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Toya

FYI

Willie Lynch was debunked, Google it.
It's just one person's observation of how some Blacks are in today's society.
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Nirvana10

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Mar 25 2010, 04:10 PM
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Mar 24 2010, 07:33 PM
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Mar 23 2010, 10:47 PM
reddgirl64
Mar 23 2010, 09:30 PM
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Mar 23 2010, 02:47 PM
BLACKMALEnNYC
Mar 23 2010, 02:03 PM
:( Why do black men date ugly white women with frizzy hair, bad skin, misshappen bodies, trashy looking. If your gonna turn your back on black women then at least get a women that is certified fine! Can someone explain why when you see a black man with a white women they are always holding hands? You rarely see that with any other mixed combination. Why???? Is it because he thinks she beautiful. Usually the black man is quite handsome and the whilte women is BUSTED! Dont hate ya'll know you have thought it yourselves!
Here's one reason.....Unattractive brothers can date white women (no matter how ugly)and good-looking black women will become interested in them. Basically, some black men date white women to attract black women.......We understand that sisters are infatuated with anything that comes close to being Anglo or is affiliated with Anglo wealth.
This sentence should have read,

"I'm an unattractive brother and I date white women (no matter how ugly)and I hope that good-looking black women willt then become interested in me!

See, that sounds more logical. You can't speak for "brothers", you are speaking for yourself!

Now tell us why you date such busted white women.

No! Your paraphrasing is so off..........Black women are attracted to brothers who have a pretty-smart white woman or light skinned sister on their arm. This is truth for every Black man and we know it. My only point. I know I struck a nerve Redd....but I'm not trying to be offensive to black women; just stating a general truth.

Sisters are infatuated with any brother who can show that he as been accepted by a smart-pretty white woman or mixed raced sister. Educated Black women have personally told me that "a brother HAS TO BE better connected and closer to influential people (maybe even rich/famous ones) if he is with one of their women".........
Your quote,

1) "Black women are attracted to brothers who have a pretty-smart white woman or light skinned sister on their arm. This is truth for every Black man and we know it. My only point. I know I struck a nerve Redd....but I'm not trying to be offensive to black women; just stating a general truth."

This is where you lost me, are you speaking for me? my sisters? my mom? You see, I showed this to my brothers, and they said the same thing as I, you must be speaking from experience, your experience. The black men in my world would never, I mean never, degrade, disrespect, hit, or demean any black women, no matter what her grievance is. My black men are men, they take their punches like a man, heal their wounds, and get back in the game. Their "pain" is dealt with, and forgotten. No carry-over effect from the last women, slate is clean. She will be judged off what she brings to the table, not the leftovers from the last one. My brothers are providers in their homes, active in the community, and father figures to those without one.

Now tell me about what kind of brother you are? Seeing that you speak for all of them...

2) "Sisters are infatuated with any brother who can show that he as been accepted by a smart-pretty white woman or mixed raced sister. Educated Black women have personally told me that "a brother HAS TO BE better connected and closer to influential people (maybe even rich/famous ones) if he is with one of their women".........

Again, you should state that these are YOUR sisters, YOUR mom, YOUR aunts, YOUR daughters! This low self esteem that affects your family, well, really needs to be addressed. This insincerity you have seems to have mad you bitter towards AA women, again, you need to deal with this. Baggage over time, will only get heavier and heavier.

Define what you think is an educated woman? Did you ask those "educated women" to explain why they feel that way? Why would you allow some women to tell you something, and now you think it gospel? If you believe everything someone tells you, well, I have a rice field in China, maybe oil underneath for only $500.00, send money via WU. Again, brother, you need to venture out more, expose yourself to different black women.

BTW - To strike a nerve means you've made a point, please, help me to understand what your point is!! I'm pretty educated, degrees and all.......If you've noticed, I don't speak for all AA women, I keep the conversation within my family, keep your opines within your family and experience. Don't venture out and annoint yourself the spokeperson for all men, you might get your hand slapped!
Ok Redd64.........a 45yr/old lonely Black Woman; right? Yes, I am speaking from experience. My personal experience of dating and phucking: Black Female Lawyers, Doctors, Architects and last week ......a Black Female working for the Federal Gov't who's been making at least six figures over the last 5 years. To answer your question....these are the women I am referring to. I never mentioned or made a notion that it was cool to be physically abusive to women (that was your personal, emotional tangent that was off the subject ----- been beat up lately?)

