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Black man has 6 kids out of Wedlock; Stand up and be a man
Topic Started: Jan 26 2010, 09:53 PM (4,439 Views)
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you haven't answered my question.
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Geechie
Jan 26 2010, 11:45 PM
you haven't answered my question.
What was the question
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Mr. J.

That's what I call smart strategy on the part of mega-rich P. Diddy.

If I had fame & multimillion-dollar fortune, I'd do the same or something similar.

It don't take a rocket scientist to know that 99.9% of woman see a rich man as a meal ticket and will pretend any amount of "love", "admiration" & hero-worship to get in the position to cash-in through the [woman-favored] court system.
Why should a person see traps laying all over the ground and not try to avoid stepping in them?
It's not always a matter of the man being dishonorable, a 'deadbeat' or irresponsible 'sperm-donor' (although many times it is).
But in a lot of cases men are trying to protect themselves from intrusive, unfair, legal dictatorship while still getting something they want (sex & children).

Women know they hold the stronger hand because they get to decide which child they want to prevent (birth control), which one they want to live (delivery) and which one they want to kill (abortion).
Women also don't need any man's cooperation (beyond the sex act) to have a child and keep possession of it, whereas a man need MONTHS of her cooperation to become a father and nearly TWENTY YEARS of her cooperation to keep possession of it (except in minor cases when he is awarded primary custody).
Hell, a woman can decide to have an unprotected "one night stand" with some stranger she met at the club, become pregnant, and go on to fulfill her [planned] reproductive destiny as a "single mother". Or even go to a sperm bank.
But a man can't do the same to fulfill his fatherhood destiny.

The moral of the story is: If a wealthy man (relative to the woman) wants to sow his genes into the world with minimal complication, more freedom and less expense, he will be better off avoiding legal marriage in Western society because the system has stacked the cards against him.

Yes, he will still have to (and should) pay for his child's welfare - voluntarily or involuntarily ('child support') - but he would not be in Tiger Wood's position [right now] - standing to payout 300-500 MILLION $$$ (PLUS CHILD SUPPORT) just because he wanted to be 'honorable' and contract a legal marriage w/ a woman (and the State !), but also wanted the freedom (and right !), as a man, to get some other p**sy when he got ready.

I happen to think men are, basically, polygynous by nature, and I DEFINITELY believe Blk men are (*I know I am). So if a man knows in his heart that he wants his freedom to have more than one woman, and society & Western marriage expectations says he can't (or shouldn't), why pretend to play a role you know you don't agree with?

I commend Puff Daddy, T.I. and all the other wealthy men who refuse to be suckered into an exclusive relationship contract just because women want it that way (for their own benefit), and white society says, "that's how we do things".

BTW, haven't you noticed, when women get wealth they avoid making marriage contracts with men who possess a lot less wealth than they?
Hmmmm...
Edited by Mr. J., Jan 27 2010, 12:38 AM.
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Mr J can you name some White male enterianers, that have 4 or 5 babies out of wedlock

Can think of any
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You don't see white men having 4 or 5 babies out of wedlock
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Don't forget about NFL star Travis Henry who has 11 kids by 10 women (one woman had twins)
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It may true that you don't see it but: (a) media presentation is lopsided and (b) you don't know how many abortions they've financed to keep it that way.
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I'm not going to take up for any man that is doing this shit. Sure they are responsible and i'm not trying to make this a man vs woman issue, but why are these women allowing themselves to be baby mama number 10. It's totaly ridiculous.

Negative news is for blacks, the media only shows positive white stories.
Edited by Rick1, Jan 27 2010, 10:14 AM.
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No white boy/Elle, white men/women abort their babies, kill them, cut off their arms, drive a car into a lake, you know, those silly thing whites do. How many abortions in this country are by whites compared to blacks, hispanics, asians combined?

Brothers/sisters, never arm your enemy with ammo to kill you with. These are issues that affect all americans. More white women are on welfare than black women, white women have abortions so much that the KKK is thinking about dating black! When they do birth a baby, it ususally has autism, ADD, ADHD, etc...

Google, Dogg the Bounty Hunter and see how many kids he has, how many are now in jail/prison (like their father), Mel Gibson (catholic, no less), there are more, but this is fruitless. Tell Elle an white boy to see what the stats are on single white mothers? Let's see if they outnumber blacks!
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bastonecannella
Jan 27 2010, 02:40 AM
It may true that you don't see it but: (a) media presentation is lopsided and (b) you don't know how many abortions they've financed to keep it that way.
Puff Daddy, T.I. and Lil Wanye all of them together got 14 kids out of Wedlock

COME ON SON, you got to do better
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