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Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me
Topic Started: Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM (4,293 Views)
Mario

Rick1
Feb 24 2010, 09:41 AM
And that's the whole story with black relationships. MOST black women don't listen to shit, so most men just shut down.
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ElectricElevator
Feb 14 2010, 11:56 AM
Big Mike
Feb 14 2010, 12:46 AM
Elevator are you saying that black men shouldn't talk about what they've been through, damn some woman must really have you trained.
No Big Mike... I'm not saying that at all. I do however suggest that we communicate with intelligence, and honesty. I has probably been a black man longer than most guys here. ( in my 50's) What I have noticed is many guys blaiming their own shortcomings, and misunderstandings on others.

To the contrary I do think we as black men need to talk... We need to communicate with our youngers, our elders, and our each others. But we need to talk... not whine, and complain. I believe that all men, and black men in particular should debate, and converse from a position of strength.

Yes... I do get tired of the constant blaiming of our black women for every malady that beset's us. Tradesmen have a saying... " It's a poor mechanic who blames his tools." Women are and will always be women. IMO any man who puts too much faith in a woman is bound to be stung. Get over it. It's a fact of life. Once we have a basic understanding of women... It should be fairly easy to get along with them. This isnt restricted to black women...

Some guys are constantly lamenting about a woman being unfaithfull... But no one ever says anything about the guy she cheated with... Isnt he equally guilty? Didnt he break a man-law?


No Big Mike... I'm not trained by any woman other than my Mother.... Who taught me to fend for myself, so that I'd never be beholden to any woman. No my brothers... women are not that complicated. In fact they are very predictable... Black women in particular.

Women will break your heart, women will cheat on you, women will try to deflate your ego... If you let them.


More opinion to come...

Glenn

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:wub: Well said Glenn we need more men that believe and know that they are men......Living and learning....
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Mario
Mar 2 2010, 03:32 AM
Rick1
Feb 24 2010, 09:41 AM
And that's the whole story with black relationships. MOST black women don't listen to shit, so most men just shut down.
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;) Well if he shuts down like that he isn't a man ........right.....
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:) I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......
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Mario

After looking at all of these bad marriages and relationships, I like being single
myself LOL
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Sunflower
Mar 2 2010, 03:40 AM
:) I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......
When it comes relationships today people are just plain selfish
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ElectricElevator

Nat Turner
Feb 23 2010, 12:56 PM
Rick1
Feb 23 2010, 09:46 AM
Men have been taught to keep quiet and to "be a man". You can't even express yourself in a court of law and have people listen. You can't expect him to make himself vulnerable and appear weak to women. They don't know how to rspond to that. In a woman's eyes, he will be a punk.
The Barbra shop is where men go to express ourselves, that's where brothers go to communicate
with each other. The Barbra shop is where we express ourselves
Who n hail is Barbra?.... and why should I open up to her?
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Mario
Mar 2 2010, 04:31 AM
After looking at all of these bad marriages and relationships, I like being single
myself LOL
Yes it can make you feel that way
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Mario

Sunflower
Mar 2 2010, 03:40 AM
:) I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......
Some people get blinded by love, or may I say some people get blinded by sex
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Mario
Mar 4 2010, 03:30 AM
Sunflower
Mar 2 2010, 03:40 AM
:) I mean come on dam at some point you have to become a realist at some point and time in your life......I think men and women develop a level head and realize when a love relationship or marriage is not healthy......
Some people get blinded by love, or may I say some people get blinded by sex
Some people get blinded by lye.
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