What kind of brother am I? A TEN PERCENTER (10%). If you don't know what that means then read a book written by George Washington Carver. If you had a basic comprehension of history you would know that you have been pre-conditioned to prefer brothers who seem "accepted" by Anglo women or mixed raced sisters. Willie Lynch Letters - read and learn your history.

I see this / live this everyday. Please stop lying to yourself. You suck your teeth everytime you see a brother with a white girl and wonder..........."what's wrong with us?"

Before responding, I went back and read most of your posts. You are one bitter man, all you seem to do it bitch, Bitch, BITCH!!

Let me solve your problem for you, Stop dating them black women! Let me see, lawyers, doctors, architects, and last but not least, a black female working for the feds (whatever kind of job that is), seems to me, you like what don't like you! A bit of advice, start dating smart women, wise women, intelligent women, ok. You see "educated" only means you got a piece of paper,after passing a test, doesn't make you smart, wise or intelligent.

Here's my quote,
"the black men in my world would never, I mean never, degrade, disrespect, hit, or demean any black women, no matter what her grievance is. My black men are men, they take their punches like a man, heal their wounds, and get back in the game. Their "pain" is dealt with, and forgotten. No carry-over effect from the last women, slate is clean. She will be judged off what she brings to the table, not the leftovers from the last one. My brothers are providers in their homes, active in the community, and father figures to those without one."

Now, show me where I state that I'm referencing you? Just cut and paste it for me, ok?

Now, lets discuss that 10% you claim to belong to. IF you were a 10%, you wouldn't be complaining about any women, you would have the knowledge of, " what is to be expect, what is expected, and how to deal with expectations". You see, I have 5 brothers, three are 5%'ers. Can you give me the creed of 5%'er? You see, a percenter would never, and I mean never, make the statements you've made regarding black women, would never use the Willie Lynch letters as a form of acceptance. Let me give you some enlightenment, just because someone says something, (Willie Lynch) does not make it so, silly! That's like your grandfather telling you the sky is blue because he pointed a mirror at it, and now you think that's why the sky is blue. Thats just Willie opine, get it?

Now this is priceless,

"I see this / live this everyday. Please stop lying to yourself. You suck your teeth everytime you see a brother with a white girl and wonder..........."what's wrong with us?"

Now isn't that something a 5%'er would say? Look in a nutshell, you bitch so much, that someone is going to think that you are a BITCH, please, stop with the bitching. Go date a tree, who cares, just stop trying to justify why you are dating a tree.

BTW- I love my man, he's chocolate, handsome, and very smart. I've been with him over 25 years, so I kinda did it right, you don't see me BITCHING about black men, do you?

I don't get it, if women are so hard to deal with, try playing for the other side.....
You obviously don't understand what makes up a 10 Percenter. You probably never heard of the concept until I mentioned it. I'm absolutely sure that you've never read anything written by G.W. Carter or the Willie Lynch Letters. I told you that I HAVE SEX/RELATIONSHIPS with Black Female: Dr.'s, JD's, Architects and Fed Gov't Workers and you say these women are not smart - and that they don't like me?! They are the 10 Percenters on the Black Female side that you would probably call stuck up.

I won't continue to respond to such emotional incompetence; but will leave you with this.

When you see a brother with a white woman; you suck your teeth, roll your eyes and think.........."what's wrong with us"
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Nirvana10

Toya
Mar 25 2010, 04:51 PM
FYI

Willie Lynch was debunked, Google it.
It's just one person's observation of how some Blacks are in today's society.
Debunked???!!! Are you serious. One person's view?! This guy traveled from the Carribean to the Lynchburg, VA.....training hundreds of slave masters on how to phuck us up for Centuries........Toya, you really suprised me here. Maybe you haven't read it in awhile................

http://www.finalcall.com/artman/publish/Perspectives_1/Willie_Lynch_letter_The_Making_of_a_Slave.shtml
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Sasha

Like I've said before, I don't have a problem with the brothas dating pink women, I just wish they didn't think they had to insult and/or put black women down to make themselves be more desirable. I have had the experience of a brotha not speaking to me because he was with a pink girl. It was as if he was afraid to even look at me. Hey, I'm not upset about it - was the pink girl going to quit him if he spoke to me? Still don't get that one and I'm sure it happens a lot.
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reddgirl64

