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Regular brothers are now dating outside their race; Check out these pictures
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Topic Started: Feb 8 2010, 02:35 AM (81,274 Views)
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Sunflower
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Mar 15 2010, 08:52 PM
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- Nat Turner
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- Mar 15 2010, 05:38 PM
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- Mar 15 2010, 05:30 PM
- Sunflower
- Mar 14 2010, 11:56 PM
By the way do we know if any of these black men have any felonies???
What do you mean by that statement, if you don't mind me asking  just taking cheap shots like most of the brothas on the board do....... I mean are we really missing out because these brothas did not choose a sistah. ...... Nat your gonna get sensitive by my statement are you.....I mean you guys draw conclusions about sistahs all ova this board
Now that's not nice don't hit below the belt, LOL You are starting to talk like Brad, asking if those Black men are felons : ... No No Nat no I am not by no means am I....You guys insult us allday long on this board.....
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Sunflower
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Mar 15 2010, 08:54 PM
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- Sunflower
- Mar 15 2010, 05:38 PM
- Nat Turner
- Mar 15 2010, 05:30 PM
- Sunflower
- Mar 14 2010, 11:56 PM
By the way do we know if any of these black men have any felonies???
What do you mean by that statement, if you don't mind me asking  just taking cheap shots like most of the brothas on the board do....... I mean are we really missing out because these brothas did not choose a sistah. ...... Nat your gonna get sensitive by my statement are you.....I mean you guys draw conclusions about sistahs all ova this board
Now that's not nice don't hit below the belt, LOL You are starting to talk like Brad, asking if those Black men are felons
: ...  No No Nat no I am not by no means am I....You guys insult us allday long on this board..... Nat that hurt my feelings.....
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Nat Turner
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Mar 15 2010, 08:59 PM
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- Sunflower
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- Nat Turner
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- Nat Turner
- Mar 15 2010, 05:30 PM
- Sunflower
- Mar 14 2010, 11:56 PM
By the way do we know if any of these black men have any felonies???
What do you mean by that statement, if you don't mind me asking  just taking cheap shots like most of the brothas on the board do....... I mean are we really missing out because these brothas did not choose a sistah. ...... Nat your gonna get sensitive by my statement are you.....I mean you guys draw conclusions about sistahs all ova this board
Now that's not nice don't hit below the belt, LOL You are starting to talk like Brad, asking if those Black men are felons
: ...  No No Nat no I am not by no means am I....You guys insult us allday long on this board.....
Nat that hurt my feelings..... I'm just having fun, LOL
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Sunflower
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Mar 15 2010, 09:16 PM
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- Nat Turner
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- Sunflower
- Mar 15 2010, 08:52 PM
- Nat Turner
- Mar 15 2010, 06:15 PM
- Sunflower
- Mar 15 2010, 05:38 PM
- Nat Turner
- Mar 15 2010, 05:30 PM
- Sunflower
- Mar 14 2010, 11:56 PM
By the way do we know if any of these black men have any felonies???
What do you mean by that statement, if you don't mind me asking  just taking cheap shots like most of the brothas on the board do....... I mean are we really missing out because these brothas did not choose a sistah. ...... Nat your gonna get sensitive by my statement are you.....I mean you guys draw conclusions about sistahs all ova this board
Now that's not nice don't hit below the belt, LOL You are starting to talk like Brad, asking if those Black men are felons
: ...  No No Nat no I am not by no means am I....You guys insult us allday long on this board.....
Nat that hurt my feelings.....
I'm just having fun, LOL
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Mario
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Mar 16 2010, 01:54 AM
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What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!! Emmit Till got killed for whistling at a white woman, and just 40 years ago it was against the law for blacks and whites to marry, so I think that's why people have strong feelings about interracial dating, because of race relations in America.
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God Son
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Mar 17 2010, 01:48 AM
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What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!!
Emmit Till got killed for whistling at a white woman, and just 40 years ago it was against the law for blacks and whites to marry, so I think that's why people have strong feelings about interracial dating, because of race relations in America. That is something to think about
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Sunflower
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Mar 17 2010, 10:20 AM
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What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!!
Emmit Till got killed for whistling at a white woman, and just 40 years ago it was against the law for blacks and whites to marry, so I think that's why people have strong feelings about interracial dating, because of race relations in America.
That is something to think about I agree Mario but I am opened minded to other people dating interracial
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God Son
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Mar 19 2010, 01:53 AM
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What is this overwhelming desire of black people to tell other black people who to date? This is America and the white man's prophesy of race mixing is coming true. You throw a bunch of people together and soon they find things in common, not necessarily with people of their own complexion, background, income or whatever. It is natural and there is no way to stop it other than to legislate it away. Sorry!!
