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Black men have a story to tell; What a young brother told me
Topic Started: Feb 13 2010, 04:59 PM (4,285 Views)
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I was talking to this 22 year old truck driver last night, and we opened up and started talking about life. This young brother told me that every black woman that he has dated cheated on it. He then told me that he just caught his baby mama cheating on him. He said that he caught her in the car making out with another man. He said that he had his gun with him and he thought about shooting both of them, and he told me that the only reason he didn't shoot them was he started thinking about his son.

He said that he bannged on the door of the car and told her to get out but she wouldn't. He said that he then told the guy to get out of the car, but neither would get out. He said that he then stood in front of the car so that they couldn't leave. He said the guy that she was cheating with then hit the gas, and the car knocked him up into the air, and they took off.

This young brother was devastated by this, he said that he put all of his
faith and trust in her. He said that she told him that she was different from
the other women out here, and she would never do anything to hurt him.

This young brother told me that he lost a lot of weight over this because
he went days without eating. He said that after this he will never trust another
woman in his life.

This young brother said that he has never cheated on any woman in his life. What I'm finding is a lot of black men have this same exact story if you can get them to open up and talk about it, but nobody tells their story.

Edited by Truck Driver, Feb 13 2010, 05:11 PM.
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Some women would not believe that story, but I know it is true that things happen like that. Some black women claim that they cannot find a good man and all the nws have ran with this why women cannot find a good man.
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Big Mike

She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
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Big Mike
Feb 13 2010, 08:32 PM
She almost got her ass shot because she want to whore around and cheat on old boy.
When a man get hurts in a relationship they aint nothing to play with. What makes me so mad is women are always trying to play the victim role, they act like they are so innocent and the men are the bad people.
Big Mike, you are so right about the role women love to play. I have a woman that is trying to talk to me but I did not want her, but I am wrong for not wanting her. I thought people are suppose to decide if they want a relationship with a person and if you do not, the other person has to understand that they might not be the best fit. But some of these women believes that they are God's gift to mankind.
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June bug

The samething happened to one of my friends he rolled up on his girlfriend
and caught her cheating. Tyler Perry don't do movies about that kind of stuff,
showing the black man side of the story
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Feb 13 2010, 07:42 PM
Some women would not believe that story, but I know it is true that things happen like that. Some black women claim that they cannot find a good man and all the nws have ran with this why women cannot find a good man.
This young brother told me that the samething happned to one of his friends. He said that
one of his friends also caught his baby mama cheating on him. Trying to find a good honest
woman in this world you got your work cut out. There are a lot of nice looking women but when
you get past the looks you don't have much.
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Feb 13 2010, 10:11 PM
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Feb 13 2010, 07:42 PM
Some women would not believe that story, but I know it is true that things happen like that. Some black women claim that they cannot find a good man and all the nws have ran with this why women cannot find a good man.
This young brother told me that the samething happned to one of his friends. He said that
one of his friends also caught his baby mama cheating on him. Trying to find a good honest
woman in this world you got your work cut out. There are a lot of nice looking women but when
you get past the looks you don't have much.
Would some of you guys like some cheese to go with that whine?
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Big Mike

Elevator are you saying that black men shouldn't talk about what they've been through, damn some woman must really have you trained.
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Man most of these women aint worth a dam, that's why I started pimping.
Edited by Southside Pimp, Feb 14 2010, 02:20 AM.
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Big Mike
Feb 14 2010, 12:46 AM
Elevator are you saying that black men shouldn't talk about what they've been through, damn some woman must really have you trained.
No Big Mike... I'm not saying that at all. I do however suggest that we communicate with intelligence, and honesty. I has probably been a black man longer than most guys here. ( in my 50's) What I have noticed is many guys blaiming their own shortcomings, and misunderstandings on others.

To the contrary I do think we as black men need to talk... We need to communicate with our youngers, our elders, and our each others. But we need to talk... not whine, and complain. I believe that all men, and black men in particular should debate, and converse from a position of strength.

Yes... I do get tired of the constant blaiming of our black women for every malady that beset's us. Tradesmen have a saying... " It's a poor mechanic who blames his tools." Women are and will always be women. IMO any man who puts too much faith in a woman is bound to be stung. Get over it. It's a fact of life. Once we have a basic understanding of women... It should be fairly easy to get along with them. This isnt restricted to black women...

Some guys are constantly lamenting about a woman being unfaithfull... But no one ever says anything about the guy she cheated with... Isnt he equally guilty? Didnt he break a man-law?


No Big Mike... I'm not trained by any woman other than my Mother.... Who taught me to fend for myself, so that I'd never be beholden to any woman. No my brothers... women are not that complicated. In fact they are very predictable... Black women in particular.

Women will break your heart, women will cheat on you, women will try to deflate your ego... If you let them.


More opinion to come...

Glenn

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