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I need some help; getting over my ex-best friend.
Topic Started: Oct 20 2011, 06:39 AM (758 Views)
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I have this weird thing where I assume that gay men are disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

But this is not really weird at all, because straight men are also disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

It has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Men are just born that way. <_<
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Oct 21 2011, 07:50 AM
People have this weird thing where they assume that gays are automatically attracted to any male they see. :/ If that was true, then it would be true for straight people as well. And if that was true, I'd have had a crush by now... >.< (insert joke about love life here)
Well, considering that the "standard" male mindset is all about boobs, it's kind of justified, though still an extreme overexaggeration.




To add something more productive in this thread, I'm with Lamna. It could be he's not a homophobe, but simply thinks/thought you might have tried to stalk him, or something like that. And I doubt it's not that easily solveable. My own personal advice is to just let it run its course. (this sounds harsher than it's meant)

Obviously you can't convince him of anything at this point, but maybe you will become closer again later. You said 10 years of friendship can't be just discarded this quickly, and I think part of him feels the same.

A similar thing happened with my best friend at school, although the reason why we broke up our friendship was something different and the amount of time that passed was way smaller, but we still didn't talk to each other for months. Until one day during a schooltrip we were forced together in teams and well, I guess we kinda remembered why we were friends for such a long time in the first place. I even think the friendship was closer after that incident than before, but that may be wishful thinking. Point is, we managed to restore it fully, but not with forcing it. I guess luck plays a factor too.

Not sure if this is any help or makes you feel better, but...
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T.Neo
Oct 21 2011, 10:05 AM
I have this weird thing where I assume that gay men are disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

But this is not really weird at all, because straight men are also disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

It has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Men are just born that way. <_<
And lemme guess, they're only worth their weight in testicles.
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seascorpion
Oct 21 2011, 12:40 AM
as for forgetting, that won't happen, its kind of hard to forget a decade with this guy.


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Oct 20 2011, 05:02 PM
Don't forget him. But look forward to the future. Keep up with his whereabouts. And when the time is right, hunt him down. And when you have him pinned on the floor of his house, tell him what he did was wrong, pick him up, dust him off, and walk the fuck outta there to Guile's theme with some swag in your step.


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T.Neo
Oct 21 2011, 10:05 AM
I have this weird thing where I assume that gay men are disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

But this is not really weird at all, because straight men are also disgusting, sexually immature pigs.

It has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Men are just born that way. <_<
Because women are always such prude and mature [/sarcasm]
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I don't know why you would say that... just because women are not like men, doesn't mean they are mature or prudish.
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Ok that's it. It's official. Sarcasm cannot be transmitted over the internet. I literally said it was sarcasm!
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Are nipples or genitals necessary, lamna?
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Well... Why don't you just tell him what you told us? Is he willing to throw away ten years of friendship and good memories over something as stupid as sexual orientation? And why does he even care so much about what you want to do with your body behind closed doors? It's not like you're asking him to go to a giant gay orgy...
We should all aspire to die surrounded by our dearest friends. Just like Julius Caesar.

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OR DID YOU??


And T Neo what do you have against men? You make them out to be such vile creatures.
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In case you haven't noticed, he's right... >.<
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And in case you haven't noticed it's a goddamned blanket statement comparable to calling black people less intelligent than Anglo-Saxons.
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Wait, they're not? :V
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People are different :r

There are differences between cultures and genders though, no denying that
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Actually what T Neo is ripping on is closer to subculture influence than the intelligence of an African is. Don't mistaken intelligence for education.
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