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Topic Started: Aug 30 2008, 09:53 PM (836 Views)
jaLib0y
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well, since theres no one to complain. let me be the first to do so. :itwastme:
not much of a complain really, but just wanna assure myself. and probably the sake of other guys as well.

its about, you've guessed it, GIRLS/WOMENS.

i have to admit, we guys, we have EGO, yes we do, but that doesn't mean we want to win all the time do we? Why can't some women/girls say sorry if they have done something bad/wrong and always tries to put the blame on the other sex. This happens mostly to all. (NOT ALL) :rollseyes:
What i'm trying to say is this, they(women) always complain that guys have egos the size of the earth, BUT is this really true? I have seen girls with larger or should i rephrase that, ENORMOUS egos that triumph over us guys. Its there, they just don't wanna admit it. :smoke:


well, opposites attract? or is it?
Edited by jaLib0y, Aug 30 2008, 09:53 PM.
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Good question!hahah

Firstly, you GUYS seriously are far too egoistic. Its not about winning, but its more of your own pride! You guys think that you HAVE to be BETTER than the girls out there, or girlf.

Secondly, i STRONGLY believe that this got to do with the girl's character itself. Cos i don't see any wrong in apologizing if i've done something bad/wrong. LOL

Thirdly, i have to say that i really can't stand guys being so so bloody EGOISTIC.
HAHAHAHAHAH
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"You guys think that you HAVE to be BETTER than the girls out there" as qouted by ZOE

i truly believe that this is already been made up by GOD when he created us. lol
Even in the animal kingdom, the male counterpart is highly regarded as king and leader of any groups, clearly not to be misunderstood with human behaviour. :cool:

But(there's always a but lol), pride isn't always ego. Some people do like to stand up for what they believe in ~ are they ego-maniac as well? or are they just righteous? EGO is not even an emotion to begin with, having an ego, from my point of view, boosts your self confidence and esteem.

Similar to stress, too much of "ego" is not healthy :sealedlips: . Friends will create "distances" from you, your loved ones gets sick and tired of you always wanting to win.


I guess both sexes have ego. Thats why this question started, and with ego present in ourselves, this topic will never ever end. :D
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Thats why this question started, and with ego present in ourselves, this topic will never ever end.

(i loveeee it. In this way, my ranking can be higher too!) LOL

So you're like looking down on girls/women aren't you?HAHAHA For your information, women these days can definitely climb higher and faster than guys. In this century, women out there no longer stay at home to cook/do housework! & be a good wife..giving a kiss to her husband before he leaves for work in the morning, telling him to be back EARLY for dinner. They are out in the world fighting with other guys and proving that we girls/women, can DEFINITELY be better than GUYS. LOL

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having an ego, from my point of view, boosts your self confidence and esteem.

Sometimes, people think toooooo highly of themselves, which involves one being far too self confidence and esteem, will end up being tooo proud(like PEACOCK!) LOL

Anyway, i don't think it will be good winning all the time. You will never learn your mistakes and you will never ever be motivated to push forward. :D

Edited by jaLib0y, Sep 2 2008, 12:06 PM.
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jaLib0y
 
i have to admit, we guys, we have EGO, yes we do, but that doesn't mean we want to win all the time do we?

Yes in my point of view :rockon:

jaLib0y
 
Why can't some women/girls say sorry if they have done something bad/wrong and always tries to put the blame on the other sex. This happens mostly to all. (NOT ALL)

Hmm lol in my case well as u guys know i'm a little guyish so yeah LOL i think my pride more important LOL for minor case (like arguement) then heck the person.. but of course not unreasonably luh not that kind of person. If i did something wrong i will be responsible for it ;) :good:


But guys these days are really *sighs* like Zoe says how guys have to be better than girls -.- come on man... We girls are much better now compared to the olden days -.- Guys says whatever crap and girls takes the shit now is like payback time =D where girls have equal rights. God created each and everyone of us with equal rights so there is no Guys are always BETTER'. If you keep on thinking this way you are hopeless...
Edited by jaLib0y, Sep 2 2008, 12:06 PM.
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But guys these days are really *sighs* like Zoe says how guys have to be better than girls -.- come on man... We girls are much better now compared to the olden days -.- Guys says whatever crap and girls takes the shit now is like payback time =D where girls have equal rights. God created each and everyone of us with equal rights so there is no Guys are always BETTER'. If you keep on thinking this way you are hopeless...

thats true irene. But then again, there are some things that girls cant do that guys can, and vice versa. in other words, we all need each other to, *cough* survive in this world. don't it? :smoke: And yeah girls are better capable of handling themselves, BUT this only applies to some.

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So you're like looking down on girls/women aren't you?HAHAHA For your information, women these days can definitely climb higher and faster than guys.

and zoe, im looking down on you female counterparts :itwastme: . I know being the weaker species(naturally) :giggles: is a pain in the butt. Like i said, u girls got ego, so do us guys. Thus the conclusion this forum topic will never stop. :congrats:


Edited by jaLib0y, Sep 2 2008, 12:07 PM.
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And thus this discussion shall not end just yet.
We GUYS DO have ego.
And yes i agree that to most guys thinking is that "Guys must be better than girls" or "We must not lose out to the girls", if not they will have no face that kinda thing.

