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Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me
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Sunflower
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Mar 9 2010, 03:01 AM
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Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM
I was talking to this 22 year old truck driver last night, and we opened up and started talking about life. This young brother told me that every black woman that he has dated cheated on it. He then told me that he just caught his baby mama cheating on him. He said that he caught her in the car making out with another man. He said that he had his gun with him and he thought about shooting both of them, and he told me that the only reason he didn't shoot them was he started thinking about his son.

He said that he bannged on the door of the car and told her to get out but she wouldn't. He said that he then told the guy to get out of the car, but neither would get out. He said that he then stood in front of the car so that they couldn't leave. He said the guy that she was cheating with then hit the gas, and the car knocked him up into the air, and they took off.

This young brother was devastated by this, he said that he put all of his
faith and trust in her. He said that she told him that she was different from
the other women out here, and she would never do anything to hurt him.

This young brother told me that he lost a lot of weight over this because
he went days without eating. He said that after this he will never trust another
woman in his life.

This young brother said that he has never cheated on any woman in his life. What I'm finding is a lot of black men have this same exact story if you can get them to open up and talk about it, but nobody tells their story.

Thanks for sharing that story with us
^o) Again....this is a people issue.....Men hurt women like this on a regular bases.....Mistake number 1 you put your faith and trust in the creator....Yes at some point you must trust your mate....some faith to a degree where you can maintain your dignity. Marcus have you created another personilty? :huh:
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Sunflower
Mar 9 2010, 12:18 AM
Mario
Mar 2 2010, 03:32 AM
Rick1
Feb 24 2010, 09:41 AM
And that's the whole story with black relationships. MOST black women don't listen to shit, so most men just shut down.
True
Not!!!! Break downs of a marriage is not the fault of a black woman.


Three Reasons Why Marriages Fail
In today's world, it often seems that being married is only a temporary condition. All too often people walk away from marriage without ever really knowing why their marriage failed in the first place. Often these people go on to get involved with another only to have the same scenario play out all over again. In order to break this cycle it is important to know why marriages fail.

The selfishness of one or both of the spouses is often a factor in the ending of a marriage. For any marriage to be successful, both people must be getting their needs met, whatever they may be. In order for this to happen, both must be willing to make compromises on things that they may want but do not need.

Selfish people often confuse their needs and wants. In their mind, if they want something than it is a need. This makes them unwilling to make compromises about even small things. This usually results in the other partner not getting their actual needs met. A spouse that is not getting their needs met will become angry and resentful and may start looking elsewhere to get their emotional needs met.

Whether this search leads to infidelity or not, it is often one of the reasons that marriages fail. When either partner begins to feel that there is someone else that values them more than their spouse, the marriage is likely to be over very soon.

Hiding your true feelings is another tragic mistake that many couples make. Often, one or both spouses will keep their true feelings hidden in order to protect their partner from them. Although the intentions here may be good, this can have disasterous results for your marriage. Any feeling that is bottled up tends to grow until it makes it impossible to feel anything else.

When this happens, everytme you look at your spouse, instead of feeling warmth and love you will be feeling resentment and anger. Obviously, this is not a situation you want if you want to save your marriage. Talk to your spouse, tell them what you are really feeling, the good and the bad. Even if doing this causes them some pain, it will pale in comparision to the amount of pain they are likely to feel if your marriage falls apart.

As strange as it may seem to someone who has never been married, lonliness is another emotion that can commonly cause trouble in a marriage. When two people see each other every day, there is a tendency to take them for granted. When this happens, one or both will stop taking the time to actually connect with the other in an emotional way. This leads to lonliness and may also lead to infidelity.

