| Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me | |
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| Topic Started: Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM (4,292 Views) | |
| Nat Turner | Mar 4 2010, 04:25 PM Post #51 |
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This is true |
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| God Son | Mar 5 2010, 03:12 AM Post #52 |
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I've heard similar stories |
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| God Son | Mar 8 2010, 03:41 AM Post #53 |
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Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do. |
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| ElectricElevator | Mar 8 2010, 06:43 PM Post #54 |
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Remember... Guns dont kill people. Husbands who come home early kill people. |
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| Sunflower | Mar 8 2010, 06:54 PM Post #55 |
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... you a mess.... .....I need the EMS..... ROTFLMAO
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| Nat Turner | Mar 8 2010, 08:01 PM Post #56 |
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You got that right, and women come home early and cut off balls Just the other day a lady found out that her man was cheating, and when he went to sleep she tied some FIRECRACKERS to his penis and blew it off |
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| Sunflower | Mar 9 2010, 12:01 AM Post #57 |
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Nat ....now I don't believe that one.............you guys are sick.....cutting off balls..thats crazy |
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| Sunflower | Mar 9 2010, 12:07 AM Post #58 |
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Right it is a very dangerous thing.....however men become victims of their abuse what about Clara Harris from Houston......She loved her husband she did alot of things to try and please him....breast agumentation....and he got busted.....and really I think she should been able to get away with the crime of passion law but she didn't......this is a people issue.....Like Rick said commitment is the key......http://www.toobeautiful.org/ap_030213.html |
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| Sunflower | Mar 9 2010, 12:18 AM Post #59 |
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Not!!!! Break downs of a marriage is not the fault of a black woman. Three Reasons Why Marriages Fail In today's world, it often seems that being married is only a temporary condition. All too often people walk away from marriage without ever really knowing why their marriage failed in the first place. Often these people go on to get involved with another only to have the same scenario play out all over again. In order to break this cycle it is important to know why marriages fail. The selfishness of one or both of the spouses is often a factor in the ending of a marriage. For any marriage to be successful, both people must be getting their needs met, whatever they may be. In order for this to happen, both must be willing to make compromises on things that they may want but do not need. Selfish people often confuse their needs and wants. In their mind, if they want something than it is a need. This makes them unwilling to make compromises about even small things. This usually results in the other partner not getting their actual needs met. A spouse that is not getting their needs met will become angry and resentful and may start looking elsewhere to get their emotional needs met. Whether this search leads to infidelity or not, it is often one of the reasons that marriages fail. When either partner begins to feel that there is someone else that values them more than their spouse, the marriage is likely to be over very soon. Hiding your true feelings is another tragic mistake that many couples make. Often, one or both spouses will keep their true feelings hidden in order to protect their partner from them. Although the intentions here may be good, this can have disasterous results for your marriage. Any feeling that is bottled up tends to grow until it makes it impossible to feel anything else. When this happens, everytme you look at your spouse, instead of feeling warmth and love you will be feeling resentment and anger. Obviously, this is not a situation you want if you want to save your marriage. Talk to your spouse, tell them what you are really feeling, the good and the bad. Even if doing this causes them some pain, it will pale in comparision to the amount of pain they are likely to feel if your marriage falls apart. As strange as it may seem to someone who has never been married, lonliness is another emotion that can commonly cause trouble in a marriage. When two people see each other every day, there is a tendency to take them for granted. When this happens, one or both will stop taking the time to actually connect with the other in an emotional way. This leads to lonliness and may also lead to infidelity. Learning why marriages fail may help you to keep your's together. These are just a few examples, but if you look into most failed relationships, you are likely to find that the issues that ended the marriage can be traced back to one of these three problems. . |
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| Knowledge | Mar 9 2010, 03:01 AM Post #60 |
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Thanks for sharing that story with us |
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I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......



.....I need the EMS..... ROTFLMAO
Right it is a very dangerous thing.....however men become victims of their abuse what about Clara Harris from Houston......She loved her husband she did alot of things to try and please him....breast agumentation....and he got busted.....and really I think she should been able to get away with the crime of passion law but she didn't......this is a people issue.....Like Rick said commitment is the key......

10:32 AM Jul 11