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ABC News-----special on Black relationships
Topic Started: Apr 22 2010, 08:59 PM (10,500 Views)
BelloBesos	Apr 23 2010, 12:06 AM Post #11
Posts: 89 Group: Members Member #442 Joined: Mar 26, 2010	I enjoyed these videos!!! We are very divided. We are def not communicating enough.



Nat Turner	Apr 23 2010, 12:07 AM Post #12
Posts: 6,985 Group: Members Member #3 Joined: Sep 10, 2009	Hotep Apr 22 2010, 11:54 PM we hate each other because we're both in f'ed up situations. but we dont have sympathy for what's been done to us in this country ... we want the perfect person who has arisen from the b.s. that's going on all around them. henceforth most of us are single and women are raising the kids. we have to be able to be sensitive to the black situation in america when we date each other. if we don't ... we will become extinct as africans in this country. Are we looking at the WILLIE LYNCH syndrome Where in order to make people slaves, you put the male against the female. You put the young against the old, you put the light skin blacks and against the dark skin blacks you put the educated blacks against the uneducated blacks, you put the rich blacks against the poor blacks You keep them fighting each other and white people stay it power, so could it be the Willie Lynch syndrome that's keeping Black men and Black women divided.



Sunflower	Apr 23 2010, 12:14 AM Post #13
Posts: 2,512 Group: Members Member #272 Joined: Dec 13, 2009	Hotep Apr 22 2010, 11:54 PM we hate each other because we're both in f'ed up situations. but we dont have sympathy for what's been done to us in this country ... we want the perfect person who has arisen from the b.s. that's going on all around them. henceforth most of us are single and women are raising the kids. we have to be able to be sensitive to the black situation in america when we date each other. if we don't ... we will become extinct as africans in this country. Hotep I agree with everything you say here.....however is it fair for me to say who is the most responsible for running away from being fed up black men or women.................... Keep it move ignore the DEVIL!!!!



Sunflower	Apr 23 2010, 12:17 AM Post #14
Posts: 2,512 Group: Members Member #272 Joined: Dec 13, 2009	Nat Turner Apr 23 2010, 12:03 AM Sunflower Apr 22 2010, 11:55 PM Nat Turner Apr 22 2010, 11:51 PM What will it take to solve the divide between black men and black women, looking at those videos black men and black women are on different pages Nat that's why I say lets disect this...........all the answers are there....we don't communicate and Steve indicated that we all have the wrong information about one another.....black men have the wrong information about black women and black women have the wrong information about black men............... The screw up fairy/ devil is lurking ignore her..... I love Steve Harvey he's a good brother, but I think he's been married 3 of 4 times. So it took him a while to figure it out, he had to grow as a man and become older. Yup...yup...I like him also....Hill Harper I love him also but I was very disappointed that he went outside the culture....If he love black so much and he is so concerned why did he not take a black woman? Just curious



Sunflower	Apr 23 2010, 12:19 AM Post #15
Posts: 2,512 Group: Members Member #272 Joined: Dec 13, 2009	One other thing about miscommunication that Steve said we are getting the wrong information from our elders............. that saddens me.



Nat Turner	Apr 23 2010, 12:31 AM Post #16
Posts: 6,985 Group: Members Member #3 Joined: Sep 10, 2009	BelloBesos Apr 23 2010, 12:06 AM I enjoyed these videos!!! We are very divided. We are def not communicating enough. What do you think is the solution to the divide between Black men and Black women



Nat Turner	Apr 23 2010, 12:36 AM Post #17
Posts: 6,985 Group: Members Member #3 Joined: Sep 10, 2009	Sunflower Apr 23 2010, 12:19 AM One other thing about miscommunication that Steve said we are getting the wrong information from our elders............. that saddens me. Those are steve's OPINIONS not facts Our elders got married and stayed married for 60 years or more I love brother Steve, but he's on his 3 or 4th marriage. Now I'm not saying that he can't give some good advice. But our elders had a proven track record when it came to marriage and having strong families The lady that Steve married I think she's been married several time herself, because she already had kids when she met Steve



Nat Turner	Apr 23 2010, 12:42 AM Post #18
Posts: 6,985 Group: Members Member #3 Joined: Sep 10, 2009	Minister Farrakhan teach some good classes on relationships, and he's been married to the same woman for over 55 years. He would be a good person to listen to on this subject



God Son	Apr 23 2010, 03:45 AM Post #19
Posts: 1,049 Group: Members Member #399 Joined: Mar 1, 2010	Thanks for those videos



Hotep	Apr 23 2010, 03:47 AM Post #20
Posts: 39 Group: Members Member #193 Joined: Dec 7, 2009	Elle Apr 23 2010, 12:00 AM Hotep Apr 22 2010, 11:54 PM we hate each other because we're both in f'ed up situations. but we dont have sympathy for what's been done to us in this country ... we want the perfect person who has arisen from the b.s. that's going on all around them. henceforth most of us are single and women are raising the kids. we have to be able to be sensitive to the black situation in america when we date each other. if we don't ... we will become extinct as africans in this country. Us? Oh, you mean a small percentage of your ancestors. Stop speaking as if you lived during slavery. You didn't. Your parents didn't. Your grandparents didn't. Moving on... please explain what you're talking about here
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