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| Dubs | May 6 2013, 01:51 PM Post #1521 |
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http://obsidianraw.bravejournal.com/index.php "Most men are not "Mack Daddies". Most men do not have a steady rotation of women they can just screw whenever they want. Most men have to put concentrated effort into getting sex. ANY SEX. Some may lie and pretend like all they have to do is look at a girl but we all know that is not true. Most men put in "work" and women need to understand when you are being "worked for sex" versus a genuine interest in a relationship. Many black women take being "worked for sex" as genuine interest because they desperately want a certain type of man. Behavior they would deem unacceptable from an undesirable man would be the "keys to the coochie" for the type of man they want. Many black women will flat out admit that certain men do not turn them on sexually and therefore they are not going to give those man a chance. I don't agree with the mantra that "all black women want thugs" but I do think that black women have a very narrow view of what a dominant man is. Even the most educated of black women have this view. If a man does not appear to be able to be "alpha-dominant" he is going to have a hard time getting attention from black women. Black men that fall outside that acceptable "alpha" paradigm often find themselves questioning whether it is them or the women they are surrounded by. Especially if said man can see that "other" men can have a varying range of personalities, quirks, etc. and still have women treat them with respect. This is why the BWE bloggers say black women need to be reprogrammed. On this point they are spot on. In order for black women to even consider nonblack men as mates, most of them would have to completely change their thought patterns on masculinity."" |
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| nevergiveup | May 16 2013, 01:31 AM Post #1522 |
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| Doctor Magnus Warlock | May 16 2013, 08:10 AM Post #1523 |
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In the words of Nancy Reagan, I will simply "just say no." I hope that is pineapple juice in her hand. |
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| Deleted User | May 16 2013, 04:11 PM Post #1524 |
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Im a single, straight, black, educated female, in late 40's, healthy, most men say im very attractive. I say im more beautiful inside. Most guys my age are married, or gay. I havent dated in 3yrs & yes Im celebate! I dont club often, but I need to find someone for me. Sad, but one of my married homeboys said he feels sorry for women like me cause in reality if we havent found someone at our age by now, we probably won't! That hurts, but so true!! Any advice for me? If you want to view my fb page email me at shayw111@yahoo.com. |
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| reddgirl64 | May 16 2013, 04:33 PM Post #1525 |
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Let's see, Damien will check it out, Marcus will check it out, Ahh, I think that's about it! |
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| LadyBug1 | May 16 2013, 04:37 PM Post #1526 |
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So, AFN has spam on the board now? |
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| reddgirl64 | May 16 2013, 04:40 PM Post #1527 |
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It was bad at one time. Some Asian dude was going crazy on here... Let's enjoy the humor... |
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| LadyBug1 | May 16 2013, 04:48 PM Post #1528 |
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 She sounds like a good catch!!! Edited by LadyBug1, May 16 2013, 04:49 PM.
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| nevergiveup | May 19 2013, 02:46 AM Post #1529 |
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| Snidely Whiplash | May 19 2013, 03:10 AM Post #1530 |
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Drop the celibacy and be personable to the men you find attractive. |
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