Emmit Till got killed for whistling at a white woman, and just 40 years ago it was against the law for blacks and whites to marry, so I think that's why people have strong feelings about interracial dating, because of race relations in America. True
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nevergiveup
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Apr 4 2010, 01:54 AM
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WOW!!! Really sad stuff all the negative stereotypes that are associated w/African American women!!! I will have to admit that contrary to what ppl may think or care to admit those comments are very hurtful! I guess what I don't understand is why are we treated as the lesser? I mean as if we (everyone that is) doesn't have enough to contend with on a daily basis. We as a race are so divided and not because a brother or a sister decides to date out of their race, but simply because of the negative attitudes and lack of respect from both black men and women towards one another. I just have a few questions, if you're happy w/the person you're with then why do you have to make negative comments such as, "I'll never date a black woman"!!! WOW - such self hatred....not because of who you're with but just those words alone state what you really believe about yourself. Quite frankly, AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN are the only ones that make immature statements as such. I've never heard Robert Deniro get on TV and say, I'll never date an Italian woman and yet he has always dated African American women. Additionally, Caucasian men love Asian women, and yet I never heard/hear them say, "I'll never date a white woman"! What gives!!! I think mostly because they are truly (emphasis added) happy w/who they are and who they are with. Also my second question is African American men crack me up because they act as if Caucasian men are sitting around embracing them dating Caucasian women - NOT!!! My son's friend asked a Caucasian girl out, and she told him that "her father said she isn't allowed to date black men! Also my Caucasian girlfriend said one of her clients (African American guy dating Caucasian lady) broke up because the Caucasian young lady's father told her if she continued to date him, she would be written out of his Will" - she broke up w/him! So let's not get it twisted - let's look at this for what it truly is.... And as an African American woman, I say to the brothers at least have enough respect and dignity not to make such negative statements without trying to understand the heart of all women no matter WHO they are! The truth is we could all do a little mudslinging, but really what would and what is that accomplishing??? Guess what, no matter who you decide to settle down with, she/he will still have issues - it all depends on who you decide to allow in your row boat and go through the storm with!!! At the end of the day we're all human....and we all have issues because no one is flawless!!
People make choices based on their experiences, if black men have had a lot of bad experiences with black women, then that's going to shape their view of black women
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counterpoint
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Apr 5 2010, 04:11 PM
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WOW!!! Really sad stuff all the negative stereotypes that are associated w/African American women!!! I will have to admit that contrary to what ppl may think or care to admit those comments are very hurtful! I guess what I don't understand is why are we treated as the lesser? I mean as if we (everyone that is) doesn't have enough to contend with on a daily basis. We as a race are so divided and not because a brother or a sister decides to date out of their race, but simply because of the negative attitudes and lack of respect from both black men and women towards one another. I just have a few questions, if you're happy w/the person you're with then why do you have to make negative comments such as, "I'll never date a black woman"!!! WOW - such self hatred....not because of who you're with but just those words alone state what you really believe about yourself. Quite frankly, AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN are the only ones that make immature statements as such. I've never heard Robert Deniro get on TV and say, I'll never date an Italian woman and yet he has always dated African American women. Additionally, Caucasian men love Asian women, and yet I never heard/hear them say, "I'll never date a white woman"! What gives!!! I think mostly because they are truly (emphasis added) happy w/who they are and who they are with. Also my second question is African American men crack me up because they act as if Caucasian men are sitting around embracing them dating Caucasian women - NOT!!! My son's friend asked a Caucasian girl out, and she told him that "her father said she isn't allowed to date black men! Also my Caucasian girlfriend said one of her clients (African American guy dating Caucasian lady) broke up because the Caucasian young lady's father told her if she continued to date him, she would be written out of his Will" - she broke up w/him! So let's not get it twisted - let's look at this for what it truly is.... And as an African American woman, I say to the brothers at least have enough respect and dignity not to make such negative statements without trying to understand the heart of all women no matter WHO they are! The truth is we could all do a little mudslinging, but really what would and what is that accomplishing??? Guess what, no matter who you decide to settle down with, she/he will still have issues - it all depends on who you decide to allow in your row boat and go through the storm with!!! At the end of the day we're all human....and we all have issues because no one is flawless!!
What about the black men that would still date black women? I'm talking about the guy that doesn't have disparaging words for black women. From what I've seen and heard, black women write those men off because they have dated outside of the race in the past. I've never heard of women of other races saying, "I won't date him because he dated outside of the race before." So why is it that if a black man dates a non-black woman, he is suddenly classified as being no good to date by black women if he is indeed open to dating black women?
No matter the answer, ultimately I agree that tit for tat only serves to further divide men and women.
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