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Why are black men turning to homosexuality?; What has happened to the black man?
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Doctor Magnus Warlock
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sudo
Mar 9 2011, 07:15 PM
@Mister J
Like straight people, not all gays partake in the same sexual activities.

I hope your children grow to be able to make decisions about themselves, for themselves. When they're on their own, it's not your life they're living.
Ding! Ding! Ding! Give that brotha a cigar, and an all-expenses paid two week vacation to anywhere in the world!

I really don't like black people that practice facism.
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lady_nei
Mar 9 2011, 07:06 PM
So in other words you want your kids to live their lives the way you see fit and they should ignore how they feel.

Never mind if hiding who they are is hurting them or making them depressed, as long as they do what you say for the rest of their lives, it's all good. So if they end up killing themselves because they can't stand living like that, it's okay cause they lived their lives according to you law.
Instead of framing it "in other words", you should have called it YOUR words.
Because what you wrote certainly were not MY words.

The 'what if' scenarios you raise are not relevant unless, or until, it occurs... and even if it did occur, it may not change the matter much, if at all.
Everything you mentioned short of suicide doesn't warrant a serious review of my convictions about this, as it pertains to my children.

And as for suicide... that's one of those 'what if's that can only be reckoned with - if it happens.

Bottomline: I can't follow my conscience based on a list of hypothetical 'what if's.
And here's a very relevant question for you to ponder:

Are homosexuals following THEIR desires, or guiding their actions, based upon a list of 'what if's that could lead to MY demoralization, anquish, guilt, humiliation, alcohol or drug use, public shame, family conflict and break-down, or loss of all around productivity??

Because those are the things many a parents have suffered in the wake of their child 'coming out of the closet' or doing other despicable acts.

'Not saying I, myself, would go through any of that, but many [parents] have.
Edited by Mister J, Mar 10 2011, 10:04 AM.
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Mar 9 2011, 07:15 PM
@Mister J
Like straight people, not all gays partake in the same sexual activities.

I hope your children grow to be able to make decisions about themselves, for themselves. When they're on their own, it's not your life they're living.
When you came 'out' on this forum, I noticed practically noone, besides myself, dared open their mouth about it, right away.
They waited to see the response others might give, to see who would jump forward, for or against, your disclosure.

That, IMV, was cowardly.

But more to the point of your comments: it's okay for you to 'hope' that my children will grow to make their own decisions.
No harm in 'hoping' that, at all.

And, yeah, I know and understand that they are not 'living my life'.
But I also know that it's my prerogative to raise my offsping in a manner that I find suitable and wise.

So, we'll just have to let destiny decide how things work out.
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Mister J
Mar 9 2011, 11:38 PM
lady_nei
Mar 9 2011, 07:06 PM
So in other words you want your kids to live their lives the way you see fit and they should ignore how they feel.

Never mind if hiding who they are is hurting them or making them depressed, as long as they do what you say for the rest of their lives, it's all good. So if they end up killing themselves because they can't stand living like that, it's okay cause they lived their lives according to you law.
Instead of framing it "in other words", you should have call it YOUR words.
Because what you wrote certainly were not MY words.

The 'what if' scenarios you raise are not relevant unless, or until, it occurs... and even if it did occur, it may not change the matter much, if at all.
Everything you mentioned short of suicide doesn't warrant a serious review of my convictions about this, as it pertains to my children.

And as for suicide... that's one of those 'what if's that can only be reckoned with - if it happens.

Bottomline: I can't follow my conscience based on a list of hypothetical 'what if's.
And here's a very relevant question for you to ponder:

Are homosexuals following THEIR desires, or guiding their actions, based upon a list of 'what if's that could lead to MY demoralization, anquish, guilt, humiliation, alcohol or drug use, public shame, family conflict and break-down, or loss of all around productivity??

Because those are the things many a parents have suffered in the wake of their child 'coming out of the closet' or doing other despicable acts.

'Not saying I, myself, would go through any of that, but many [parents] have.
In answer to you question, how is anyone living their life affection you personally? Why would you be embarrassed over what other people do? And why would start started drinking? I could see if your kids being gay would upset you But if you love your children you should be able to accept them for who they are.
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sam wilson
 
You are a joke
What's up, Sam? What happened to you, back at the Charlie Sheen thread, where you never returned my reply to your 'opinion', given??
I guess you had to duck-out on that one so as not to run afoul of your 'internet buddyship' with the females involved in that controversy, huh?

Avoiding 'conflict of interest' can be tough sometimes, huh?

But I see you found me, on this thread, nonetheless.

So, would you care to expound on your mild insult in calling me a 'joke'?

Those few words, alone, does not give me enough to address.
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negroplease

Maybe no one questioned or said anything to Sudo because no one really cares about how he lives his life except for a few pressed, pathetic individuals.
Edited by negroplease, Mar 10 2011, 12:22 AM.
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Azucar

I actually think he has a fascinating story. To me, he is a man who has come through a lot and reached a place of acceptance and maybe contentment with what has happened in his life. I give him a lot of credit. I think he has a lot of courage.
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asiaticman7

Because they are sick, weak-minded individuals. The process of Effeminization is a bitch. Our women are feminine now we have so called men walking around here like little bitches. The worst of them though are the undercover brothas.

I will forever and always love black/latino women. I find absolutely nothing attractive about another man. Ain't nothing better than a fine naked black/latino beautiful woman!

Homosexuality equals ughhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!
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Mister J
Mar 10 2011, 12:20 AM
sam wilson
 
You are a joke
What's up, Sam? What happened to you, back at the Charlie Sheen thread, where you never returned my reply to your 'opinion', given??
I guess you had to duck-out on that one so as not to run afoul of your 'internet buddyship' with the females involved in that controversy, huh?

Avoiding 'conflict of interest' can be tough sometimes, huh?

But I see you found me, on this thread, nonetheless.

So, would you care to expound on your mild insult in calling me a 'joke'?

Those few words, alone, does not give me enough to address.
I pretty much said all I needed to on the Charlie Sheen saga. I don't even know SUA. Not much of a buddy thing. I would not know her if she walked past me. We just happen to agree on alot of topics. I tend to agree with Kenny & Sudo on a lot of topics as well.

I called you a joke because you would actually disown your own kids over romantic preferences. If they are grown, and their activities are legal, what they do in the bedroom is no concern of yours. You have your life, and you are free to do whatever you want, they have the same right. You don't have to agree with their choices, but you should love them the same. Over a 30 day period, you flirted with a married woman online, but want to throw stones at gay folks?

If it makes you feel better, I dissed Black Hitler too.
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shutupalready
Mar 10 2011, 12:21 AM
Maybe no one questioned or said anything to Sudo because no one really cares about how he lives his life except for a few pressed, pathetic individuals.
Exactly!!! I don't give a damn what Sudo does behind closed doors. If the brotha's happy, then I'm happy. This is the perfect example of live & let live.
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