Learning why marriages fail may help you to keep your's together. These are just a few examples, but if you look into most failed relationships, you are likely to find that the issues that ended the marriage can be traced back to one of these three problems.
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You are so right. I was in the same position. I was angry at something she had done and i couldn't look at her the same. I never had that warm feeling again because i hid my true feelings.
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Nat Turner
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Sunflower it seems like women can bounce back better from a broken heart
than men can. When a man fall deeply in love with a woman and he gets hurt,
it cuts deep
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Sunflower
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Nat Turner
Mar 9 2010, 11:21 AM
Sunflower it seems like women can bounce back better from a broken heart
than men can. When a man fall deeply in love with a woman and he gets hurt,
it cuts deep
-_- No Nat....once a man has been hurt he is scron for life he does not give anyone a fair chance....he deals with the woman based upon his previous expericence....with a woman we heal and move on....


Women are from Venus and Men are Mars and some other place we nothing about.... :'(
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Sunflower
Mar 9 2010, 12:10 PM
Nat Turner
Mar 9 2010, 11:21 AM
Sunflower it seems like women can bounce back better from a broken heart
than men can. When a man fall deeply in love with a woman and he gets hurt,
it cuts deep
-_- No Nat....once a man has been hurt he is scron for life he does not give anyone a fair chance....he deals with the woman based upon his previous expericence....with a woman we heal and move on....


Women are from Venus and Men are Mars and some other place we nothing about.... :'(
Sunflower I agree, when a man falls in love and he gets hurt he either becomes a dog
or he puts up a wall and never trust any other woman again
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Nat Turner
Mar 9 2010, 11:21 AM
Sunflower it seems like women can bounce back better from a broken heart
than men can. When a man fall deeply in love with a woman and he gets hurt,
it cuts deep
That is true
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Mar 11 2010, 03:34 AM
Nat Turner
Mar 9 2010, 11:21 AM
Sunflower it seems like women can bounce back better from a broken heart
than men can. When a man fall deeply in love with a woman and he gets hurt,
it cuts deep
That is true
It's not that women can bounce back better than a man. Some women never recover from a broken heart. Women are more able to turn their emotions on a dime than a man. So I believe that a woman is more likely to break a man's heart. Men in love tend to be blind to the obvious, and are generally surprised when a relationship is over. I believe women to be much more fickle than men in general, and therefore more likely to end a relationship.

When a woman breaks a man's heart after a long term relationship. According to man-law that man is fully justified in turning wolf. He may become a pimp, a playa, a womanizer, even a freak. Until such time as his broken heart is healed, and he find himself another woman he is capable of loving.


Also acording to man-law said man with broken heart may NOT sit, or lay around whineing, crying complaining, bashing, or otherwise suffer any other man to his own broken heart. Thus shall be in effect for no more than 30 days from time of the break up.

Further Any man with said broken heart will NOT!!! under any circumstances allow his whineing, crying, complaining, or bashing to prevent another man from having sex in any form. Unless said man with broken heart cleverly uses his wineing, crying, complaining, or bashing for his own advantage to obtain what is commonly known as " Sympathy pussy".


I cant intelligently comment on woman-law. They seem to make it up as they go along. And it's not like I really care anyway.

Glenn


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Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM
I was talking to this 22 year old truck driver last night, and we opened up and started talking about life. This young brother told me that every black woman that he has dated cheated on it. He then told me that he just caught his baby mama cheating on him. He said that he caught her in the car making out with another man. He said that he had his gun with him and he thought about shooting both of them, and he told me that the only reason he didn't shoot them was he started thinking about his son.

He said that he bannged on the door of the car and told her to get out but she wouldn't. He said that he then told the guy to get out of the car, but neither would get out. He said that he then stood in front of the car so that they couldn't leave. He said the guy that she was cheating with then hit the gas, and the car knocked him up into the air, and they took off.

This young brother was devastated by this, he said that he put all of his
faith and trust in her. He said that she told him that she was different from
the other women out here, and she would never do anything to hurt him.

This young brother told me that he lost a lot of weight over this because
he went days without eating. He said that after this he will never trust another
woman in his life.

This young brother said that he has never cheated on any woman in his life. What I'm finding is a lot of black men have this same exact story if you can get them to open up and talk about it, but nobody tells their story.

People would rather cheat on someone than to breakup with them and start a new
relationship
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LOL I see marcus has a new personality
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Truck Driver that's messed up
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