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Mar 25 2010, 06:23 PM
reddgirl64
Mar 25 2010, 04:10 PM
Nirvana10
Mar 24 2010, 07:33 PM
reddgirl64
Mar 24 2010, 12:12 PM
Nirvana10
Mar 23 2010, 10:47 PM
reddgirl64
Mar 23 2010, 09:30 PM
Nirvana10
Mar 23 2010, 02:47 PM
BLACKMALEnNYC
Mar 23 2010, 02:03 PM
:( Why do black men date ugly white women with frizzy hair, bad skin, misshappen bodies, trashy looking. If your gonna turn your back on black women then at least get a women that is certified fine! Can someone explain why when you see a black man with a white women they are always holding hands? You rarely see that with any other mixed combination. Why???? Is it because he thinks she beautiful. Usually the black man is quite handsome and the whilte women is BUSTED! Dont hate ya'll know you have thought it yourselves!
Here's one reason.....Unattractive brothers can date white women (no matter how ugly)and good-looking black women will become interested in them. Basically, some black men date white women to attract black women.......We understand that sisters are infatuated with anything that comes close to being Anglo or is affiliated with Anglo wealth.
This sentence should have read,

"I'm an unattractive brother and I date white women (no matter how ugly)and I hope that good-looking black women willt then become interested in me!

See, that sounds more logical. You can't speak for "brothers", you are speaking for yourself!

Now tell us why you date such busted white women.

No! Your paraphrasing is so off..........Black women are attracted to brothers who have a pretty-smart white woman or light skinned sister on their arm. This is truth for every Black man and we know it. My only point. I know I struck a nerve Redd....but I'm not trying to be offensive to black women; just stating a general truth.

Sisters are infatuated with any brother who can show that he as been accepted by a smart-pretty white woman or mixed raced sister. Educated Black women have personally told me that "a brother HAS TO BE better connected and closer to influential people (maybe even rich/famous ones) if he is with one of their women".........
Your quote,

1) "Black women are attracted to brothers who have a pretty-smart white woman or light skinned sister on their arm. This is truth for every Black man and we know it. My only point. I know I struck a nerve Redd....but I'm not trying to be offensive to black women; just stating a general truth."

This is where you lost me, are you speaking for me? my sisters? my mom? You see, I showed this to my brothers, and they said the same thing as I, you must be speaking from experience, your experience. The black men in my world would never, I mean never, degrade, disrespect, hit, or demean any black women, no matter what her grievance is. My black men are men, they take their punches like a man, heal their wounds, and get back in the game. Their "pain" is dealt with, and forgotten. No carry-over effect from the last women, slate is clean. She will be judged off what she brings to the table, not the leftovers from the last one. My brothers are providers in their homes, active in the community, and father figures to those without one.

Now tell me about what kind of brother you are? Seeing that you speak for all of them...

2) "Sisters are infatuated with any brother who can show that he as been accepted by a smart-pretty white woman or mixed raced sister. Educated Black women have personally told me that "a brother HAS TO BE better connected and closer to influential people (maybe even rich/famous ones) if he is with one of their women".........

Again, you should state that these are YOUR sisters, YOUR mom, YOUR aunts, YOUR daughters! This low self esteem that affects your family, well, really needs to be addressed. This insincerity you have seems to have mad you bitter towards AA women, again, you need to deal with this. Baggage over time, will only get heavier and heavier.

Define what you think is an educated woman? Did you ask those "educated women" to explain why they feel that way? Why would you allow some women to tell you something, and now you think it gospel? If you believe everything someone tells you, well, I have a rice field in China, maybe oil underneath for only $500.00, send money via WU. Again, brother, you need to venture out more, expose yourself to different black women.

BTW - To strike a nerve means you've made a point, please, help me to understand what your point is!! I'm pretty educated, degrees and all.......If you've noticed, I don't speak for all AA women, I keep the conversation within my family, keep your opines within your family and experience. Don't venture out and annoint yourself the spokeperson for all men, you might get your hand slapped!
Ok Redd64.........a 45yr/old lonely Black Woman; right? Yes, I am speaking from experience. My personal experience of dating and phucking: Black Female Lawyers, Doctors, Architects and last week ......a Black Female working for the Federal Gov't who's been making at least six figures over the last 5 years. To answer your question....these are the women I am referring to. I never mentioned or made a notion that it was cool to be physically abusive to women (that was your personal, emotional tangent that was off the subject ----- been beat up lately?)