However, as Razali said, "i truly believe that this is already been made up by GOD when he created us."
This may be the reason that drives us on and on. If not there may be no compeitition.
The older generation (such as our parents) may believe in this thinking thats why its been passed on down by generations and generations through upbringing that guys have to be better than girls.

Yeah, Irene i have to admit i agree with you for ONCE.
ONCE only.
That girls are much better now compared to the olden days of the past.
Example: More women joining the workforce, etc.
BUT i have to disagree with you on something.
"So there is no Guys are always BETTER", qouted from ITAL. LOL

Since you said God made the world an equal place for both the male and female species living on our very planet in the solar system, it does NOT mean no guys are always better. :angry:

I believe that BOTH guys and girls have their own equal STRENGTHS and WEAKNESSES.
Thus, every male or female will need each other in the end. (by default its a yes. unless he or she is homo la). 8^O
Edited by Nic, Sep 2 2008, 10:37 AM.
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INIC : believe that BOTH guys and girls have their own equal STRENGTHS and WEAKNESSES.


i have to disagree onn this one. Guys and Girls they do have strength and weakness BUT not equal. For instance, we guys naturally have the upper hand ability to do those manly stuffs, like say, carrying heavy objects, better at coordination & not scared of animals such as cats lol.

the girls on the other hand, i can only think of weakness. Take for example, the cat encounter during our chalet...need i say more? :giggles:
Strength? maybe the endurance of broken relationships? Girls are better at showing emotions than guys are, thats for sure. I'd prefer a girl who shows emotion then have Emily the strange become my girlfriend. :D
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Sep 2 2008, 11:53 AM
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INIC : believe that BOTH guys and girls have their own equal STRENGTHS and WEAKNESSES.


i have to disagree onn this one. Guys and Girls they do have strength and weakness BUT not equal. For instance, we guys naturally have the upper hand ability to do those manly stuffs, like say, carrying heavy objects, better at coordination & not scared of animals such as cats lol.

the girls on the other hand, i can only think of weakness. Take for example, the cat encounter during our chalet...need i say more? :giggles:
Strength? maybe the endurance of broken relationships? Girls are better at showing emotions than guys are, thats for sure. I'd prefer a girl who shows emotion then have Emily the strange become my girlfriend. :D
:shy: True sia.
Yea the cat ENCOUNTER explains all actually. =P

Very few women go to NS also.
Or am i wrong? LOL
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Very few women go to NS also.
Or am i wrong?


Its not very few, its NONE. "0", zero, nil, not at all. :happy:

NIC
 
Yea the cat ENCOUNTER explains all actually. =P


you read my mind. :itwastme:
Edited by jaLib0y, Sep 2 2008, 12:05 PM.
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I have to admit that when it comes to very few certain things,we girls definitely need guys around to help.
BUT, not all girls are afraid of cats right?! WE or rather myself, do not need a guy to chase the cats away! Another girl can definitely do the same thing as you do. hahahahahah like zakkiyah, she is not afraid of cats! Therefore, conclusion = guys are not great afterall.

& yes, like what JALIBOY said,
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Girls are better at showing emotions than guys are, thats for sure


Sometimes, guys NEED girls around to help them okay! & anyway, a girl/women will definitely be more caring & sensible(in a way) than you guysssssss.


hohohoho i loveeeee this topic! LOL
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i forgot to add in.
YOU GUYS ARE DAMN BLOODY IMPATIENT COMPARED TO GIRLS/WOMEN!

For example, JALIBOY! LOL
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2 minutes ago I have to admit that when it comes to very few certain things,we girls definitely need guys around to help.
BUT, not all girls are afraid of cats right?! WE or rather myself, do not need a guy to chase the cats away! Another girl can definitely do the same thing as you do. hahahahahah like zakkiyah, she is not afraid of cats! Therefore, conclusion = guys are not great afterall.

i wasnt refering to you, but since you said it, might as well i say this too, If lets say gladys, you and nisa happen to be in a ca filled environment, i can only think of one word - PANDEMONIUM.
And furthermore, Majority on this world would stand up when i say ALL GIRLS have a soft spot, thats why they dont make good leaders. I dunno about this, i somehow agree to this sentence. :p

ZOE
 
Sometimes, guys NEED girls around to help them okay! & anyway, a girl/women will definitely be more caring & sensible(in a way) than you guysssssss.

its true though, this i have to admit. Having the opposite sex can be irritating at times, but i guess we all need each other dont it?
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Sep 2 2008, 12:11 PM
i forgot to add in.
YOU GUYS ARE DAMN BLOODY IMPATIENT COMPARED TO GIRLS/WOMEN!

not entirely true though. :sealedlips:

i've met some impatient girls too. LAZY ones for sure. Our class got one, very small2 girl. :cool:
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Ahaha yea yea. LOL
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