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Tyler Perry view of Black Relationships
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cisslybee2012
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good gracious
Nov 19 2010, 02:59 PM
I heard that Tyler Perry is a homosexual
The guys here are saying the same thing about me.

You can't believe everything you hear. :)
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negroplease

Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 04:29 PM
shutupalready
Nov 19 2010, 09:05 AM
Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 09:00 AM
^^^ Your opinion of me is noted.
Its not my only opinion of you, I just disagree with your view on relationships, but I still respect your decisions despite my sarcasm. But really whats wrong with girl power as long as women in turn are not being emasculating to men.
'Not your "only opinion", huh?
Then why don't you come out and say what part of your description of "those fools" you DO apply to me.

In the meantime, understand that 'girl power' is just another branch of, and name for, feminism that has the same male status-undermining, objectives.

In a short sentence, THAT's "what's wrong with it".
What I believe to be girl power has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with undermining the male status. I believe in teaching young ladies self esteem, helping them realize that they are more than just sex objects and baby making machines. Helping them to realize that they can achieve their goals and that their life has meaning. That is what girl power means to me. So often they are told they are nothing, that they are less than, etc, etc. And if that undermines the male status as you say, oh well!

And Mister J. I already told you I disagree with your view on polygynous relationships. I find it rather selfish. And if you are one of those men who thinks all women need to be led and housewives and that type of thing, I disagree with that. And it seems you have a problem with women and feeling empowered. As if you are afraid they will take away your manhood or something.
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cisslybee2012
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Nov 20 2010, 11:48 AM
Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 04:29 PM
shutupalready
Nov 19 2010, 09:05 AM
Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 09:00 AM
^^^ Your opinion of me is noted.
Its not my only opinion of you, I just disagree with your view on relationships, but I still respect your decisions despite my sarcasm. But really whats wrong with girl power as long as women in turn are not being emasculating to men.
'Not your "only opinion", huh?
Then why don't you come out and say what part of your description of "those fools" you DO apply to me.

In the meantime, understand that 'girl power' is just another branch of, and name for, feminism that has the same male status-undermining, objectives.

In a short sentence, THAT's "what's wrong with it".
What I believe to be girl power has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with undermining the male status. I believe in teaching young ladies self esteem, helping them realize that they are more than just sex objects and baby making machines. Helping them to realize that they can achieve their goals and that their life has meaning. That is what girl power means to me. So often they are told they are nothing, that they are less than, etc, etc. And if that undermines the male status as you say, oh well!

And Mister J. I already told you I disagree with your view on polygynous relationships. I find it rather selfish. And if you are one of those men who thinks all women need to be led and housewives and that type of thing, I disagree with that. And it seems you have a problem with women and feeling empowered. As if you are afraid they will take away your manhood or something.
Ms. Shutup,

Negative men like negative women. Negative women like negative men. There's nothing you, I or anybody can say to change that. To them, a woman cannot believe in herself or use her brain unless she hates men and are gay. She needs a doctor. The very things many members here say about me.

Southside Pimp clearly stated that men love negative women because they can treat them any kind of way, don't have to do anything for them, and they won't go anywhere, and will even pay their abusers' bills.

So you're wasting your time reasoning with Mr. J.

Taking advantage of women is his M.O. If they don't fall for his bullshit, it burns him up.

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I don't think Tyler Perry movies show men in a negative light all the time. I think he also shows how women just allow too much then when shit hits the fan, well we all know the rest... Soulful singing usually starts, lol.
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cisslybee2012
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NjoyaLiquid
Nov 20 2010, 04:33 PM
I don't think Tyler Perry movies show men in a negative light all the time. I think he also shows how women just allow too much then when shit hits the fan, well we all know the rest... Soulful singing usually starts, lol.
Thank you. :)
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Mister J
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shutupalready
Nov 20 2010, 11:48 AM
Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 04:29 PM
shutupalready
Nov 19 2010, 09:05 AM
Mister J
Nov 19 2010, 09:00 AM
^^^ Your opinion of me is noted.
Its not my only opinion of you, I just disagree with your view on relationships, but I still respect your decisions despite my sarcasm. But really whats wrong with girl power as long as women in turn are not being emasculating to men.
'Not your "only opinion", huh?
Then why don't you come out and say what part of your description of "those fools" you DO apply to me.

In the meantime, understand that 'girl power' is just another branch of, and name for, feminism that has the same male status-undermining, objectives.

In a short sentence, THAT's "what's wrong with it".
What I believe to be girl power has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with undermining the male status. I believe in teaching young ladies self esteem, helping them realize that they are more than just sex objects and baby making machines. Helping them to realize that they can achieve their goals and that their life has meaning. That is what girl power means to me. So often they are told they are nothing, that they are less than, etc, etc. And if that undermines the male status as you say, oh well!

And Mister J. I already told you I disagree with your view on polygynous relationships. I find it rather selfish. And if you are one of those men who thinks all women need to be led and housewives and that type of thing, I disagree with that. And it seems you have a problem with women and feeling empowered. As if you are afraid they will take away your manhood or something.
It seems like what we have, here, are 'irreconcilable differences'.
That's when two people can't see eye-to-eye on something fundamental or essential...
and they end up having to part company because of it.

Our perspectives on 'girl power' are like night & day.

And that's okay as we can agree to disagree.

If that's your idea of 'girl power', SUA,... then more 'power' to you.
Edited by Mister J, Nov 21 2010, 09:27 AM.
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Tyler Perry said that he don't even want to get married, I wonder why is that?
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cisslybee2012
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nevergiveup
Nov 21 2010, 03:27 AM
Tyler Perry said that he don't even want to get married, I wonder why is that?
Because he has good sense. :)
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Oprah won't marry either. The statistics about black women and marriage used to make me cringe. Now I'm wondering if marriage has become obsolete. Honestly, I don't know anyone who has or had a happy marriage. Including myself. If you're in a good relationship then go with it, However, there are benefits to marriage that you just can't obtain shaking. A woman at my job was with her man for 20 years before he died from cancer. My job usually allows time off for immediate family: wife, husband, children, parents and grandparents. They would not allow her any time off. she had to use her own vacation time. None of his remaining estate went to her. It all went to his grown children. If you're gonna go the non traditional route then you'd better handle your business as far as beneficiaries and such because these type of things are sad and happen everyday. Some states don't recognize common law marriages, mine is 1 of them.
Edited by NjoyaLiquid, Nov 21 2010, 10:53 AM.
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cisslybee2012
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NjoyaLiquid
Nov 21 2010, 10:51 AM
Oprah won't marry either. The statistics about black women and marriage used to make me cringe. Now I'm wondering if marriage has become obsolete. Honestly, I don't know anyone who has or had a happy marriage. Including myself. If you're in a good relationship then go with it, However, there are benefits to marriage that you just can't obtain shaking. A woman at my job was with her man for 20 years before he died from cancer. My job usually allows time off for immediate family: wife, husband, children, parents and grandparents. They would not allow her any time off. she had to use her own vacation time. None of his remaining estate went to her. It all went to his grown children. If you're gonna go the non traditional route then you'd better handle your business as far as beneficiaries and such because these type of things are sad and happen everyday. Some states don't recognize common law marriages, mine is 1 of them.
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Now I'm wondering if marriage has become obsolete.
Marriage will definitely become obsolete.

That along with many other things that's not helping us to nurture and grow our spirit. :)

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