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What would be the kindest way to tell someone you want a divorce ?; Divorce/break up.
Topic Started: Mar 1 2011, 10:23 PM (1,052 Views)
jega23
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I would like serious, honest answers and please no racial remarks. This question has nothing to do with race. Thank you in advance for your help.
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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Just be honest, and to the point. You thought long and hard about this. It is time to move on. You will always care for him, but you are no longer in love with him. He must respect you wishes, and leave. Let him know that their is nothing that can be done to make things like they were before. It can be weird, but you have to be firm. Do the best you can not to pity him by letting him stay, or give in to anger and lash out at him. I hope this helps.
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kennyinbmore
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There really is no kind way. You just have to hit hard and direct to avoid any confusion on the issue.
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kennyinbmore
Mar 2 2011, 10:27 AM
There really is no kind way. You just have to hit hard and direct to avoid any confusion on the issue.
Thank you. It's equivalent to splitting up a romantic non-marital relationship w/o the paper work. I know that sounds harsh but there is no other way. Any time you try to be "nice" in these kinds of situations you ALWAYS leave yourself wide open from the other persons perspective. Can't do that. Say what you mean and mean what you say. No buts, or perhaps, or ifs.
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jega23
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Thank you all for your kind advice. I'm just trying to mentally prepare myself for this Friday. Wish me luck...
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Mister J
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I'd say the best way to inform your guy of your intent to divorce him is to write a note on a small piece of paper, in real small letters, and attach it to the inside crotch-lining of your panties... then lay on your back, and raise your dress as you hand him a pocket-flashlite and ask him to please read your 'important message' by getting down 'there' and taking a close look...

The smell he will get should numb his brain while the message he will see is:

'The Person Attached to This Coochie Has Decided That It is In Her Better Interest to Divorce and Evict You Out of Her Life - Effective Very Soon... So Take One Last Lick'.
Edited by Mister J, Mar 3 2011, 10:24 AM.
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reddgirl64

Mister J
Mar 3 2011, 02:12 AM
I'd say the best way to inform your guy of your intent to divorce him is to write a note on a small piece of paper, in real small letters, and attach it to the inside crotch-lining of your panties... then lay on your back, and raise your dress as you hand him a pocket-flashlite and ask him to please read your 'important message' by getting down 'there' and taking a close look...

The smell he will get should numb his brain while the message he will see is:

'The Person Attached to This Coochie Has Decided That It is In Her Better Interest to Divorce and Evict You Out of Her Life - Effective Very Soon... So Take One Last Lick'.
I will bet every dollar I have, the only time that you've tasted p*zzy, is when you swallowed some amniotic fliud coming out of your mom twat! Probably the last time you seen one also!

Stop the bullshit, and help LBM come out of the closet!
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jega23
Mar 1 2011, 10:23 PM
I would like serious, honest answers and please no racial remarks. This question has nothing to do with race. Thank you in advance for your help.
Ask for a trial-separation....quitting someone "cold turkey" can be tough. Having time apart can help you see things clearer......
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jega23
Mar 1 2011, 10:23 PM
I would like serious, honest answers and please no racial remarks. This question has nothing to do with race. Thank you in advance for your help.
There is no kind way to tell them, if they are seriously commited to the marriage it's going to break their heart.
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Azucar

jega23, we are thinking of you this week and your situation. How are you doing? Was any progress made?
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