into your muffin. After all, there werent any other redeeming qualities they were interested in. And the only thing you could think of was the men going to the toilet on you. Im sure them rich guys didnt realize you were doing them a favor by turning them down.
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Mrsincere
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Jul 18 2011, 09:21 AM
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- Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM
So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me. Tell the whole truth. His back gotta be healthy too. Healthy enough to make sure you get all of your furniture moved. Then after that, then you can dump his broke ass.
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Azucar
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Jul 18 2011, 09:37 AM
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- Jul 18 2011, 01:42 AM
he was looking for a woman to like him for him and not his money. In many cases when a woman know that a man is rich she will fake and pretend that she likes him just to get close to his money. I think the man was very smart to do this. Money can sometimes be a distraction in a relationships. By doing this, he is learning about a woman's true character and increasing the chances of having a lasting relationship.
Few women would feel betrayed and deceived once they found out about the man's wealth. They would be grateful that they passed 'the test'. And if they had hung around, it was because they loved him for who HE was. So it's all good.
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Mrsincere
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Jul 18 2011, 09:55 AM
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- Azucar
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- Jul 18 2011, 01:42 AM
he was looking for a woman to like him for him and not his money. In many cases when a woman know that a man is rich she will fake and pretend that she likes him just to get close to his money.
I think the man was very smart to do this. Money can sometimes be a distraction in a relationships. By doing this, he is learning about a woman's true character and increasing the chances of having a lasting relationship. Few women would feel betrayed and deceived once they found out about the man's wealth. They would be grateful that they passed 'the test'. And if they had hung around, it was because they loved him for who HE was. So it's all good. Yep. And the ones that would run off or "claim" they would run off, they are just more women to be weeded out.
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Marcus
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Jul 18 2011, 01:57 PM
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Let's hope the women in those videos never have any kids, especially daughters.
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cisslybee2012
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Jul 18 2011, 02:02 PM
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- Mrsincere
- Jul 18 2011, 07:59 AM
- cisslybee2012
- Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM
- Mrsincere
- Jul 18 2011, 06:13 AM
- cisslybee2012
- Jul 18 2011, 01:34 AM
- DJ Crunk
- Jul 18 2011, 01:28 AM
Cisslybee2012
Some women want look at a guy catching the bus, some women want look at a guy doing construction work. This rich guy said that he pretend to be broke to see if the woman like him for who he is.
He said that he just got engaged and the woman that he got engaged to thought that he was broke, he said that she didn't know that he was rich until the day that he proposed to her. He said that's the first day he ever took her to her mansion.
He said that she passed the test because she liked him for who he was, even when she thought that he didn't have anything.
If I were her, I would have walked away from him after learning he's rich because I would have been offended to know that he assumes I want a man for his money, and that he don't intend to share anything he has with me anyway. I definitely would have quit him because I would have seen him as stupid and selfish. A wealthy man doesn't have to advertise his financial worth, but if he has to front to find something out about a woman, then it's all about money for him and men like that don't share.
We know you'll quit him. That aint the issue. However, enough women will take the benefits 1st, and quit him after they feel they've got everything they could get. And then laugh in his face for him attempting to get back with them. You are only saying that you'll quit him because it disturbs you to hear of any man concerned about protecting himself and thinking smartly instead of impulsively. It's women like you, who think women have the right to manipulate and control a situation when they feel the need to protect themselves. This honesty/protection thing is a one way street with chicks like that. It just doesnt sit well with enough women being around a man who takes his time before making important decisions. You walking away would be doing that man a favor. Preferably before an attempt is made to drain his resources out of spite and contempt. A fake reaction of offense is nothing more than a ploy. An act enough women have put on to try to test a mans level of commitment. See once you think you've been devalued, it's not enough to be happy that you passed a mans test. Oh No. Thats an insult. Because you ( women ) are supposed to be doing the testing, not some man. And thats the main reason for the fake ass offense. Just one of the traits of a female narcissist.
I take care of myself so I don't need a man's money. And women like me aren't your problem because women like me don't bother anybody. And I can learn things about a man without fronting. All I have to do is talk to him. And observe how he is. No fronting needed. So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me. I've turned down lots of rich guys. Lots.
Well no you may not need a mans money now. But you have used a man at some point in your life to help you along. Doesnt have to be for money either. Even though I'm sure you took money from some men in your life. Now though, you know that most men want sex. So you have to be extremley careful dealing with a man with only a handjob to offer and a physical handicap that may ruin a chance of a normal relationship. The other thing is.......at your current age, it's more important for you NOW to hold onto the illusion that you became successful without a man. To depend on a man now would undermine the illusionary world of self-sufficiency you've created for yourself. You turned down lots of rich guys, huh? I'd say it was mutual. Those same rich guys probably tried to barter & exchange their way into your muffin. After all, there werent any other redeeming qualities they were interested in. And the only thing you could think of was the men going to the toilet on you. Im sure them rich guys didnt realize you were doing them a favor by turning them down. No.
They were simply messed up just like you.
I don't want no trouble and avoid it like the plague.
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cisslybee2012
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Jul 18 2011, 02:06 PM
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- Mrsincere
- Jul 18 2011, 09:21 AM
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- Jul 18 2011, 06:23 AM
So I would date a broke guy if his mind is healthy. It's not about money for me.
Tell the whole truth. His back gotta be healthy too. Healthy enough to make sure you get all of your furniture moved. Then after that, then you can dump his broke ass. You're a moocher.
You want 100% free ride.
Not even help her in any totally free way.
But you expect her to look out 100% for you.
You don't have to tell the truth, your manic comments speaks for it itself.
I inherited my dad's generous heart and I'm a very giving person.
But Truth,
I wouldn't give you a sandwich.
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cisslybee2012
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Jul 18 2011, 02:16 PM
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- Jul 18 2011, 07:43 AM
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- Jul 18 2011, 01:12 AM
Rich guys has now come out with a way to spot golddiggers, in the new Ebony Magazine this rich guy said that he pretends to be broke in order to see if a woman really likes him for who he is. He said that he drives a broken down car when he first start dating a woman, just to see where her head is at.
When you play games like that, you get what you deserve Thank you.
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