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What would be the kindest way to tell someone you want a divorce ?; Divorce/break up.
Topic Started: Mar 1 2011, 10:23 PM (1,053 Views)
jega23
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Azucar
Mar 11 2011, 12:38 AM
jega23, we are thinking of you this week and your situation. How are you doing? Was any progress made?
Thank you for asking Azucar. :) I told him on Friday that I wanted a divorce and he flipped out. He brought up our marriage vows and how he ment them and blah blah blah. He cried and begged for hours on end. So I caved in and gave him an ultimatum. I told him he has one week to find a job or go back to rehab or he will have to move out.
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memdear70
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Jega, I'm not answering for Azucar, but from my own experience. I'm sorry you allowed him to play on your humble, loving persona. He'll do it again, since he won this time. Be prepared to initiate a restraining order because he is not going to leave voluntarily. He knew before you said anything that he has stretched you beyond your limits but the tears were "real", at least visibly so, and he's not crazy he knew which button to push. I pray that you will make it through this without anymore emotional drama and definitely not any physical drama. But prepare yourself.
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memdear70
Mar 11 2011, 02:44 PM
Jega, I'm not answering for Azucar, but from my own experience. I'm sorry you allowed him to play on your humble, loving persona. He'll do it again, since he won this time. Be prepared to initiate a restraining order because he is not going to leave voluntarily. He knew before you said anything that he has stretched you beyond your limits but the tears were "real", at least visibly so, and he's not crazy he knew which button to push. I pray that you will make it through this without anymore emotional drama and definitely not any physical drama. But prepare yourself.
I was truly thinking the same thing!

I hope it all works out for the best.
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kennyinbmore
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shutupalready
Mar 11 2011, 11:58 PM
memdear70
Mar 11 2011, 02:44 PM
Jega, I'm not answering for Azucar, but from my own experience. I'm sorry you allowed him to play on your humble, loving persona. He'll do it again, since he won this time. Be prepared to initiate a restraining order because he is not going to leave voluntarily. He knew before you said anything that he has stretched you beyond your limits but the tears were "real", at least visibly so, and he's not crazy he knew which button to push. I pray that you will make it through this without anymore emotional drama and definitely not any physical drama. But prepare yourself.
I was truly thinking the same thing!

I hope it all works out for the best.
I guess that makes three of us
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Mister J
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Why don't she just take a mini-recorder and document all the PRIVATE portrayals she's making about his utter worthlessness, so we can see for ourselves.

She can turn it into her own lil', 'Reality Show'.

That way, we'll get to hear him say and do things that would reveal the worth of her character, as well.
Edited by Mister J, Mar 15 2011, 09:30 AM.
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kennyinbmore
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Mister J
Mar 15 2011, 09:30 AM
Why don't she just take a mini-recorder and document all the PRIVATE portrayals she's making about his utter worthlessness, so we can see for ourselves.

She can turn it into her own lil', 'Reality Show'.

That way, we'll get to hear him say and do things that would reveal the worth of her character, as well.
Who pissed in your corn flakes this morning?
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negroplease

Jega could only very well be giving us her jaded view of her husband.

But how do we know this man is not as horrible as she says.

Oh because all women are bitter, jaded liars trying to control men and get the upper hand.

I forgot.

You should just forget all about women and go fuck yourselves then.

Like seriously!
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jega23
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Mister J
Mar 15 2011, 09:30 AM
Why don't she just take a mini-recorder and document all the PRIVATE portrayals she's making about his utter worthlessness, so we can see for ourselves.

She can turn it into her own lil', 'Reality Show'.

That way, we'll get to hear him say and do things that would reveal the worth of her character, as well.
Mr. Jay, If you had cared to read any of my earlier posts on this topic you would understand "the worth of my character." My husband was begging for me to let him stay because of my "character." He will never find another person who would even attempt to do for him what I did. I loved him more than I loved myself, I put him first only after God. I hope that you can one day find a woman or a man who can love you like that. Then again I think that may be a bit of a reach...
Edited by jega23, Mar 20 2011, 04:17 AM.
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kennyinbmore
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jega23
Mar 20 2011, 03:56 AM
Mr. Jay, If you had cared to read any of my earlier posts on this topic you would understand "the worth of my character." My husband was begging for me to let him stay because of my "character." He will never find another person who would even attempt to do for him what I did. I loved him more than I loved myself, I put him first only after God. I hope that you can one day find a woman or a man who can love you like that. Then again I think that may be a bit of a reach...
J has issues. You really can't take him seriously
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