RYAN7

Nov 8 2011, 09:09 AM

WHAT A BUNCH OF MORONS, THERE ARE FAR MORE STUPID CUNT WHORES WHOCHEAT ON THEIR MEN, HUMILIATE THEM, FORCE THEIR HUSBANDS TO ''ENJOY IT'' AND DRIVE THEM TO SUICIDE. ATLEAST THESE MEN DONT HAVE DEPRAVED FANTASIES AND INTENTIONALLY WANT TO HUMILIATE AND DEGRADE THEIR WIVES. THEY STILL TRIED TO LOVE/RESPECT THEM. WHAT YOU SHOULD BE REALLY WORRIED ABOUT NOW IS DUMB BITCHES CHEATING ON MEN WHICH HAPPENS A LOT OFTEN THAN MEN CHEATING.

RYAN7

Nov 8 2011, 09:09 AM

WHAT A BUNCH OF MORONS, THERE ARE FAR MORE STUPID CUNT WHORES WHOCHEAT ON THEIR MEN, HUMILIATE THEM, FORCE THEIR HUSBANDS TO ''ENJOY IT'' AND DRIVE THEM TO SUICIDE. ATLEAST THESE MEN DONT HAVE DEPRAVED FANTASIES AND INTENTIONALLY WANT TO HUMILIATE AND DEGRADE THEIR WIVES. THEY STILL TRIED TO LOVE/RESPECT THEM. WHAT YOU SHOULD BE REALLY WORRIED ABOUT NOW IS DUMB BITCHES CHEATING ON MEN WHICH HAPPENS A LOT OFTEN THAN MEN CHEATING.

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:59 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:31 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:26 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:21 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:13 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:08 PM

shutupalready

Nov 8 2011, 11:54 PM

BGF

Nov 8 2011, 09:39 PM

shutupalready

Nov 5 2011, 09:15 AM

Glenn D.

Nov 4 2011, 08:59 PM

LOL You cant get a devorce every time you get some strange...lol

You surely cannot.

But dont get or dont stay married if you think you have to keep getting some strange.

Like what is the point, you are obviously not ready to be married. I could almost see an excuse for once, but this sounds like more than one occurrence here, and you definitely need to be single if that is the case.

All these people making a mockery of marriage. Pathetic.

I'm in total agreement with you, your point of view makes complete sense. Studies has found that most women who does cheat do so, because their partner doesn't communicate with them.

As for men cheating, the major reason for us is due to ego. Most men have three simple needs, feed us, give them sex and stroke our ego. Seems simple but for some reason some women think it beneath them to keep their man happy.

This doesn’t apply in all case but for the most part think is accurate.

Do you stroke you woman's ego?

People want what they are not willing to give in return.

Some of the things necessary to stroke your ego are indeed demeaning to women.

You assume that every man or your man would ask their lady to belittle themselves in order to feel good. I know a lot of men and maybe one out of the 35 brothers I know would stoop that low. And that a big maybe....

It doesn't work that way.

No man will ask a woman to belittle herself. Not even a pimp will do that.

He expects it spontaneously and looks for weaknesses in her, and if he don't see it happening, then he tries to demand it subliminally by playing head games with her, to make her feel bad about herself. To break down her self esteem.

Mind games are not exclusively a women issue, it a people issue. If a person not strong enough to deal with a relationship then move on. Respect for one self is the basis for loving one self.

Yes. That's quite true.

But men looking for weakness in women to feel like men on are not trying to see or hear that. They want her on his level. So they try to bring her down. He's not trying to make it with a together woman. He want's a playmate to go bonkers with.

Ciss, that my point, if a women allow herself to be taken advantage of then she bares some of the responsibility. We can’t make the world stupid proof, there will always be somebody out there that will fall for the old card trick.

You're right again my friend.

Excellent.

Except that in my personal opinion, I feel that the responsibility is fully on the woman or man who allows themselves to be taken advantage of.

I allowed a man to take advantage of me once, but I learned to accept the full responsibility for it because it was indeed on me. It was entirely my bad.

shutupalready

Nov 10 2011, 11:20 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:08 PM

shutupalready

Nov 8 2011, 11:54 PM

BGF

Nov 8 2011, 09:39 PM

shutupalready

Nov 5 2011, 09:15 AM

Glenn D.

