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It will be a cold day in hell before I pay a woman's bill
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Oct 31 2010, 12:34 AM
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Oct 31 2010, 12:28 AM
People need to take money out of relationships, because love is not based on what the other person can do for you
Most men don't love anybody. :)


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Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 04:32 PM
bilalian1
Oct 30 2010, 07:31 AM
Some of you guys are hypocrites. On one hand you want a black woman to be submissive and docile then on the other, you don't want to take care of her. This is stupid. If you want black women to be submissive then you have to pay all her bills. Why would she be submissive and you are not willing to support her. I believe most of you guys are young, very immature, and extremely ignorant. You cant have one without the other. If you want a woman to submit, you have to give her a reason to.
Pay to play....you're so right. I don't know why guys fight it. However, more and more men do get it because of the rise in the use of Professional Escorts.

Men should do a basic cost-benefit evaluation (because we all have limited time and resources).....I think the Escorts are winning vs. "regular girl" right now.

I once started a thread on this............

Regular Girl (RG): If you spent $250 dating a RG (over 2-3 weeks) you would probably go to a couple of movies/plays ($60), a couple of dinners ($120), maybe buy some flowers/candy ($35), gas would cost about $40 because you are expected to drive, you would spend about 8 hrs total on the phone talking, throw in a walk in the park (2hrs) and a night of Stepping, Clubbing, Poetry reading or whatever your fancy (4 hrs).........all of this time, money and energy spent..........And you MIGHT get some AVERAGE SEX

Escort (Pro): $250.....One hour of your life. Yes, it is risky even with protection. However, you don't have to hear her whine, bitch, or complain on the phone. You don't have to worry about being manipulated or emasculated.....she is all feminine woman with only one agenda. Masculine-type women don't make it far with most MEN. It's your way and whatever you want SEXUALLY for that hour; no complaints or manipulation. She is a Pro and sexually blows you away. She is completely submissive. You go home relieved and not worried if she dissapproved of you or not. You don't have to call her back the next day, week or year.

Your right, guys need to stop being hypocrites and do the Cost-Benefit Evaluation.

Love and Capitalism make strange bedfellows......and turns people into opportunistic vultures.
One of the reasons I normally offer to go 'Dutch' or buy tickets for a movie/event and invite them myself when I'm getting to know someone....
People get used, so I understand if one may be hesitant to invest too much financially; especially if you've been hurt (played) I know alot of people have an issue with money, which is so insiginficant in a true companionship/friendship. You can't die with it.
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Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 04:32 PM
bilalian1
Oct 30 2010, 07:31 AM
Some of you guys are hypocrites. On one hand you want a black woman to be submissive and docile then on the other, you don't want to take care of her. This is stupid. If you want black women to be submissive then you have to pay all her bills. Why would she be submissive and you are not willing to support her. I believe most of you guys are young, very immature, and extremely ignorant. You cant have one without the other. If you want a woman to submit, you have to give her a reason to.
Pay to play....you're so right. I don't know why guys fight it. However, more and more men do get it because of the rise in the use of Professional Escorts.

Men should do a basic cost-benefit evaluation (because we all have limited time and resources).....I think the Escorts are winning vs. "regular girl" right now.

I once started a thread on this............

Regular Girl (RG): If you spent $250 dating a RG (over 2-3 weeks) you would probably go to a couple of movies/plays ($60), a couple of dinners ($120), maybe buy some flowers/candy ($35), gas would cost about $40 because you are expected to drive, you would spend about 8 hrs total on the phone talking, throw in a walk in the park (2hrs) and a night of Stepping, Clubbing, Poetry reading or whatever your fancy (4 hrs).........all of this time, money and energy spent..........And you MIGHT get some AVERAGE SEX

Escort (Pro): $250.....One hour of your life. Yes, it is risky even with protection. However, you don't have to hear her whine, bitch, or complain on the phone. You don't have to worry about being manipulated or emasculated.....she is all feminine woman with only one agenda. Masculine-type women don't make it far with most MEN. It's your way and whatever you want SEXUALLY for that hour; no complaints or manipulation. She is a Pro and sexually blows you away. She is completely submissive. You go home relieved and not worried if she dissapproved of you or not. You don't have to call her back the next day, week or year.

Your right, guys need to stop being hypocrites and do the Cost-Benefit Evaluation.

Love and Capitalism make strange bedfellows......and turns people into opportunistic vultures.
Well thats true, if you are looking for hookers its better to pay for hookers rather than treating good women like hookers. I firmly believe prostitution should be legal and regulated, it would help get rid of some of these sexually deviant men and help women filter out the ones that want a real relationship instead of deviant sexual play.
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Nirvana10

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Nov 3 2010, 07:30 PM
Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 04:32 PM
bilalian1
Oct 30 2010, 07:31 AM
Some of you guys are hypocrites. On one hand you want a black woman to be submissive and docile then on the other, you don't want to take care of her. This is stupid. If you want black women to be submissive then you have to pay all her bills. Why would she be submissive and you are not willing to support her. I believe most of you guys are young, very immature, and extremely ignorant. You cant have one without the other. If you want a woman to submit, you have to give her a reason to.
Pay to play....you're so right. I don't know why guys fight it. However, more and more men do get it because of the rise in the use of Professional Escorts.

