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This is how White Women get Black men
Topic Started: Apr 29 2010, 06:15 PM (12,750 Views)
Sunflower
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Damn Right
May 1 2010, 04:30 AM
Women of other races know how to praise and compliment their men, and that's something that black women don't seem to know anything about. Black women are quick to criticize and fuss but they're not quick to praise their men, and then they wonder why men don't stay in their life for long.
Is that what it takes to make you feel like a man? :-/
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Glenn D.

I think it's difficult for a woman to compliment a man who's all the time crying, and complaining. IMO women are more attracted to the confident man. The man who handles his troubles in his own way, and time. I think a woman is more likely to compliment a man she wants to be with, than one she tolerates. I think a woman will compliment a man she believes in...

Sometimes... in fact... most of the time a womans compliment is unspoken. You can see it in her eye's if you take the time to look. You can feel it in her loving if you take the time to ... well just take some time...

If anyone needs a constant barrage of compliments... get themself a gold-digger. They will tell you anything you want to hear...
Edited by Glenn D., May 2 2010, 09:32 AM.
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Glenn D.
May 1 2010, 08:22 PM
I think it's difficult for a woman to compliment a man who's all the time crying, and complaining. IMO women are more attracted to the confident man. The man who handles his troubles in hin own way, and time. I think a woman is more likely to compliment a man she wants to be with, than one she tolerates. I think a woman will compliment a man she believes in...

Sometimes... in fact... most of the time a womans compliment is unspoken. You can see it in her eye's if you take the time to look. You can feel it in her loving if you take the time to ... well just take some time...

If anyone needs a constant barrage of compliments... get themself a gold-digger. They will tell you anything you want to hear...
:wub: Glenn I thank you.......well said and so very true.
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Glenn D.
May 1 2010, 08:22 PM
I think it's difficult for a woman to compliment a man who's all the time crying, and complaining. IMO women are more attracted to the confident man. The man who handles his troubles in hin own way, and time. I think a woman is more likely to compliment a man she wants to be with, than one she tolerates. I think a woman will compliment a man she believes in...

Sometimes... in fact... most of the time a womans compliment is unspoken. You can see it in her eye's if you take the time to look. You can feel it in her loving if you take the time to ... well just take some time...

If anyone needs a constant barrage of compliments... get themself a gold-digger. They will tell you anything you want to hear...
Glenn....lol, You right, Women like a strong confident man. Only a man that lose confident in himself on a daily basis needs complimenting on a daily basis by a woman to help get him threw the day....lol.
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LdyLoretta
May 1 2010, 10:37 PM
Glenn D.
May 1 2010, 08:22 PM
I think it's difficult for a woman to compliment a man who's all the time crying, and complaining. IMO women are more attracted to the confident man. The man who handles his troubles in hin own way, and time. I think a woman is more likely to compliment a man she wants to be with, than one she tolerates. I think a woman will compliment a man she believes in...

Sometimes... in fact... most of the time a womans compliment is unspoken. You can see it in her eye's if you take the time to look. You can feel it in her loving if you take the time to ... well just take some time...

If anyone needs a constant barrage of compliments... get themself a gold-digger. They will tell you anything you want to hear...
Glenn....lol, You right, Women like a strong confident man. Only a man that lose confident in himself on a daily basis needs complimenting on a daily basis by a woman to help get him threw the day....lol.
I mean as woman we want someone the be a leader someone that knows the order of family and confident in it....I tell B thank you for many of things I tell him thanks for loving me....he does a lot of lil things that matters to me....and I take great care of him we nurture one another.....I am good to him and he is good to me. ...He is confident in who he is....and he leads this relationship and our famliy.....



Glenn thanks again...........well said!
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Sunflower
May 1 2010, 10:48 PM
LdyLoretta
May 1 2010, 10:37 PM
Glenn D.
May 1 2010, 08:22 PM
I think it's difficult for a woman to compliment a man who's all the time crying, and complaining. IMO women are more attracted to the confident man. The man who handles his troubles in hin own way, and time. I think a woman is more likely to compliment a man she wants to be with, than one she tolerates. I think a woman will compliment a man she believes in...

Sometimes... in fact... most of the time a womans compliment is unspoken. You can see it in her eye's if you take the time to look. You can feel it in her loving if you take the time to ... well just take some time...

If anyone needs a constant barrage of compliments... get themself a gold-digger. They will tell you anything you want to hear...
Glenn....lol, You right, Women like a strong confident man. Only a man that lose confident in himself on a daily basis needs complimenting on a daily basis by a woman to help get him threw the day....lol.
I mean as woman we want someone the be a leader someone that knows the order of family and confident in it....I tell B thank you for many of things I tell him thanks for loving me....he does a lot of lil things that matters to me....and I take great care of him we nurture one another.....I am good to him and he is good to me. ...He is confident in who he is....and he leads this relationship and our famliy.....



Glenn thanks again...........well said!
Damn Right sounds demanding like he begs or make his white woman compliment him, He complains all the time about black women. Looks like he'll be telling his white woman how he's so much against us black women instead of spending so much time complaining here to us.
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Women if you don't compliment your man, somebody else will

Trust me
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nevergiveup
May 2 2010, 03:31 AM
Women if you don't compliment your man, somebody else will

Trust me
If he is that simple that compliments is what he needs to make him feel strong....then she can compliment him and do whatever she wants with him..............I would not want his w-e-a-k-a-s-s
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nevergiveup
May 2 2010, 03:31 AM
Women if you don't compliment your man, somebody else will

Trust me
Yes you are correct. Women will compliment another womans man. They sure will. But it's usually with an ulterior motive. As I said before... Gold diggers use flattery and compliments as a tool to get what they want.

Any woman who pays me an undeserved compliment is up to something... probably nefarious. As I stated before undeserved compliments are hollow and shallow. They make me feel that the woman see's me as a trick, or an easy mark.

Me a man who like to earn my compliments the hard way... Be a little better than the rest.

However all compliments arent of a sexual, or personal nature. I recently recieved a compliment at work from a woman I didnt know. She simply told me that she was proud of me. Totally made my day.

Compliments have to be earned, and deserved for them to have meaning.


Glenn D

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Glenn D.
May 2 2010, 09:32 AM
nevergiveup
May 2 2010, 03:31 AM
Women if you don't compliment your man, somebody else will

Trust me
Yes you are correct. Women will compliment another womans man. They sure will. But it's usually with an ulterior motive. As I said before... Gold diggers use flattery and compliments as a tool to get what they want.

Any woman who pays me an undeserved compliment is up to something... probably nefarious. As I stated before undeserved compliments are hollow and shallow. They make me feel that the woman see's me as a trick, or an easy mark.

Me a man who like to earn my compliments the hard way... Be a little better than the rest.

However all compliments arent of a sexual, or personal nature. I recently recieved a compliment at work from a woman I didnt know. She simply told me that she was proud of me. Totally made my day.

Compliments have to be earned, and deserved for them to have meaning.


Glenn D

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BRAVO Glennnnnnnnnnn thanks to you again...........you are always so right.....so knowlegdable....they need Psy 101 can you teach it...so the insecure men is or not so knowlegdable about how to treat or understand a woman can learn something so they can find happiness B-)
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