dumas

Feb 21 2010, 03:03 PM

What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!!

Chicago

Apr 10 2010, 03:24 AM

trueblkwomen

Apr 9 2010, 07:00 PM

Truth95

Feb 8 2010, 11:53 AM

Black women better close the door, because brothers are getting out of there.

Hot dam who left the door open

The door been closed you keep leaving your toothbrush behind take it all this time.

LOL, they probably going to buy a new toothbrush when they get over there.

KyleB

Apr 12 2010, 11:24 AM

fo real, black women are losing the booty game. nowadays, everybody got booty. so, step yo game up sistaz or we out !!!

Rick1

Apr 12 2010, 11:44 AM

Chicago

Apr 10 2010, 03:24 AM

trueblkwomen

Apr 9 2010, 07:00 PM

Truth95

Feb 8 2010, 11:53 AM

Black women better close the door, because brothers are getting out of there.

Hot dam who left the door open

The door been closed you keep leaving your toothbrush behind take it all this time.

LOL, they probably going to buy a new toothbrush when they get over there.

If you leave a woman you better not go back and get that damn toothbrush. She don scrub the toilet with it.

Muhammad

Apr 12 2010, 03:33 AM

dumas

Feb 21 2010, 03:03 PM

What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!!

Black men use to get killed just for looking at White women, it use to be against that law for Blacks and Whites to marry, and I believe that's why people have strong feelings about interracial dating

kennyinbmore

Apr 13 2010, 09:54 AM

I'm just curious as to why this thread is posted like it's some new phenomenon

nevergiveup

Apr 4 2010, 01:54 AM

Respect

Feb 12 2010, 02:38 AM

WOW!!! Really sad stuff all the negative stereotypes that are associated w/African American women!!! I will have to admit that contrary to what ppl may think or care to admit those comments are very hurtful! I guess what I don't understand is why are we treated as the lesser? I mean as if we (everyone that is) doesn't have enough to contend with on a daily basis. We as a race are so divided and not because a brother or a sister decides to date out of their race, but simply because of the negative attitudes and lack of respect from both black men and women towards one another. I just have a few questions, if you're happy w/the person you're with then why do you have to make negative comments such as, "I'll never date a black woman"!!! WOW - such self hatred....not because of who you're with but just those words alone state what you really believe about yourself. Quite frankly, AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN are the only ones that make immature statements as such. I've never heard Robert Deniro get on TV and say, I'll never date an Italian woman and yet he has always dated African American women. Additionally, Caucasian men love Asian women, and yet I never heard/hear them say, "I'll never date a white woman"! What gives!!! I think mostly because they are truly (emphasis added) happy w/who they are and who they are with. Also my second question is African American men crack me up because they act as if Caucasian men are sitting around embracing them dating Caucasian women - NOT!!! My son's friend asked a Caucasian girl out, and she told him that "her father said she isn't allowed to date black men! Also my Caucasian girlfriend said one of her clients (African American guy dating Caucasian lady) broke up because the Caucasian young lady's father told her if she continued to date him, she would be written out of his Will" - she broke up w/him! So let's not get it twisted - let's look at this for what it truly is.... And as an African American woman, I say to the brothers at least have enough respect and dignity not to make such negative statements without trying to understand the heart of all women no matter WHO they are! The truth is we could all do a little mudslinging, but really what would and what is that accomplishing??? Guess what, no matter who you decide to settle down with, she/he will still have issues - it all depends on who you decide to allow in your row boat and go through the storm with!!! At the end of the day we're all human....and we all have issues because no one is flawless!!

People make choices based on their experiences, if black men have had a lot of bad experiences with black women, then that's going to shape their view of black women