Nov 4 2011, 08:59 PM

LOL You cant get a devorce every time you get some strange...lol

You surely cannot.

But dont get or dont stay married if you think you have to keep getting some strange.

Like what is the point, you are obviously not ready to be married. I could almost see an excuse for once, but this sounds like more than one occurrence here, and you definitely need to be single if that is the case.

All these people making a mockery of marriage. Pathetic.

I'm in total agreement with you, your point of view makes complete sense. Studies has found that most women who does cheat do so, because their partner doesn't communicate with them.

As for men cheating, the major reason for us is due to ego. Most men have three simple needs, feed us, give them sex and stroke our ego. Seems simple but for some reason some women think it beneath them to keep their man happy.

This doesn’t apply in all case but for the most part think is accurate.

Do you stroke you woman's ego?

People want what they are not willing to give in return.

Some of the things necessary to stroke your ego are indeed demeaning to women.

You assume that every man or your man would ask their lady to belittle themselves in order to feel good. I know a lot of men and maybe one out of the 35 brothers I know would stoop that low. And that a big maybe....

I am not assuming.

I am being factual in that some of the things required to stroke the male ego are indeed demeaning to women.

Why are you acting like this was a false statement, I didnt say all men or all things, I said some of the things required to stroke the male ego are demeaning to women.

Did I type something incorrect?

Nah, I DIDNT!

BGF

Nov 14 2011, 09:24 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:59 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:31 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:26 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:21 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:13 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:08 PM

shutupalready

Nov 8 2011, 11:54 PM

BGF

Nov 8 2011, 09:39 PM

shutupalready

Nov 5 2011, 09:15 AM

Glenn D.

Nov 4 2011, 08:59 PM

LOL You cant get a devorce every time you get some strange...lol

You surely cannot.

But dont get or dont stay married if you think you have to keep getting some strange.

Like what is the point, you are obviously not ready to be married. I could almost see an excuse for once, but this sounds like more than one occurrence here, and you definitely need to be single if that is the case.

All these people making a mockery of marriage. Pathetic.

I'm in total agreement with you, your point of view makes complete sense. Studies has found that most women who does cheat do so, because their partner doesn't communicate with them.

As for men cheating, the major reason for us is due to ego. Most men have three simple needs, feed us, give them sex and stroke our ego. Seems simple but for some reason some women think it beneath them to keep their man happy.

This doesn’t apply in all case but for the most part think is accurate.

Do you stroke you woman's ego?

People want what they are not willing to give in return.

Some of the things necessary to stroke your ego are indeed demeaning to women.

You assume that every man or your man would ask their lady to belittle themselves in order to feel good. I know a lot of men and maybe one out of the 35 brothers I know would stoop that low. And that a big maybe....

It doesn't work that way.

No man will ask a woman to belittle herself. Not even a pimp will do that.

He expects it spontaneously and looks for weaknesses in her, and if he don't see it happening, then he tries to demand it subliminally by playing head games with her, to make her feel bad about herself. To break down her self esteem.

Mind games are not exclusively a women issue, it a people issue. If a person not strong enough to deal with a relationship then move on. Respect for one self is the basis for loving one self.

Yes. That's quite true.

But men looking for weakness in women to feel like men on are not trying to see or hear that. They want her on his level. So they try to bring her down. He's not trying to make it with a together woman. He want's a playmate to go bonkers with.

Ciss, that my point, if a women allow herself to be taken advantage of then she bares some of the responsibility. We can’t make the world stupid proof, there will always be somebody out there that will fall for the old card trick.

You're right again my friend.

Excellent.

Except that in my personal opinion, I feel that the responsibility is fully on the woman or man who allows themselves to be taken advantage of.

I allowed a man to take advantage of me once, but I learned to accept the full responsibility for it because it was indeed on me. It was entirely my bad.

Not sure what you mean by “ taking advantage of” but if you were doing what was in the best interest for your relationship and your partner does something stupid, then I don’t see it being your ‘Bad’.

This is something we all need to get a better understanding of, if we are doing the right thing and our partner believe they can take advantage of a kind gesture then shame on them. This person will have to deal with the consequence of their behavior you did nothing wrong.

