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Should a man pay a woman Bills
Topic Started: Oct 27 2010, 11:41 PM (6,248 Views)
cisslybee2012
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Glenn D.
Oct 28 2010, 06:38 AM
Why does everything come back to money with some people? Do you actually believe that everything has a monitary value? Is that all your relationships are?

Is quid pro quo a healthy basis to live your life. I'd pay a strangers bills if I could. And much more a friends, if he/she need and I'm able. Not because I expect something else, or want something... I'd do it because I can, and they need. Whats the big deal?

I dont understand how someone could live their life so devoid of compassion, and love. No wonder why some people are misrable all the time.

Everything you own, everything you are, can be taken away in the blink of an eye. Life is temporary, as is everything in it. Life IMO is a gift from GOD. Given to us out of love. Why waste it? keeping accounts of what people have done for you/given you balanced against what you have done or given.

Personally all I can say is... Given the choice...
I hope you dance...


Glenn
Male freeloaders like Crunk who started this thread are the ones who make money out to be an issue with everything.

They want to pay the stripper, and get free ride with nice women in the real world. Lead her behind a tree or where ever. He hangs around until she asks for 5 bucks toward the meal he's going to eat. And that's his cue to get moving. :D :D
Edited by cisslybee2012, Oct 28 2010, 12:46 PM.
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cisslybee2012
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memdear70
Oct 28 2010, 12:07 PM
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Oct 28 2010, 10:32 AM
Glenn D.
Oct 28 2010, 06:38 AM
Why does everything come back to money with some people? Do you actually believe that everything has a monitary value? Is that all your relationships are?

Is quid pro quo a healthy basis to live your life. I'd pay a strangers bills if I could. And much more a friends, if he/she need and I'm able. Not because I expect something else, or want something... I'd do it because I can, and they need. Whats the big deal?

I dont understand how someone could live their life so devoid of compassion, and love. No wonder why some people are misrable all the time.

Everything you own, everything you are, can be taken away in the blink of an eye. Life is temporary, as is everything in it. Life IMO is a gift from GOD. Given to us out of love. Why waste it? keeping accounts of what people have done for you/given you balanced against what you have done or given.

Personally all I can say is... Given the choice...
I hope you dance...


Glenn
I totally agree Gllenn. I'm assuming the men who are against it have never asked a woman for help.......right. :D :D :D
That's just it Boss Hogg, they are asking for help and don't even recognize it. Any time someone parks themselves in anothers environment for free they are asking for help.
Most of those who feel that way are just experts at taking someone for granted, then have the nerve to get mad when they are put out of the "nest".

Nothing in this life is free, except air and if they could figure out how many cubic inches each individual uses per day they would charge for that.
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Nothing in this life is free, except air
No Memdear,

Not even the air is free. For every breathe we take, we have to exhale and give back waste in that exhale. :)

So nothing at all is free. :)

Freedom is something to be understood to be utilized wisely. :)
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DJ Crunk
Oct 27 2010, 11:41 PM
Should a man pay a woman's bills, listen at this song

Why would a person expect another person to pay their bills
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cisslybee2012
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Oct 28 2010, 01:32 PM
DJ Crunk
Oct 27 2010, 11:41 PM
Should a man pay a woman's bills, listen at this song

Why would a person expect another person to pay their bills
Why do men expect to freeload? :blink:
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I had a conversation with a man a while back. He complained about taking women on a date and paying, in the same breath he bosted about his nights at the strip club and even picking up a street walker in Vegas. Now, strippers will not even talk to you until they see you've got the money ready, street walkers either, so why oh why are men so eager to give these women their money, but they cry when it comes to the lady in their life? This woman is giving you her time, energy and her body, and you cannot help her if she's down? Or if you are indeed spending time at her place etc. If the relationship is going long term, you are seeing a future with her, I see no reason for you to come out of pocket, you'd do so for a random hoe in the street.
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Oct 28 2010, 01:49 PM
I had a conversation with a man a while back. He complained about taking women on a date and paying, in the same breath he bosted about his nights at the strip club and even picking up a street walker in Vegas. Now, strippers will not even talk to you until they see you've got the money ready, street walkers either, so why oh why are men so eager to give these women their money, but they cry when it comes to the lady in their life? This woman is giving you her time, energy and her body, and you cannot help her if she's down? Or if you are indeed spending time at her place etc. If the relationship is going long term, you are seeing a future with her, I see no reason for you to come out of pocket, you'd do so for a random hoe in the street.
That sounds like prositution, if the man got to pay for a woman's time. If a man is in a relationship with a woman and he got to her bills, that's the same as him picking up a prostitute for sex.
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I had a conversation with a man a while back. He complained about taking women on a date and paying, in the same breath he bosted about his nights at the strip club and even picking up a street walker in Vegas.
Thank thank you thank you Ms. Neo! :O Sister hugs! :wub:

This is the M.O. of most employed black men of all ages. They pay woman for just a look, white woman and then try to get free from nice black women outside of the club. Lead her behind a tree or where ever. And stark stupid enough to brag about where he spends his money while trying to assert his free ride on the nice woman he should be concentrating on earning.

