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Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me
Topic Started: Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM (4,295 Views)
Rick1
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Elevator I disagree with you. What we have here is a young brother expressing himself according to what has happened to him. If a young female had that same story she would have recieved all kinds of sympathy. At 22 when these things start to happen to a young man he loses trust in women and become the player no women likes but it's safer for him. Why is it whining when me express themselves. Coming from a 50 yr old, i expected you to be a little more positive and let him know she's only one woman and not take it out on all women. We all know the things men do but women are cheaters too and do it just as hard. Black women have a lot of excuses why they can't find a good man. Maybe it's becuse they arent good women and are not ready to recieve the gift. When you criticize young men they will never open up again.
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Rick I agree with you 100%, if a 22 year old female had that same story she would have gotten all kind of sympathy. But when a Black man express what he's been through then he criticized. Boy being a Black man in America is something else.
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That young man could have easily shot them both and spent the rest of his life in prison behind a piece of ass. There are plenty of women like her out here. As soon as they get caught it becomes the "i can't find no good man" bullshit and cry out for sympathy. I don't have sympathy for the average woman. Most have turned a good brother into a dog. Since the majority of women do the same things, they bond together so one won't out shine the other. I still can't understand how the lack of good brothers haven't put a damper on how much women are still fucking. ^o) :'( :ermm: :blink:
Edited by Rick1, Feb 16 2010, 01:09 PM.
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Rick1
Feb 16 2010, 01:08 PM
That young man could have easily shot them both and spent the rest of his life in prison behind a piece of ass. There are plenty of women like her out here. As soon as they get caught it becomes the "i can't find no good man" bullshit and cry out for sympathy. I don't have sympathy for the average woman. Most have turned a good brother into a dog. Since the majority of women do the same things, they bond together so one won't out shine the other. I still can't understand how the lack of good brothers haven't put a damper on how much women are still fucking. ^o) :'( :ermm: :blink:
You damn right should she could have gotten shot, that's probably why they hit him with the car
so they could get away, before he strated shooting

Cheating is a very dangerous game to play, like you said rick a lot of people are dead and in prison
because of cheating

Why not just break up with the person and start a new relationship, why play games with people
feelings like that
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Rick1
Feb 16 2010, 01:08 PM
That young man could have easily shot them both and spent the rest of his life in prison behind a piece of ass. There are plenty of women like her out here. As soon as they get caught it becomes the "i can't find no good man" bullshit and cry out for sympathy. I don't have sympathy for the average woman. Most have turned a good brother into a dog. Since the majority of women do the same things, they bond together so one won't out shine the other. I still can't understand how the lack of good brothers haven't put a damper on how much women are still fucking. ^o) :'( :ermm: :blink:
You're telling telling the truth and many of them like to play the victim role
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Rick1
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By now most men know that trying to be good to a woman gets you no where fast so why try. Women love drama and if you aren't bringing it something must be wrong with you. The average woman couldn't recognize a good man if he fell in her lap.
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Rick1
Feb 17 2010, 12:38 PM
By now most men know that trying to be good to a woman gets you no where fast so why try. Women love drama and if you aren't bringing it something must be wrong with you. The average woman couldn't recognize a good man if he fell in her lap.
Steve Harvey said that a lot of women don't want a good man until they gets around the age of 50, and then wake up and realize damn I'm by myself. He said they then start running trying to find a good man, but by that time many of them already have 4 or 5 kids.

It seem like a lot of women give their best years to no good men.
Edited by New York, Feb 17 2010, 01:22 PM.
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Feb 17 2010, 01:19 PM
Rick1
Feb 17 2010, 12:38 PM
By now most men know that trying to be good to a woman gets you no where fast so why try. Women love drama and if you aren't bringing it something must be wrong with you. The average woman couldn't recognize a good man if he fell in her lap.
Steve Harvey said that a lot of women don't want a good man until they gets around the age of 50, and then wake up and realize damn I'm by myself. He said they then start running trying to find a good man, but by that time many of them already have 4 or 5 kids.

It seem like a lot of women give their best years to no good men.
And Steve Harvey has a good point
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ladyNEWYORK

sorry to hear about what happened to this brother, but it's important you go where decent women are, I dont know where you got with this female, but it's clear she is not the right woman for you, you shouldnt trust her, no, but there are good women out there, if you find them, depends on where you are looking, if you are looking in bars, doubt you will find one there, maybe if you check out their background, if they are spiritual, you will very likely found one, who stand on her morals,value system. Dont blame all the sisters for the actions of one..they shouldnt have to pay, for her actions, neither should another brother pay for actions of another. I wish you the best, praying helps alot to ease pain, and open you up, to get the wisdom from past mistakes, in the future you will be able to make wiser choices..Do be there for your son, so he can learn from your values.
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ladyNEWYORK
Feb 19 2010, 05:28 PM
sorry to hear about what happened to this brother, but it's important you go where decent women are, I dont know where you got with this female, but it's clear she is not the right woman for you, you shouldnt trust her, no, but there are good women out there, if you find them, depends on where you are looking, if you are looking in bars, doubt you will find one there, maybe if you check out their background, if they are spiritual, you will very likely found one, who stand on her morals,value system. Dont blame all the sisters for the actions of one..they shouldnt have to pay, for her actions, neither should another brother pay for actions of another. I wish you the best, praying helps alot to ease pain, and open you up, to get the wisdom from past mistakes, in the future you will be able to make wiser choices..Do be there for your son, so he can learn from your values.
LadynewYork I think the problem is there is a spiritual void in the Black community.
When people don't have God in their lives they treat people anykind of way, it's easy
to cheat and play games with people feelings when you don't have God in your life.
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