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Topic Started: Feb 26 2011, 12:27 AM (497 Views)
jega23
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;) I'm currently a young married black woman. If we ever divorced I would not be interested in dating/marrying any guys that have children. I have no kids. Is it wrong to want a guy that is the same ?
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jega23
Feb 26 2011, 12:27 AM
;) I'm currently a young married black woman. If we ever divorced I would not be interested in dating/marrying any guys that have children. I have no kids. Is it wrong to want a guy that is the same ?
No you are not wrong, I'm a black man that doesn't have any kids and I don't want to date a woman that has kids. I'm not looking for a ready made family, I think most people want a family of their own.
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negroplease

No one is wrong in wanting that.

But it is the way you judge others. You judge people who have children New York and that is where your problem lies.

And if others are okay with it you judge them too.

Nothing is wrong with people who have children and if you limit yourselves you may wonder why you are still single.
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jega23
Feb 26 2011, 12:27 AM
;) I'm currently a young married black woman. If we ever divorced I would not be interested in dating/marrying any guys that have children. I have no kids. Is it wrong to want a guy that is the same ?
You might want to re-think that. "Mr. Right" may just walk into your life with a darling little boy or girl then what, you're going to throw away a chance at real happiness because he has some children? Why are the children a stumbling block? I don't mean to sound harsh but in reality who said we all belong to "daddy" but daddy doesn't know it or maybe hes does but he took care of our behinds??????. Children don't ask to be born and to dismiss someone because there are children involved sounds selfish to me, just MO.
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I wouldn't mind if he had 1 or 2 but he can't have the brady bunch with a bunch of baby mamas.
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Feb 26 2011, 07:49 PM
I wouldn't mind if he had 1 or 2 but he can't have the brady bunch with a bunch of baby mamas.
True!

If a man had several baby mamas it may serve as a red flag for me and show me that he is not willing to commit to a woman and raise a family.

But say a man is a divorcee or he was young and in a relationship and had a few children I would not fault him for that.
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I have two children and I wouldn't give a rat's azz about any woman who would avoid "dating" me because of it.

I tell females up-front that I'm a father, so she can get a running head start in haulin' azz and to see if her track-shoes move faster than mine in getting away from her.

Regardless, I still have more desirable women wanting my company than I have time and energy for.

But I certainly wouldn't blame anyone for their "no children" preference since I have preferences of my own.
Edited by Mister J, Feb 26 2011, 10:21 PM.
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negroplease

Mister J
Feb 26 2011, 09:27 PM

Regardless, I still have more desirable women wanting my company than I have time and energy for.

Just had to throw that part in there huh?

LMAO!
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Bashii
Feb 26 2011, 07:49 PM
I wouldn't mind if he had 1 or 2 but he can't have the brady bunch with a bunch of baby mamas.
Agreed!
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Mister J
Feb 26 2011, 09:27 PM
I have two children and I wouldn't give a rat's azz about any woman who would avoid "dating" me because of it.

I tell females up-front that I'm a father, so she can get a running head start in haulin' azz and to see if her track-shoes move faster than mine in getting away from her.

Regardless, I still have more desirable women wanting my company than I have time and energy for.

But I certainly wouldn't blame anyone for their "no children" preference since I have preferences of my own.
Well, I got my laugh for today, Thanks :D :D :D :P
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