If you are a good person than don’t allow someone to change that about you. Trust me on this, there are a hell of lot people who cherish an open heart.

cisslybee2012

Nov 14 2011, 10:10 PM

BGF

Nov 14 2011, 09:24 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:59 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:31 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:26 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:21 PM

cisslybee2012

Nov 10 2011, 10:13 PM

BGF

Nov 10 2011, 10:08 PM

shutupalready

Nov 8 2011, 11:54 PM

BGF

Nov 8 2011, 09:39 PM

shutupalready

Nov 5 2011, 09:15 AM

Glenn D.

Nov 4 2011, 08:59 PM

LOL You cant get a devorce every time you get some strange...lol

You surely cannot.

But dont get or dont stay married if you think you have to keep getting some strange.

Like what is the point, you are obviously not ready to be married. I could almost see an excuse for once, but this sounds like more than one occurrence here, and you definitely need to be single if that is the case.

All these people making a mockery of marriage. Pathetic.

I'm in total agreement with you, your point of view makes complete sense. Studies has found that most women who does cheat do so, because their partner doesn't communicate with them.

As for men cheating, the major reason for us is due to ego. Most men have three simple needs, feed us, give them sex and stroke our ego. Seems simple but for some reason some women think it beneath them to keep their man happy.

This doesn’t apply in all case but for the most part think is accurate.

Do you stroke you woman's ego?

People want what they are not willing to give in return.

Some of the things necessary to stroke your ego are indeed demeaning to women.

You assume that every man or your man would ask their lady to belittle themselves in order to feel good. I know a lot of men and maybe one out of the 35 brothers I know would stoop that low. And that a big maybe....

It doesn't work that way.

No man will ask a woman to belittle herself. Not even a pimp will do that.

He expects it spontaneously and looks for weaknesses in her, and if he don't see it happening, then he tries to demand it subliminally by playing head games with her, to make her feel bad about herself. To break down her self esteem.

Mind games are not exclusively a women issue, it a people issue. If a person not strong enough to deal with a relationship then move on. Respect for one self is the basis for loving one self.

Yes. That's quite true.

But men looking for weakness in women to feel like men on are not trying to see or hear that. They want her on his level. So they try to bring her down. He's not trying to make it with a together woman. He want's a playmate to go bonkers with.

Ciss, that my point, if a women allow herself to be taken advantage of then she bares some of the responsibility. We can’t make the world stupid proof, there will always be somebody out there that will fall for the old card trick.

You're right again my friend.

Excellent.

Except that in my personal opinion, I feel that the responsibility is fully on the woman or man who allows themselves to be taken advantage of.

I allowed a man to take advantage of me once, but I learned to accept the full responsibility for it because it was indeed on me. It was entirely my bad.

Not sure what you mean by “ taking advantage of” but if you were doing what was in the best interest for your relationship and your partner does something stupid, then I don’t see it being your ‘Bad’.

This is something we all need to get a better understanding of, if we are doing the right thing and our partner believe they can take advantage of a kind gesture then shame on them. This person will have to deal with the consequence of their behavior you did nothing wrong.

If you are a good person than don’t allow someone to change that about you. Trust me on this, there are a hell of lot people who cherish an open heart.

I understand how you feel.

But nature don't work that way.

Just because somebody is a good person and do what they believe is in the best interest of a relationship doesn't mean that the other party has to comply with it, or that they're at fault for the disharmony that occurred.

I was young then and had no knowledge of life but only my common sense and feelings to go on. But I was a consenting adult regardless and totally responsible for my actions that I could not blame on him. He never lied to me or gave me any notion that he was interested in me. I came to him.

So I can't truthfully say he did me wrong when he was indeed minding his own business. And he certainly did give me a great many warning signs that I overlooked because I kidding myself into a situation I didn't have to go in. I could have walked away and I didn't. So that was on me. 110%. Period.

I cannot make childish decisions and then blame the other party for my decision blowing up in my face.

nevergiveup

May 26 2011, 12:45 AM

Married men that cheat on their wives are low lives, and it's even worse when they get an outside woman pregnant.

These are some men that cheated on their wives and got an outside woman pregnant.

Jesse Jackson cheated on his wife and got this woman pregnant.

reduref

Nov 15 2011, 08:49 PM

It is the women who should be ashamed for sleeping with married men!

reduref

Nov 15 2011, 08:49 PM

It is the women who should be ashamed for sleeping with married men!