What kind of brother am I? A TEN PERCENTER (10%). If you don't know what that means then read a book written by George Washington Carver. If you had a basic comprehension of history you would know that you have been pre-conditioned to prefer brothers who seem "accepted" by Anglo women or mixed raced sisters. Willie Lynch Letters - read and learn your history.

I see this / live this everyday. Please stop lying to yourself. You suck your teeth everytime you see a brother with a white girl and wonder..........."what's wrong with us?"

Before responding, I went back and read most of your posts. You are one bitter man, all you seem to do it bitch, Bitch, BITCH!!

Let me solve your problem for you, Stop dating them black women! Let me see, lawyers, doctors, architects, and last but not least, a black female working for the feds (whatever kind of job that is), seems to me, you like what don't like you! A bit of advice, start dating smart women, wise women, intelligent women, ok. You see "educated" only means you got a piece of paper,after passing a test, doesn't make you smart, wise or intelligent.

Here's my quote,
"the black men in my world would never, I mean never, degrade, disrespect, hit, or demean any black women, no matter what her grievance is. My black men are men, they take their punches like a man, heal their wounds, and get back in the game. Their "pain" is dealt with, and forgotten. No carry-over effect from the last women, slate is clean. She will be judged off what she brings to the table, not the leftovers from the last one. My brothers are providers in their homes, active in the community, and father figures to those without one."

Now, show me where I state that I'm referencing you? Just cut and paste it for me, ok?

Now, lets discuss that 10% you claim to belong to. IF you were a 10%, you wouldn't be complaining about any women, you would have the knowledge of, " what is to be expect, what is expected, and how to deal with expectations". You see, I have 5 brothers, three are 5%'ers. Can you give me the creed of 5%'er? You see, a percenter would never, and I mean never, make the statements you've made regarding black women, would never use the Willie Lynch letters as a form of acceptance. Let me give you some enlightenment, just because someone says something, (Willie Lynch) does not make it so, silly! That's like your grandfather telling you the sky is blue because he pointed a mirror at it, and now you think that's why the sky is blue. Thats just Willie opine, get it?

Now this is priceless,

"I see this / live this everyday. Please stop lying to yourself. You suck your teeth everytime you see a brother with a white girl and wonder..........."what's wrong with us?"

Now isn't that something a 5%'er would say? Look in a nutshell, you bitch so much, that someone is going to think that you are a BITCH, please, stop with the bitching. Go date a tree, who cares, just stop trying to justify why you are dating a tree.

BTW- I love my man, he's chocolate, handsome, and very smart. I've been with him over 25 years, so I kinda did it right, you don't see me BITCHING about black men, do you?

I don't get it, if women are so hard to deal with, try playing for the other side.....
You obviously don't understand what makes up a 10 Percenter. You probably never heard of the concept until I mentioned it. I'm absolutely sure that you've never read anything written by G.W. Carter or the Willie Lynch Letters. I told you that I HAVE SEX/RELATIONSHIPS with Black Female: Dr.'s, JD's, Architects and Fed Gov't Workers and you say these women are not smart - and that they don't like me?! They are the 10 Percenters on the Black Female side that you would probably call stuck up.

I won't continue to respond to such emotional incompetence; but will leave you with this.

When you see a brother with a white woman; you suck your teeth, roll your eyes and think.........."what's wrong with us"
I still don't understand your stance. What are you bitching about? Are those women making you happy? If so, then whatcha complaining about? I need you to stop being so emotional, and allow logic to be your guide. Let me explain simply, just because you got a degree, doesn't make you smart! It does mean you passed a test, and got a piece of paper. Intellect and wisdom comes with experience and age. Smart usually means you understand. Now tell me again, what the fuck is your point?

Now, are your 10%'ers something like the 5%'ers? Because I am truly aware of them!
I think I ask you the creed to the logic of the 5%'ers, I don't remember reading that in your response. You see, a 5%'er would never believe in the Lynch theory, because it means that you are allowing yourself to be controled. It's like having the test and the answers and still failing. If you think it, then so it shall be. I don't prescribe to the theory of allowing myself to be controlled, I have a mind, brain, and alot of common sense.
I would like for you to show me where you got the idea that YOUR 10%'ers think the Lynch theory is correct? Should be easy to give me that link, I would really like to read that, why you're doing that, get the creed also.