I got a load of this for the first time in my life at age 14 when I was working in a dry cleaners in midtown. A dude a few years older than me named Clyde who also worked there, tried to pull this identical shenanigan on me. Fool lead me to a tree in the park. I was outta there!

They blow up their wages on looking and look for free from real women because they have no money left. So they won't even offer a movie, or a soda and chips, nothing at all. He wants free ride. He's saying that the stripper is better than the real woman. He admires her because she has the gall to expose herself before strangers. But he hasn't the guts to be a man who deserves a woman and he proves that by leading her to the tree.

You're learning beautifully Ms. Neo.

I'm proud of you. :wub:


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Oct 28 2010, 02:02 PM
neoqueen
Oct 28 2010, 01:49 PM
I had a conversation with a man a while back. He complained about taking women on a date and paying, in the same breath he bosted about his nights at the strip club and even picking up a street walker in Vegas. Now, strippers will not even talk to you until they see you've got the money ready, street walkers either, so why oh why are men so eager to give these women their money, but they cry when it comes to the lady in their life? This woman is giving you her time, energy and her body, and you cannot help her if she's down? Or if you are indeed spending time at her place etc. If the relationship is going long term, you are seeing a future with her, I see no reason for you to come out of pocket, you'd do so for a random hoe in the street.
That sounds like prositution, if the man got to pay for a woman's time. If a man is in a relationship with a woman and he got to her bills, that's the same as him picking up a prostitute for sex.
Don't be goofy, you understand what it all means. Men are eager to spend their money on disease ridden prostitutes, nasty strippers, and dirty porn, but when it comes to the REAL woman in their life they tighten the purse straps and think "well she's my woman, I dont have to do nothing for her" If you can't help her out, but you'll spend money on strangers, you've got your priorities screwed up. If she's truly your woman when that bill comes in you're racing to help her, you cant wait to take her on a date, you drive or if you dont have a car you pay for gas, because you are getting HER, her time, energy, and you damned for sure are expecting to have her body. Jesus Christ men dont know how to date at all! Its sad, black men need courting classes, stat!

Edited by neoqueen, Oct 28 2010, 02:14 PM.
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cisslybee2012
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The stripper is better because to him, she's on his dirty sub level. And he will go broke on anyone on his level.

It's not that the real woman is his. That's not what's going on in his mind and why he won't consider doing anything for her besides humiliating her. His problem is that she's above him and it bugs him. His whole objective is to cut her down. Break down her self esteem. Lower her to his level. These men get dumped consistently. It's literally all they know. They have no value in a good woman and they run her off. The best thing she can ever do for him is make him look good in public. Be his showpiece.

Ecclesiasticus 42:14
"BETTER IS THE CHURLISHNESS OF A MAN THAN A COURTEOUS WOMAN, A WOMAN I SAY BRINGETH SHAME AND REPROACH."


Now if you ask any man on what grounds is a disgusting brute better than a real woman? Then they'll start doing what the fellas are doing here. Posting pics and talking about gold digging. They're never going to say: "I don't deserve a good woman."
Edited by cisslybee2012, Oct 28 2010, 02:33 PM.
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Damn, that is so true. I mean, it always baffled my mind why men are soooo willing to make it rain for a stranger sliding down a pole, but will bring greif when their wife or girlfriend needs help. Priorities are just way off for these men and they should not even attempt to have a woman waiting on them at home once the get done with the ho on the corner.

It should never even be a question rather or not you sacrafice for the woman you're married to or dating, she's making sacrafices to be withyou. And if it is a question, if you say you're not going to "be a sucker" you are not worthy of her and you shall remain a strip club roach with no complete home life.

This is why its important to differ dating, from simply bed hopping. If you're a bed hopper, no you're not going to feel as though your pockets should be touched, because you're simply using women for their bodies. But if you are serious about a female, if you want a life and future with her, than it comes without question that you would make sacrafices for her.
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