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Should a man pay a woman Bills
Topic Started: Oct 27 2010, 11:41 PM (6,240 Views)
cisslybee2012
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Fellas,

You've got eyes for bullshit women.

So complaining about getting played for your dollars is useless if that's the kind of women who catch your attention.

The fault lies within you. Not the bullshit women.
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Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 08:11 PM
BossHogg
Nov 3 2010, 07:30 PM
Nirvana10
Nov 3 2010, 04:32 PM
bilalian1
Oct 30 2010, 07:31 AM
Some of you guys are hypocrites. On one hand you want a black woman to be submissive and docile then on the other, you don't want to take care of her. This is stupid. If you want black women to be submissive then you have to pay all her bills. Why would she be submissive and you are not willing to support her. I believe most of you guys are young, very immature, and extremely ignorant. You cant have one without the other. If you want a woman to submit, you have to give her a reason to.
Pay to play....you're so right. I don't know why guys fight it. However, more and more men do get it because of the rise in the use of Professional Escorts.

Men should do a basic cost-benefit evaluation (because we all have limited time and resources).....I think the Escorts are winning vs. "regular girl" right now.

I once started a thread on this............

Regular Girl (RG): If you spent $250 dating a RG (over 2-3 weeks) you would probably go to a couple of movies/plays ($60), a couple of dinners ($120), maybe buy some flowers/candy ($35), gas would cost about $40 because you are expected to drive, you would spend about 8 hrs total on the phone talking, throw in a walk in the park (2hrs) and a night of Stepping, Clubbing, Poetry reading or whatever your fancy (4 hrs).........all of this time, money and energy spent..........And you MIGHT get some AVERAGE SEX

Escort (Pro): $250.....One hour of your life. Yes, it is risky even with protection. However, you don't have to hear her whine, bitch, or complain on the phone. You don't have to worry about being manipulated or emasculated.....she is all feminine woman with only one agenda. Masculine-type women don't make it far with most MEN. It's your way and whatever you want SEXUALLY for that hour; no complaints or manipulation. She is a Pro and sexually blows you away. She is completely submissive. You go home relieved and not worried if she dissapproved of you or not. You don't have to call her back the next day, week or year.

Your right, guys need to stop being hypocrites and do the Cost-Benefit Evaluation.

Love and Capitalism make strange bedfellows......and turns people into opportunistic vultures.
One of the reasons I normally offer to go 'Dutch' or buy tickets for a movie/event and invite them myself when I'm getting to know someone....
People get used, so I understand if one may be hesitant to invest too much financially; especially if you've been hurt (played) I know alot of people have an issue with money, which is so insiginficant in a true companionship/friendship. You can't die with it.
No, you can't take it with you but living check to check is for the birds. Money and time are limited resources that no man wants to waste on a manipulator. To a man...money matters. It's what we use to provide for the ones we love.....or like. High Five / pound / fist bump to you for going Dutch........it builds trust. When your guy is comfortable (assuming he's a good one), he will voluntarily take on more of the mutual debt incurred.
That's my point. :) Money is important to women also and we get used as well....
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A woman shouldn't pay a man's bills either
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Mister J
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All this talk about who is paying who's bills is nonsense that only the paranoid and losers preoccupy themselves with.

If some grown-azz wants to come out their pocket (or pocketbook) for another grown-azz, that's THEIR concern.

I have always welcomed women spending money to buy me occasional gifts, or pick up the tab for meals, entertainment or travel get-a-ways.
It makes me feel special and can even turn me on to the point of giving her some extra good sex.

All that "pay my bills" B.S. is female modus operande'.
And weak, male suckers fall for that.
Developed men don't come at females from that angle.
Instead, he does things to cause a woman to like & want him enough to, voluntarily, share what she has with him...
but in ways that are considered 'respectable' by her.

I kinda think some of you guys may be prone to be that "weak, male sucker" and you need to condition yourselves with constant reminders on what 'not to do' with women.
Edited by Mister J, Nov 9 2010, 12:36 PM.
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cisslybee2012
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I have always welcomed women spending money to buy me occasional gifts, or pick up the tab for meals, entertainment or travel get-a-ways.
It makes me feel special and can even turn me on to the point of giving her some extra good sex.
What's the difference?

Explain the difference between your bills being paid and your bullshit being paid for? :ermm:

But I do commend you for being honest enough to admit that women acting stupid is where you draw every ounce of your self importance from. :-/

Take their stupidity over you away, and you want to kill them. :ermm:
Edited by cisslybee2012, Nov 9 2010, 01:29 PM.
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Marcus
Nov 3 2010, 10:56 PM
I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills

I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills
25 YEARS, and not ONE hoochie hit on you to cover her bills??
Wow, that's quite a record, Marcus.

Why do you think none of the ladies ever asked you to pay her [coochie] bill?
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Mister J
Nov 9 2010, 05:20 PM
Marcus
Nov 3 2010, 10:56 PM
I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills

I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills
25 YEARS, and not ONE hoochie hit on you to cover her bills??
Wow, that's quite a record, Marcus.

Why do you think none of the ladies ever asked you to pay her [coochie] bill?
A woman aint crazy enough to ask me to pay her bills

They aint that crazy
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Bashii
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If they're dating I guess not, unless he wants to make her feel financially secure.
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Glenn D.

LOL I pay my daughters bills all the time...
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Bashii
Nov 12 2010, 05:18 AM
If they're dating I guess not, unless he wants to make her feel financially secure.
This is what I tell people, don't start nothing that you don't plan on keeping up. When you start dating a person if you start paying their bills, they are going to expect for you to continue to do it
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