memdear70

Jul 14 2010, 01:29 PM

First of all these "statements" do not speak for all black relationships.

1. Black women make black men feel under appreciated, unwarranted and irresponsible and regressive.

IMO:If a BW is crazy enough to get tangleed up with a man the fits this mold then they both have a problem


2. Black women are too aggressive and no longer patient in waiting on the pursuit of a man.

IMO: That is probably true given the few MEN available

3. Black women are strong headed, too independent which presents great challenges in relationships.

IMO:This statement is contingent on who's evaluating whom. IMO in this circumstance neither person is willing to adjust their way of thinking or it wouldn't be an issue.

4. Black women are masculine in that they are controlling and like to run the relationship.

IMO: Perhaps, but if they are linked w/ someone who does not have or display the capacity to "lead" , someone has to but with a sense of caring and nurturing. Sometimes strength can be viewed as control, if the other person is weak or has no desire to go forward.

5. Black women expect too much. They are gold diggers who will not look twice at a blue collar black man.

IMO: I'm going to pass on this one it has some implications that doesn't ring right.

6. Black women are hot headed and have bad attitudes.

IMO: Probably, but one has to consider also the other side of the coin and their attitude and behavior patterns. Not saying that's the way is should be but there are always 2 sides to everything.

7. Black women stop caring about their appearance after a certain age.

IMO: Says who?

8. Black women are not as sexually open as other races, especially in regards to oral sex.

IMO: Why should they, they don't know where it's been dipped so why take a chance on sucking on something contagious? There's always candy bars.

9. Black women's tolerance is far too low; they are no longer empathetic to the black man's struggle in white America.

IMO:How much is the black man willing to move forward, struggles or not. Comment quite vague.

10. Black women do not cater to their men

IMO:"A favor for a favor" If neither puts anything in the pot why would either expect to get anything out?

There are always two versions to every circumstance. It appears that more and more black men don't want to take the time to talk about the important things. And to talk, means talk not scold or belittle someone because you don't agree. Men, regardless of culture have never been able to talk to a woman w/o the need to be in control. She has to listen to you, but do you listen to her?

Knowledge

Jul 14 2010, 07:19 PM

darknlovely there is no way that you're black, most black men have not been in jail

Daisy Dukes

Jul 21 2010, 08:18 PM

Black women have a lot of issues they need to work on

Daisy Dukes

Jul 21 2010, 08:18 PM

Black women have a lot of issues they need to work on

shutupalready

Aug 2 2010, 10:05 AM

Daisy Dukes

Jul 21 2010, 08:18 PM

Black women have a lot of issues they need to work on

So do white women...so do black men...so do alot of people in general. Why are you so concerned with the plight of black women