Men should do a basic cost-benefit evaluation (because we all have limited time and resources).....I think the Escorts are winning vs. "regular girl" right now.

I once started a thread on this............

Regular Girl (RG): If you spent $250 dating a RG (over 2-3 weeks) you would probably go to a couple of movies/plays ($60), a couple of dinners ($120), maybe buy some flowers/candy ($35), gas would cost about $40 because you are expected to drive, you would spend about 8 hrs total on the phone talking, throw in a walk in the park (2hrs) and a night of Stepping, Clubbing, Poetry reading or whatever your fancy (4 hrs).........all of this time, money and energy spent..........And you MIGHT get some AVERAGE SEX

Escort (Pro): $250.....One hour of your life. Yes, it is risky even with protection. However, you don't have to hear her whine, bitch, or complain on the phone. You don't have to worry about being manipulated or emasculated.....she is all feminine woman with only one agenda. Masculine-type women don't make it far with most MEN. It's your way and whatever you want SEXUALLY for that hour; no complaints or manipulation. She is a Pro and sexually blows you away. She is completely submissive. You go home relieved and not worried if she dissapproved of you or not. You don't have to call her back the next day, week or year.

Your right, guys need to stop being hypocrites and do the Cost-Benefit Evaluation.

Love and Capitalism make strange bedfellows......and turns people into opportunistic vultures.
One of the reasons I normally offer to go 'Dutch' or buy tickets for a movie/event and invite them myself when I'm getting to know someone....
People get used, so I understand if one may be hesitant to invest too much financially; especially if you've been hurt (played) I know alot of people have an issue with money, which is so insiginficant in a true companionship/friendship. You can't die with it.
No, you can't take it with you but living check to check is for the birds. Money and time are limited resources that no man wants to waste on a manipulator. To a man...money matters. It's what we use to provide for the ones we love.....or like. High Five / pound / fist bump to you for going Dutch........it builds trust. When your guy is comfortable (assuming he's a good one), he will voluntarily take on more of the mutual debt incurred.
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Nirvana10

neoqueen
Nov 3 2010, 08:08 PM
Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 04:32 PM
bilalian1
Oct 30 2010, 07:31 AM
Some of you guys are hypocrites. On one hand you want a black woman to be submissive and docile then on the other, you don't want to take care of her. This is stupid. If you want black women to be submissive then you have to pay all her bills. Why would she be submissive and you are not willing to support her. I believe most of you guys are young, very immature, and extremely ignorant. You cant have one without the other. If you want a woman to submit, you have to give her a reason to.
Pay to play....you're so right. I don't know why guys fight it. However, more and more men do get it because of the rise in the use of Professional Escorts.

Men should do a basic cost-benefit evaluation (because we all have limited time and resources).....I think the Escorts are winning vs. "regular girl" right now.

I once started a thread on this............

Regular Girl (RG): If you spent $250 dating a RG (over 2-3 weeks) you would probably go to a couple of movies/plays ($60), a couple of dinners ($120), maybe buy some flowers/candy ($35), gas would cost about $40 because you are expected to drive, you would spend about 8 hrs total on the phone talking, throw in a walk in the park (2hrs) and a night of Stepping, Clubbing, Poetry reading or whatever your fancy (4 hrs).........all of this time, money and energy spent..........And you MIGHT get some AVERAGE SEX

Escort (Pro): $250.....One hour of your life. Yes, it is risky even with protection. However, you don't have to hear her whine, bitch, or complain on the phone. You don't have to worry about being manipulated or emasculated.....she is all feminine woman with only one agenda. Masculine-type women don't make it far with most MEN. It's your way and whatever you want SEXUALLY for that hour; no complaints or manipulation. She is a Pro and sexually blows you away. She is completely submissive. You go home relieved and not worried if she dissapproved of you or not. You don't have to call her back the next day, week or year.

Your right, guys need to stop being hypocrites and do the Cost-Benefit Evaluation.

Love and Capitalism make strange bedfellows......and turns people into opportunistic vultures.
Well thats true, if you are looking for hookers its better to pay for hookers rather than treating good women like hookers. I firmly believe prostitution should be legal and regulated, it would help get rid of some of these sexually deviant men and help women filter out the ones that want a real relationship instead of deviant sexual play.
Legalization would help but is not needed; prostitution is the oldest profession. Many men who use a Pro are in a 'traditional-real' relationship with other women. Not condoning it; just stating fact. Pro's service men and could care less if they're "married / in a real relationship", or not. Many of their advertisements read: "Need a Break from Wifey".............." I do what your Girlfriend won't", "Get the Girlfriend Experience without the headache", etc
Edited by Nirvana10, Nov 3 2010, 08:35 PM.
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem. :D
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Nov 3 2010, 09:15 PM
It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem. :D
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
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Marcus
Nov 3 2010, 10:07 PM
hoodratkillah
Nov 3 2010, 09:15 PM
It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem. :D
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together .

the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
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Nov 3 2010, 10:27 PM
Marcus
Nov 3 2010, 10:07 PM
hoodratkillah
Nov 3 2010, 09:15 PM
It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem. :D
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together .

the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay

If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck
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