I have asked my bro, who's a 5%'er, if he's ever hear of the percenters believing in the lynch creed. He wants to see that also. He also made a good point, you protest to much, you put to much of your business out there, could it be that you are "stretching" the truth a bit? Real men never kiss and tell, only the ugly ones brag, they are not used to getting it!

I'll await that link.

One more thing, I have a strong mind and body, you will have to get better ghetto jokes to make me feel bad, however, it does seems that you like to bitch alot, and you know what they say about bitchy men!

We are waiting, all we need is that info........
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reddgirl64

Oh, forgot to add, Nirvana, not the sect associated with the NOI. You should no exactly what I mean by that!
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reddgirl64
Mar 23 2010, 09:30 PM
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Mar 23 2010, 02:47 PM
BLACKMALEnNYC
Mar 23 2010, 02:03 PM
:( Why do black men date ugly white women with frizzy hair, bad skin, misshappen bodies, trashy looking. If your gonna turn your back on black women then at least get a women that is certified fine! Can someone explain why when you see a black man with a white women they are always holding hands? You rarely see that with any other mixed combination. Why???? Is it because he thinks she beautiful. Usually the black man is quite handsome and the whilte women is BUSTED! Dont hate ya'll know you have thought it yourselves!
Here's one reason.....Unattractive brothers can date white women (no matter how ugly)and good-looking black women will become interested in them. Basically, some black men date white women to attract black women.......We understand that sisters are infatuated with anything that comes close to being Anglo or is affiliated with Anglo wealth.
This sentence should have read,

"I'm an unattractive brother and I date white women (no matter how ugly)and I hope that good-looking black women willt then become interested in me!

See, that sounds more logical. You can't speak for "brothers", you are speaking for yourself!

Now tell us why you date such busted white women.

I told marcus in another post its normally brothas that look like trolls and really its really brothas with low self esteem not so much to do with appearance
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Nirvana10

reddgirl64
Mar 25 2010, 07:43 PM
Oh, forgot to add, Nirvana, not the sect associated with the NOI. You should no exactly what I mean by that!
Cute comments........No, a degree or two does not make a woman smart. I'll give you that one. However, you are totally incorrect to think that the application of the Willie Lynch teachings does not exist or is not prevalent today. It's the main reason why we as Black people can't develop businesses or family relationships AT THE CAPACITY of other ethnic groups that are in the U.S (Mexicans, Jews, Asians, etc).

Access the link below (Willie Lynch Letter). It applies today; no matter how much you "don't believe in it". Your white boss on the job does.

http://www.finalcall.com/artman/publish/Perspectives_1/Willie_Lynch_letter_The_Making_of_a_Slave.shtml

Edited by Nirvana10, Mar 25 2010, 10:02 PM.
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Sasha
Mar 25 2010, 06:34 PM
Like I've said before, I don't have a problem with the brothas dating pink women, I just wish they didn't think they had to insult and/or put black women down to make themselves be more desirable. I have had the experience of a brotha not speaking to me because he was with a pink girl. It was as if he was afraid to even look at me. Hey, I'm not upset about it - was the pink girl going to quit him if he spoke to me? Still don't get that one and I'm sure it happens a lot.
When the majority of black women (not Sasha 'cause she's different) see a brother with a white girl they roll their eyes, suck their teeth and make physically disapproving gestures that scare the brothers white date (for real, I've lived this). Unless the white girl is a whigger. A whigger white girl will go head up w/ any sister 'cause she's got something to prove. Anyhow, it's cool that you don't get upset, but the brother might not have wanted to talk to you because he was into the white girl and NOT EVEN THINKING ABOUT YOU OR WANTED TO DEAL WITH YOU WHILE HE WAS WITH HIS GIRL.

Only pasty white girls turn pink....I really don't understand why brothers choose them. But rarely do I see an ugly white girl with a Brother who's got something going for himself. However, i see Trailer Park Trash Becky and Ghetto Ass Tyrone hooking up constantly.

Note: It's only pink on the inside.
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I've noticed this with people period not race.
I've seen good looking men with ugly women of every race and vice versa.
No one can say they have not,but people can date who they want.

Some men including women seek out men and women of other races just based off there race; Just to say they have dated that race. I believe this goes for all races and genders not just black men.

I diffidently don't get upset when I see Blk Men/White Women.
People date who they want and marry who they want. :)

Just from what I have observed.
Also My Opinion.
Edited by BelloBesos, Mar 26 2010, 07:08 PM.
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