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Should a man pay a woman Bills
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Topic Started: Oct 27 2010, 11:41 PM (6,241 Views)
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hoodratkillah
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Nov 3 2010, 10:46 PM
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem.
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together . the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck LOL. And that's something you should go over with any woman you date if she seems the type to even want you to pay her bills. People who are out for money usually don't go for somebody who doesn't have it though so if you got bills you probably wont' run into a woman who needs help with hers. Rich men (and rich women) don't really have "bills". Rich folk have something similar to an impound account and all expenses are paid automatically out of that account. Kind of like a credit card that never has a balance. Rich folks never even see a bill.
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Marcus
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Nov 3 2010, 10:56 PM
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem.
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together . the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck
LOL. And that's something you should go over with any woman you date if she seems the type to even want you to pay her bills. People who are out for money usually don't go for somebody who doesn't have it though so if you got bills you probably wont' run into a woman who needs help with hers. Rich men (and rich women) don't really have "bills". Rich folk have something similar to an impound account and all expenses are paid automatically out of that account. Kind of like a credit card that never has a balance. Rich folks never even see a bill. I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills
I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills
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hoodratkillah
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Nov 3 2010, 11:19 PM
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem.
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together . the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck
LOL. And that's something you should go over with any woman you date if she seems the type to even want you to pay her bills. People who are out for money usually don't go for somebody who doesn't have it though so if you got bills you probably wont' run into a woman who needs help with hers. Rich men (and rich women) don't really have "bills". Rich folk have something similar to an impound account and all expenses are paid automatically out of that account. Kind of like a credit card that never has a balance. Rich folks never even see a bill.
I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills Well then this issue is not even your concern is it? You seemed very opinionated about something you never had to deal with. LOL
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Marcus
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Nov 3 2010, 11:22 PM
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem.
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together . the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck
LOL. And that's something you should go over with any woman you date if she seems the type to even want you to pay her bills. People who are out for money usually don't go for somebody who doesn't have it though so if you got bills you probably wont' run into a woman who needs help with hers. Rich men (and rich women) don't really have "bills". Rich folk have something similar to an impound account and all expenses are paid automatically out of that account. Kind of like a credit card that never has a balance. Rich folks never even see a bill.
I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills
Well then this issue is not even your concern is it? You seemed very opinionated about something you never had to deal with. LOL It sure aint my concern, because I'm not going to do it
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Marcus
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Nov 3 2010, 11:23 PM
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Let me tell you what some women do
They take money from one man, and go and give it to another man so that he can pay his bills
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hoodratkillah
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Nov 4 2010, 12:19 AM
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Let me tell you what some women do
They take money from one man, and go and give it to another man so that he can pay his bills And marcus always gets his bills paid. Aint that right marcus? Got all your honies spending another mans' money on you cuz you're just so darn special.
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Marcus
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Nov 4 2010, 12:21 AM
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Let me tell you what some women do
They take money from one man, and go and give it to another man so that he can pay his bills
And marcus always gets his bills paid. Aint that right marcus? Got all your honies spending another mans' money on you cuz you're just so darn special. I'm a single man, and I pay my own bills
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Nov 5 2010, 09:56 PM
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It's not a question of SHOULD it's a question of WANT. If you are a man and you like the woman you're with and you and she feel comfortable with that type of financial arrangement then so be it. There are some women out there who pay their man's bills. It's all about the understanding between two people in a relationship. I think the average couple share the debt. Most people are paying the collective bills because they live together and/or are married. Now if somebody you just met wants you to pay their car note by date two, you have a problem.
People need to pay their own bills, and stop looking for other people to pay their bills
People need to do what is right for them. If you have an arrangement to pay your man or woman's' bills and you can do that, then who are we to judge? there are lot's of people in relationships like this - they are called "kept". I think the downside is that if you ever want to leave....your benefactor will stop payment. Again...most people in relationships share the debt just like they share the bed. You are both in it together . the Destiny Child song makes it seem like the woman is dating a loser who can't help out with anything. Either that or she is a gold digger. Either way she's up front about it.
I'm not going to have an arrangment to pay somebody else bills, I got my own bills to pay If a woman wait on me to pay her bills, she's going to be fresh out of luck
LOL. And that's something you should go over with any woman you date if she seems the type to even want you to pay her bills. People who are out for money usually don't go for somebody who doesn't have it though so if you got bills you probably wont' run into a woman who needs help with hers. Rich men (and rich women) don't really have "bills". Rich folk have something similar to an impound account and all expenses are paid automatically out of that account. Kind of like a credit card that never has a balance. Rich folks never even see a bill.
I don't have to go over that with no woman, because she's not going to ask me to pay her bills I've been dating for over 25 years, and I've never had a woman to ask me to pay her bills So what are you complaining about?
Why are you making a stink over something that never happened to you?
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Nov 8 2010, 04:25 AM
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Men don't start nothing that you don't plan on keeping up, when you start dating a woman and you start paying her bills, she is going to expect you to pay her bills
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Nov 8 2010, 09:58 AM
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Let me tell you what some women do
They take money from one man, and go and give it to another man so that he can pay his bills These days they will give his money to another WOMAN.
Suckers die hard.
And with a Scarlet 'S' on their foreheads. LOL
Edited by Mister J, Nov 8 2010, 11:09 AM.
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