| This is how White Women get Black men | |
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| Topic Started: Apr 29 2010, 06:15 PM (12,731 Views) | |
| William | Jul 28 2010, 08:18 PM Post #221 |
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i'm not the type to believe things without picture proof. |
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| cisslybee2012 | Jul 29 2010, 12:22 AM Post #222 |
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Mr. J, I hear what you're saying. And I respect your opinion. That's for real. But please understand, that I wasn't a bad looker in my youth, and a lot slenderer than today in my avatar, and I don't think you could ever understand what I been thru with men before throwing the towel in for good, so I won't go there. But I will say this. In my experience I found that compliments mean nothing. Men have complimented me into oblivion, but not lifted a finger to help me out to do simple things such as help me move furniture or paint my house. So it don't matter how good a woman looks to a man or how much he compliments her. I learned thru hard knocks that compliments are bull in it's purest form. What a man says is one thing, and what he do is quite another. So a guy is not gonna get to me with compliments. Truth I learned from men. And lessons I well appreciate and thank them for. It's always a good thing to learn something, no matter how painful the lesson. And for damnright, I warn you young man that you're looking for trouble. Bull is bull no matter who it's coming from. Men don't need praise. They need a woman whose positive, strong and caring. It's not about verbal praise. It's about how someone treats you. I would rather be treated as a partner than a fool smeared with compliments. Praise are for small children growing up. It's supposed to come from the mother, it's essential to the child's psyche but most children don't get it from their mother which is why as adults we look for it and think we need it. Edited by cisslybee2012, Jul 29 2010, 12:32 AM.
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| Mister J | Jul 29 2010, 08:49 AM Post #223 |
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Quote: "Men have complimented me into oblivion, but not lifted a finger to help me out to do simple things like moving my furniture or painting my house" Say whaaat... those shiftless bums would not even help you move the love-seat and sofa or hold a paint bucket? That a shame and a blot on Blk manhood, everywhere. I hereby render my upmost apology on behalf of furniture-moving and house-painting men the world over. In addition, you are selected to receive a complimentary (no pun intended) coupon for one session of funiture moving or house-painting assistance, good for one year, with no redeemable value*. {*other terms and conditions apply, including, but not limited to, pacing around the house in a 'baby doll' lingerie while the house painter is working}
Edited by Mister J, Jul 29 2010, 08:50 AM.
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| Mrsincere | Jul 29 2010, 11:49 AM Post #224 |
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Men dont typically feel the need to help women to move furniture or paint their houses, especially after they find out these women already have the equipment to move furniture and to paint houses. And whose to say those men even know how to move furniture or paint a house? Women cant assume or presuppose a man knows how to move furniture or paint her house. If a woman is claiming to be independent, she should be moving her own furniture and painting her own house......not making an issue about men not lifting a finger to help. Besides men arent mind readers.....if anybody wants help, they need to ask for it. If a woman still cant get a man to lift a finger to help even after she asked for help.....then there got to be something wrong with that woman, or she's likely in receive mode and has no clue what commensurate reciprocation means. Edited by Mrsincere, Jul 29 2010, 11:53 AM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Jul 29 2010, 03:57 PM Post #225 |
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Haaa! I love you Mr. J. How could I possibly not? But a deal is a deal. My needs get filled BEFORE the other thingy. Edited by cisslybee2012, Jul 29 2010, 03:58 PM.
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| cisslybee2012 | Jul 29 2010, 04:12 PM Post #226 |
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It sounds like you hate me. But when did I say that I didn't ASK men for their help? And I do paint my own house and move my stuff. I wasn't making an issue. I was making a point. There's a difference. I learned to stop making issues many moons ago with help from men and I'm thankful to them for. They helped me to realize that the fault lies within me and the source of my faults tracing to my mother. And men don't feel like helping women because of their mother. Not because some women exercise independence. And women don't feel like being good mothers because of their mother. The result is men who hate women who won't let them control them and women disrespecting men who won't relieve them of their problems. They bash each other over problems mother created. And if you say there's something wrong with me, then you're right. Whatever you say Mr. Sincere.
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| memdear70 | Jul 29 2010, 06:56 PM Post #227 |
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William, just out of curiosity why are the things I post crazy? And I think you were saying I'm bored, I'm quite the opposite. So if I was bored then that's what makes me say crazy things right? Just wondering. |
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| Damn Right | Jul 29 2010, 07:08 PM Post #228 |
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White women have a better chance of getting a husband, because they know the science of getting a man |
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| cisslybee2012 | Jul 29 2010, 07:21 PM Post #229 |
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Of course they do. In your imagination.
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| Damn Right | Jul 29 2010, 07:34 PM Post #230 |
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Look at the stats more white women are married than black women |
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