| Black man has 6 kids out of Wedlock; Stand up and be a man | |
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| Topic Started: Jan 26 2010, 09:53 PM (4,438 Views) | |
| Marcus | Jan 27 2010, 01:04 PM Post #21 |
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NBA player Shawn Kemp has about 6 or 7 kids out of wedlock Some of you brothers it's time for you to stand up and be men, you got money and still won't marry those women |
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| Mr. J. | Jan 27 2010, 01:29 PM Post #22 |
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My 1st post on this thread/topic should indicate I don't give much import to what grown men & women consensually do in bed, or the by-product of it... even less whether their 'by-product' arrived under the circumstance of a marriage certificate. In my philosophy, it's fundamentally no-one's business but the two adults screwing to make the child. Anyone not agreeing with it can exercise their option to cut off all contact with and support of the two parents. After that's done, you have no further interest to complain about on the matter. My previous post also make clear the view that Blk men need not conform to ALL the 'values' (hypocritical as many are) of whites. And on the matter of if, when and how a Blk man mates w/ one or more women - a Brother should take a stand for, & follow his own instinct and values, not compare himself to what "White male enter[t]ianers" are doing. Then again, it seems we still have a long way to go before we evolve out of an insecure 'boy's' mentality into an independent MAN'S mentality. 'Boy's' Mentality: "will white folks let me have a woman on the side?"; "what if they get upset w/ me?"; "can they fire me or put me in jail for that?" LOLIndependent Man's Mentality: "damn, I sure feel like I wanna mate w/ this other woman... and she seem like she's down w/ it too"; "lemme see how I can arrange my situation to accommodate more than one woman at a time (*other than paying two strippers for their services { })"; "Mmmm, umph !, now I'm feelin' like a real alpha-male should". LOL
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| Chicago | Jan 27 2010, 01:41 PM Post #23 |
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A lot of brothers aint pulling their weight, that's just real talk If you can't afford kids then don't drop your draws |
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| White Man | Jan 27 2010, 03:49 PM Post #24 |
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That's a dam shame you don't see white men going around doing stuff like that |
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| ladyNEWYORK | Jan 27 2010, 04:36 PM Post #25 |
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This is truly a terrible example for the youth, but since the penalty for doing this is not great, dont forget blackman was used as a stud, to produce, slavery mentality still live...So very sad, that some blackmen such little respect for the blackwoman, of their own children. Goes to show...how savage we have become, even with money..A fool and his money, soon parts. also shows the lack of love for self and kind..Really a sad image, just proves, as a people, have fell off, in the 60's we were stronger, and more caring...now..just savages. If the whiteman has many children, doesnt mean we should allow them to be our example, the condition that exist, is thanks to them, not training us to love one another, training was to divide and conquer, telling hatred for own kind. Since this havent been corrected, it grows and becomes worse..if something dont change soon, I weep for the future of our peoples..LOVE has to be the foundation which to strive up from, not hatred of self and kind..that's slavery mentality, money dont change that, has to be knowledge, and love of self and kind, will bring that change...This kind of behavior is TERRIBLE, SHAMEFUL, and a DISGRACE to any civilized nation.. |
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| White Man | Jan 27 2010, 04:42 PM Post #26 |
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Then a lot of the women get on welfare and ask the Government to help take care of their kids. So what are you all going to do about this problem |
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| Elle | Jan 27 2010, 10:05 PM Post #27 |
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Look at statistics per capita, not as a whole. Obviously
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| Last Black man | Jan 27 2010, 10:15 PM Post #28 |
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A man in my home town had over 30 kids and were still having kids in his 60s. |
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| White Man | Jan 27 2010, 10:19 PM Post #29 |
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Was he a black man |
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| Last Black man | Jan 27 2010, 10:19 PM Post #30 |
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They are not going to get married because they have money and with money they can have almost any girl they see. It similar to my frind in college some woman wanted him because his dad had money. The NFL players could get almost any girl on campus and in fact a very pretty lady dumped her boy friend because he did not have NFL money. She got a baby by the NFL guy and so did 8 other women. |
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