lady_nei

Apr 4 2011, 10:56 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 4 2011, 09:43 PM

lady_nei

Apr 4 2011, 09:26 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 4 2011, 09:19 PM

lady_nei

Apr 4 2011, 09:01 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 4 2011, 07:42 PM

lady_nei

Apr 4 2011, 07:18 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 4 2011, 05:15 PM

lady_nei

Apr 3 2011, 05:28 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 3 2011, 04:26 PM

lady_nei

Apr 2 2011, 10:52 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 2 2011, 06:54 PM

lady_nei

Apr 2 2011, 06:28 PM

asiaticman7

Apr 2 2011, 06:25 PM

lady_nei

Apr 2 2011, 06:18 PM

Not everyone who dates outside their race has this 'I hate black people/myself' mentality.

Just these morons on here that think that white women are the cure to all the black man's problems.

I know not everybody...duh! But there is a pattern that exist. You or anybody else cannot deny that.

True.

I just don't like being grouped with those fools!

Well if it doesn't apply to you than it shouldn't be a problem. Some people automatically get upset simply out of guilt.

No guilt here, just irritation.

Sometimes it's impossible to be with someone without some people making a big deal out of it.

Please elaborate further, I do not want to assume anything.

It's just a personal thing, people I know make all these assumptions on why I don't date black guys.

It just can't be I like guys of other races, there must be some deep rooted angst.

I know a lot black people that date interracially have that 'I hate black people/myself' mentality, and those that don't tend to get lumped in with those. Most times it doesn't bother me, but sometimes it's irritating.

So, what you are saying is that you are a black woman that date men of different races but your own? If so, it is kind of hard not to think there is not some deep rooted self hatred within you. For you to go out of your way consciously not to date 'black' man is very interesting. If you are attractive it is a known fact that people gravitate towards there own so I know plenty of 'black' male approach you. What is your response to them?

There is no hatred, no deep rooted angst. I've wondered for a long time why I have no attraction to black men, if there was some kind of dislike I would be concerned, but that's not the case. As I grew older, I realized it wasn't there and just accepted it. I don't go around dissing black men, And the thing is from an objectionable point of view I could look at a guy and think he's good looking, but from a personal POV, there's no attraction.

As for when they approach me, I say thank you but i'm not interested. I'm not gonna cuss them out or yell at them, I have manners.

I'm sorry I completely disagree. I think there are other contexual factors that you are not revealing, such as how you grew up, where you grew up, bad experiences with 'black' males (i.e, name calling, rape, cheated on, physical abuse and ect), and a plethora of other possible issues. For one to simply say I have been attracted to another race since I've grown up is simple false. What about your father? Your parents happily married or did dad bounce out? Black stepfather? Matter of fact any positive black male role model in your life growing up?

That's like me saying I am only attracted to white women knowing my mother and stepfather both exemplify black love and still do to this day.

This is what I mean, there must be some deep rooted problem. It just can't be i'm just not attracted to black men.

Okay, My parents were married for 15 years, they divorced when I was 12. I had a great relationship with my dad, no real drama there. never and any drama with black males, no bad relationships, nothing of the sort. I get along with just about anyone, I have black male friends who know how I feel, some of them don't understand it, but don't make a big deal about it. No metal problems, no emotional problems, never been abused or attacked.

I don't hate myself or anyone else.

For you to simply say "I am not attracted to 'black' men but you are to all others" is problematic to say the very least. This reminds me of the bullshit argument that people are born gay. This soceity is fucking people up! Anyway, have a goodnight.

I'm not attracted to white guys either.

I could see why some think it strange but I don't see it as being problematic. As I stated if I disliked them or myself then it would have a problem with it but i'm not gonna worry myself silly over a lack of attraction.

I wonder if you would be attracted to me? I am 'black' and 'Puerto Rican' but I prefer just Moor. It would be very interesting to see your reaction towards me.

Don't know, maybe, maybe not.

Azucar

Apr 4 2011, 11:17 PM

Oh, wow. A Boricua. Ok, that explains it!

Azucar

Apr 5 2011, 07:00 PM

All the dark Boricuas I know are very passionate, opinionated, and have a certain feisty vibe.


..... and good dancers, I might add.

Cool Breeze

Mar 30 2011, 12:33 AM

Azucar

Apr 4 2011, 07:25 PM

Lady_nei, I think virtually all people who IR date feel the same way. I've never met anybody who dated IR because they 'hate' their own race, even though this is frequently assumed, among some people. It's just a personal preference.

shutupalready

Apr 5 2011, 09:24 PM

Azucar

Apr 4 2011, 07:25 PM

Lady_nei, I think virtually all people who IR date feel the same way. I've never met anybody who dated IR because they 'hate' their own race, even though this is frequently assumed, among some people. It's just a personal preference.

You are sadly mistaken and foolish.

Just check out the massive amount of youtube videos where black men describe why they do not date black women.

Stop with the delusions.