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Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me
Topic Started: Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM (4,292 Views)
Nat Turner
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Mario
Mar 4 2010, 03:30 AM
Sunflower
Mar 2 2010, 03:40 AM
:) I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......
Some people get blinded by love, or may I say some people get blinded by sex
This is true
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God Son

Last Black man
Feb 13 2010, 07:42 PM
Some women would not believe that story, but I know it is true that things happen like that. Some black women claim that they cannot find a good man and all the nws have ran with this why women cannot find a good man.
I've heard similar stories
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Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do.
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God Son
Mar 8 2010, 03:41 AM
Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do.
Remember... Guns dont kill people. Husbands who come home early kill people.
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ElectricElevator
Mar 2 2010, 10:26 PM
Nat Turner
Feb 23 2010, 12:56 PM
Rick1
Feb 23 2010, 09:46 AM
Men have been taught to keep quiet and to "be a man". You can't even express yourself in a court of law and have people listen. You can't expect him to make himself vulnerable and appear weak to women. They don't know how to rspond to that. In a woman's eyes, he will be a punk.
The Barbra shop is where men go to express ourselves, that's where brothers go to communicate
with each other. The Barbra shop is where we express ourselves
Who n hail is Barbra?.... and why should I open up to her?
... you a mess.... :D .....I need the EMS..... ROTFLMAO
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ElectricElevator
Mar 8 2010, 06:43 PM
God Son
Mar 8 2010, 03:41 AM
Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do.
Remember... Guns dont kill people. Husbands who come home early kill people.
You got that right, and women come home early and cut off balls

Just the other day a lady found out that her man was cheating, and when he went to sleep
she tied some FIRECRACKERS to his penis and blew it off
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Nat Turner
Mar 8 2010, 08:01 PM
ElectricElevator
Mar 8 2010, 06:43 PM
God Son
Mar 8 2010, 03:41 AM
Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do.
Remember... Guns dont kill people. Husbands who come home early kill people.
You got that right, and women come home early and cut off balls

Just the other day a lady found out that her man was cheating, and when he went to sleep
she tied some FIRECRACKERS to his penis and blew it off
Nat ....now I don't believe that one.............you guys are sick.....cutting off balls..thats crazy
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God Son
Mar 8 2010, 03:41 AM
Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Playing games with people feeling is a very dangerous things to do.
:-/ Right it is a very dangerous thing.....however men become victims of their abuse what about Clara Harris from Houston......She loved her husband she did alot of things to try and please him....breast agumentation....and he got busted.....and really I think she should been able to get away with the crime of passion law but she didn't......this is a people issue.....Like Rick said commitment is the key......



http://www.toobeautiful.org/ap_030213.html



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Mario
Mar 2 2010, 03:32 AM
Rick1
Feb 24 2010, 09:41 AM
And that's the whole story with black relationships. MOST black women don't listen to shit, so most men just shut down.
True
Not!!!! Break downs of a marriage is not the fault of a black woman.


Three Reasons Why Marriages Fail
In today's world, it often seems that being married is only a temporary condition. All too often people walk away from marriage without ever really knowing why their marriage failed in the first place. Often these people go on to get involved with another only to have the same scenario play out all over again. In order to break this cycle it is important to know why marriages fail.

The selfishness of one or both of the spouses is often a factor in the ending of a marriage. For any marriage to be successful, both people must be getting their needs met, whatever they may be. In order for this to happen, both must be willing to make compromises on things that they may want but do not need.

Selfish people often confuse their needs and wants. In their mind, if they want something than it is a need. This makes them unwilling to make compromises about even small things. This usually results in the other partner not getting their actual needs met. A spouse that is not getting their needs met will become angry and resentful and may start looking elsewhere to get their emotional needs met.

Whether this search leads to infidelity or not, it is often one of the reasons that marriages fail. When either partner begins to feel that there is someone else that values them more than their spouse, the marriage is likely to be over very soon.

Hiding your true feelings is another tragic mistake that many couples make. Often, one or both spouses will keep their true feelings hidden in order to protect their partner from them. Although the intentions here may be good, this can have disasterous results for your marriage. Any feeling that is bottled up tends to grow until it makes it impossible to feel anything else.

When this happens, everytme you look at your spouse, instead of feeling warmth and love you will be feeling resentment and anger. Obviously, this is not a situation you want if you want to save your marriage. Talk to your spouse, tell them what you are really feeling, the good and the bad. Even if doing this causes them some pain, it will pale in comparision to the amount of pain they are likely to feel if your marriage falls apart.

As strange as it may seem to someone who has never been married, lonliness is another emotion that can commonly cause trouble in a marriage. When two people see each other every day, there is a tendency to take them for granted. When this happens, one or both will stop taking the time to actually connect with the other in an emotional way. This leads to lonliness and may also lead to infidelity.

Learning why marriages fail may help you to keep your's together. These are just a few examples, but if you look into most failed relationships, you are likely to find that the issues that ended the marriage can be traced back to one of these three problems.
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Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM
I was talking to this 22 year old truck driver last night, and we opened up and started talking about life. This young brother told me that every black woman that he has dated cheated on it. He then told me that he just caught his baby mama cheating on him. He said that he caught her in the car making out with another man. He said that he had his gun with him and he thought about shooting both of them, and he told me that the only reason he didn't shoot them was he started thinking about his son.

He said that he bannged on the door of the car and told her to get out but she wouldn't. He said that he then told the guy to get out of the car, but neither would get out. He said that he then stood in front of the car so that they couldn't leave. He said the guy that she was cheating with then hit the gas, and the car knocked him up into the air, and they took off.

This young brother was devastated by this, he said that he put all of his
faith and trust in her. He said that she told him that she was different from
the other women out here, and she would never do anything to hurt him.

This young brother told me that he lost a lot of weight over this because
he went days without eating. He said that after this he will never trust another
woman in his life.

This young brother said that he has never cheated on any woman in his life. What I'm finding is a lot of black men have this same exact story if you can get them to open up and talk about it, but nobody tells their story.

Thanks for sharing that story with us
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