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Can men and women be just friends
Topic Started: Dec 13 2010, 01:14 AM (1,842 Views)
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memdear70
Dec 13 2010, 12:52 PM
Most definitely men and women can be best plutonic friends. I have 2 male friends that I am very close to have been for over 30yrs. Have never been to the questionable point, just good friends, more like big brothers. A poster made a comment about controling oneself, which leaves a question in my mind about the sincerity of relationships./friendships. When control becomes the mechinism for preserving a friendship your intent is shaky IMO.
What you do when no one is looking is who you truly are, if someone left you alone in a room full of money, would you sneak and put a few dollars in your pocket. If a man is left alone in a room with a woman, does he have self control to not think about having sex with that woman?
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Dec 15 2010, 01:42 AM
memdear70
Dec 13 2010, 12:52 PM
Most definitely men and women can be best plutonic friends. I have 2 male friends that I am very close to have been for over 30yrs. Have never been to the questionable point, just good friends, more like big brothers. A poster made a comment about controling oneself, which leaves a question in my mind about the sincerity of relationships./friendships. When control becomes the mechinism for preserving a friendship your intent is shaky IMO.
What you do when no one is looking is who you truly are, if someone left you alone in a room full of money, would you sneak and put a few dollars in your pocket. If a man is left alone in a room with a woman, does he have self control to not think about having sex with that woman?
Friendship has nothing to do with people's desires or thoughts of having sex.

Those are two separate things. But if a man don't want friendship with a woman, then having sex won't develop it. Women who want a friendship are basically wasting their time on a guy who just wants sex. There's no way of getting around that.
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Glenn D.

Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
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Glenn D.
Dec 16 2010, 07:44 AM
Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
:D :D :D

Who said anything about separating anyone from their sexuality? That's not what this thread is about.

And besides,

You don't want friendship with women. :D
Edited by cisslybee2012, Dec 16 2010, 01:01 PM.
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Dec 16 2010, 12:58 PM
Glenn D.
Dec 16 2010, 07:44 AM
Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
:D :D :D

Who said anything about separating anyone from their sexuality? That's not what this thread is about.

And besides,

You don't want friendship with women. :D
I agree!

I have a great friend who is a male and he is not attracted to me nor am I attracted to him, trust and believe that.

So there is no attraction and we are just honestly friends. And he is a true friend without ulterior motives. Just because you may be a horndog and cannot be friends with a woman do not say others cannot do it.

But since most men are horndogs, and truly are looking for their next fuck and not friendships alot cannot just be friends with a woman.

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Dec 16 2010, 01:22 PM
cisslybee2012
Dec 16 2010, 12:58 PM
Glenn D.
Dec 16 2010, 07:44 AM
Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
:D :D :D

Who said anything about separating anyone from their sexuality? That's not what this thread is about.

And besides,

You don't want friendship with women. :D
I agree!

I have a great friend who is a male and he is not attracted to me nor am I attracted to him, trust and believe that.

So there is no attraction and we are just honestly friends. And he is a true friend without ulterior motives. Just because you may be a horndog and cannot be friends with a woman do not say others cannot do it.

But since most men are horndogs, and truly are looking for their next fuck and not friendships alot cannot just be friends with a woman.

;) There you go.

And even when men do want sex with a woman, it's possible for him to be friends with that woman too, because my late good friend Josh wanted sex with me, but I wasn't trying to go there, and he was still a great friend to me. In fact, all my male friends wanted sex with me and I wasn't going there. But they are still my good friends. ;)

It all depends on how women carry themselves around men, and where a man is coming from to begin with. If all he want is sex, then any woman wanting a friend would be wasting their time giving him what he want. Guys like Glen are out of it and don't care about life or humanity. They just want to get laid. :D
Edited by cisslybee2012, Dec 16 2010, 01:53 PM.
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Dec 16 2010, 01:22 PM
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Dec 16 2010, 12:58 PM
Glenn D.
Dec 16 2010, 07:44 AM
Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
:D :D :D

Who said anything about separating anyone from their sexuality? That's not what this thread is about.

And besides,

You don't want friendship with women. :D
I agree!

I have a great friend who is a male and he is not attracted to me nor am I attracted to him, trust and believe that.

So there is no attraction and we are just honestly friends. And he is a true friend without ulterior motives. Just because you may be a horndog and cannot be friends with a woman do not say others cannot do it.

But since most men are horndogs, and truly are looking for their next fuck and not friendships alot cannot just be friends with a woman.

Wait one dog-gone minute, now.

First off, Glenn is not necessarily wrong in his position.
He said that is the way HE is, and that's the way he thinks men & women, generally, are.
And that seems quite reasonable to me, seeeing as how damn-near everyone CLAIMS to be PLATONIC, or "faithful", or "celibate", or "monogamous", or "single", or not, in the least, desiring of sex... yet there always seems to be some "cheating" going on, or plenty of bodies to have sex with, or sexually, eye-catching-ly dressed females, or clubs full of women provocatively clad, wiggling & sipping alcohol, or all kinds of 'come ons' taking place, at least a dozen times per day... not to mention the subtle messages relayed by eye contact, tone of vioce, body language, text msgs... even frickin', words on a blog!

So why make men the main "horndogs" of the two?
Everything we're doing is by the female's initiative or cooperation so who's more "horndog" than who?
Edited by Mister J, Dec 16 2010, 07:07 PM.
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Mister J
Dec 16 2010, 02:43 PM
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Dec 16 2010, 01:22 PM
cisslybee2012
Dec 16 2010, 12:58 PM
Glenn D.
Dec 16 2010, 07:44 AM
Oh please!!!... I for one cant seperate a woman from her sexuality. I doubt than anyone can seperate the opposite sex from their sexuality. We may be friends but there will always be a sexual component to our relationship.
:D :D :D

Who said anything about separating anyone from their sexuality? That's not what this thread is about.

And besides,

You don't want friendship with women. :D
I agree!

I have a great friend who is a male and he is not attracted to me nor am I attracted to him, trust and believe that.

So there is no attraction and we are just honestly friends. And he is a true friend without ulterior motives. Just because you may be a horndog and cannot be friends with a woman do not say others cannot do it.

But since most men are horndogs, and truly are looking for their next fuck and not friendships alot cannot just be friends with a woman.

Wait one dog-gone minute, now.

First off, Glenn is not necessarily wrong in his position.
He said that is the way HE is, and that's the way he thinks men & women, generally, are.
And that seems quite reasonable to me, seeeing as how damn-near everyone CLAIMS to be PLATONIC, or "faithful", or "celibate", or "monogamous", or "single", or, not in the least, desiring of sex... yet there always seems to be some "cheating" going on, or plenty of bodies to have sex with, or sexually, eye-catching-ly dressed females, or clubs full of women provocatively clad, wiggling & sipping alcohol, or all kinds of 'come ons' taking place, at least a dozen times per day... not to mention the subtle messages relayed by eye contact, tone of vioce, body language, text msgs... even frickin', words on a blog!

So why make men the main "horndogs" of the two?
Everything we're doing is by the female's initiative or cooperation so who's more "horndog" than who?
Gee,

For once, you make sense. :)

But a horndog is a guy who don't want friendship with women but expect to go to the toilet on them. And for free too.

But again, you're right. Women do set all this into motion. :)
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William

if you're a total loser that's intimidated by vagina, then no, you can not have women for friends.
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That's an insightful way of looking at it.
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