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| Topic Started: Oct 6 2010, 10:00 AM (742 Views) | |
| neoqueen | Oct 6 2010, 10:00 AM Post #1 |
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70% of African-American boys in the criminal justice system come from single-parent homes.![]() Too many fathers are M.I.A, too many fathers are AWOL, missing from too many lives and too many homes,” Mr. Obama said, to a chorus of approving murmurs from the audience. “They have abandoned their responsibilities, acting like boys instead of men. And the foundations of our families are weaker because of it.”- Barack Obama Women have not had a successful track record of raising men. What is the solution? When a man makes a baby, especially a son, he must end the cycle step up. Even if he isnt planning on having a family with the mother. Here are some sites with help and social services. Women want to help, the mother of your child will appreciate your presence, and if she isnt or you feel your child is in danger, the law IS on your side, you have rights. Theres nothing more attractive to a woman than a dedicated father. http://www.fatherhoodinstitute.org/index.php?id=7&cID=294 http://blackfatherhood.com/ http://www.singlefather.org/ http://www.fatherhood.org/ http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/ http://www.fatherhood.gov/ http://www.fathersrightsinc.com/ - offers FREE legal information |
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| your inner voice | Oct 6 2010, 10:14 AM Post #2 |
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Through all the confusion, chaos and abuse, do we even know ourselves? Have we had a chance to get to intimately know each other before we go marching off to.... There are some things we must realize. (1) This system is through. (2) How are we preparing ourselves for the future?... They, the establishment, the government ain't got nothing to do with it any more. Their hands are full covering "their own asses". while we are worried about them, who's worrying about us? History has proven we cannot operate within a system designed to destroy us-see insanity. We need our own peace loving and abiding system so as wallstreet comes tumbling down, we don't go with it. I hope your can appreciate my contribution posted here: www.your-inner-voice.com/Fantasy.html...God bless the child who truly has his own. Thank you for having this platform..Peace and love...Art |
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| neoqueen | Oct 6 2010, 10:18 AM Post #3 |
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Theres so much work, but it starts with one. If we personally start making a change, good things will happen, and it starts with how we raise our children. which article is yours on inner voice? |
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| Black Pharoah | Oct 6 2010, 04:14 PM Post #4 |
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Neo Queen Iuse to work for juvenile system when I tell you we have lost two more generations,when I look at those kids eyes I see hopelessness majority of these children locked up have experienced more in there short life time than we have the abuse cases are incredible they are dead spritually alot of them are already to commit serious crimes so we have to start with the babies now it's so much I can't fit it all in but sad thing is nobody cares everyone is so caught up on surviving or getting rich they are blinded of what's going on with the youth. |
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| neoqueen | Oct 6 2010, 06:13 PM Post #5 |
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oh yea, we definitely need to start as young as possible. But its not too late, we cant give up now |
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| Last Black man | Oct 6 2010, 06:18 PM Post #6 |
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Hold on sister Kate, this is a two way street because a man can not make a woman have a baby unless she is willing, and most woman are picking those type of men. It was a time when a man had to be well dressed and look like he wanted something out of life before a woman would give you the time of day. Now the same clean cut, well dressed, well manner man would not get the time of day from a woman, because she want the bad guy. In college, we had a forum where they were discussing the guys women date. The girls wanted the bad guy because they wanted to change him. The good guy said they were rejected by the woman; yet the guy with five baby mamas were the ones the girls wanted to change. Logic would tell me that the guy with five babies mamas will keep doing the same thing and it should be no surprise when it happens to the next women. But women were fighting over these guys like they were the only guys wroth having on campus. I know this nice guy who just found out that quite a few women had crushes on him but were too scare to let him know at the time. |
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| neoqueen | Oct 6 2010, 07:20 PM Post #7 |
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you know what, I'm not doubting that. Some women are just plain dumb. Yup I said it. I've seen women who have men in their homes that have kids all over the land they don't take care of, and then they wonder why he isnt taking care of their kids. Dumb dumb dumb. A woman must learn early on she cannot ever change a man. If we got that through our heads, the deadbeats would start dying out through the process of natural selection because no woman would let him in. But dont worry, I'm going to get to them. This posting is for the men to stand up... the men are first, should be and always will be. We are strictly talking about men. Edited by neoqueen, Oct 6 2010, 07:20 PM.
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| Black Republican | Oct 6 2010, 07:45 PM Post #8 |
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Black boys need a father in the home |
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| Black Pharoah | Oct 6 2010, 10:10 PM Post #9 |
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they need a father who knows himself and have dignity. |
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| bilalian1 | Oct 6 2010, 11:01 PM Post #10 |
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great post. black men are still living out the role we had during slavery which was to breed children without taking care of them and working for the benefit of others. The solution to this is to live your life according what you believe in. If you are Christian, you should live your life according to the Bible, which speaks out against having children out of wedlock and it encourages marriage. Even if you have a child out of wedlock you should do all you can to be in the child's life and contribute to that child's upkeep. |
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