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a Black Child during slavery had a better chance
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Topic Started: Jul 19 2010, 02:38 AM (3,290 Views)
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Marcus
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Sep 7 2010, 01:12 PM
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tayter when a woman have a child and she's not married she hurts her chances of getting a husband, because some men don't want a ready made family
Women today need to keep that in mind
You are jumping all over the place with the topic, but I'll go with it.... What about that man she had her baby with? She didn't make that baby all by herself.
I don't know but when a woman have have a baby out of wedlock, she hurt her chances of getting a husband
Well a man with kids is hurting his chances too. Women do not want a ready made family either. In fact alot of women I know do not want to date a man with children or baby mama drama. When a woman have a baby out of wedlock, she's going to be the one raising the child alone
1. She has to get a baby sitter before she can go out on a date
2. She has to be back home at a certian time, in order to put the child to bed
3. If the child get sick in school, she is the one that has to take off her job and go and see about the child
And some men are not looking to date a woman like that
Even if the MAN has a child in most cases he's not going to be raising the child, and that makes it a lot eaiser for him to date. He doesn't have to worry about getting a baby sister before he can go out on a date
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tayter80
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Sep 7 2010, 02:56 PM
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How is that? Because I choose not to blame problems on other people. That I don't like to make random statements and not be able to back up what I say because someone questions it?
I'm speaking the truth No you are stating your OPINION.
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Marcus
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Sep 7 2010, 04:29 PM
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How is that? Because I choose not to blame problems on other people. That I don't like to make random statements and not be able to back up what I say because someone questions it?
I'm speaking the truth
No you are stating your OPINION. Do you want to see the black family strong
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Sep 7 2010, 05:24 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
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Marcus
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Sep 7 2010, 05:45 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this?? Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain
So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to
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Sep 7 2010, 05:48 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to A man has to pay child support for 18 years if he gets a woman pregnant, so he should be thinking about that before he lays down with a woman that he's not married to.
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Sep 7 2010, 05:50 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to That's true Marcus,
But women must also get a load of where a man is coming from before marrying him. I don't recommend it at all, but if that's what she wants to do, then she should be ever so careful of who she legally signs her freedom over to. I think you're saying that women can't afford to let the ball drop, and that's as true as daylight.
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Sep 7 2010, 06:05 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to
A man has to pay child support for 18 years if he gets a woman pregnant, so he should be thinking about that before he lays down with a woman that he's not married to. If men had to give birth and go through labor pains, they wouldn't be sleeping around getting pregnant
That's why I can't unserstand why so many women are doing it
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Sep 7 2010, 06:06 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to
A man has to pay child support for 18 years if he gets a woman pregnant, so he should be thinking about that before he lays down with a woman that he's not married to.
If men had to give birth and go through labor pains, they wouldn't be sleeping around getting pregnant That's why I can't unserstand why so many women are doing it That's quite simple for men to say since they're not birthing any children.
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Sep 7 2010, 06:07 PM
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Blaming a the woman solely for an out of weddlock baby is not going to make the black family stronger, so where exactly are you going with this??
Women have to carry a child for 9 months, women have to go through labor pain So they should THINK before they lay down and get pregnant by a man that they're not married to
A man has to pay child support for 18 years if he gets a woman pregnant, so he should be thinking about that before he lays down with a woman that he's not married to.
If men had to give birth and go through labor pains, they wouldn't be sleeping around getting pregnant That's why I can't unserstand why so many women are doing it Men are constantly giving up their precious money to a woman they don't want to be with for 18 years. I can't understand why so many men are doing it...
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